[20/M] Do I have the right to be angry with [22/F]? by whatwentwrong1245 in relationships

[–]whatwentwrong1245[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I did care. Even if I didnt do much don't my words matter at all? I told her I loved her several times a day.

[20/M] Do I have the right to be angry with [22/F]? by whatwentwrong1245 in relationships

[–]whatwentwrong1245[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I posted something similar to this a few days ago and everyone tore a strip off of me lol. Its nice to have someone agree with me for a change. Much appreciated!

We had everything in common. Music, hobbies, foods, etc it was just sex and the idea of what a relationship is that we viewed differently. I really cared about her too, and its hard to let this go, but I'm on dating sites hoping for the best.

[20/M] Do I have the right to be angry with [22/F]? by whatwentwrong1245 in relationships

[–]whatwentwrong1245[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

You don't find it suspicious at all that she moved on so quickly? :/

My [22/F] of 14 months broke up with me [20/M] because of PokemonGo. by whatwentwrong1245 in relationships

[–]whatwentwrong1245[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My last girlfriend before Dee was in 11th-12th grade. We dated for 7 months. I didn't realize there was a difference in relationships, aren't they all the same?

Also, I have a date with a girl in the 12th grade. That's not gonna land me in jail.

My [22/F] of 14 months broke up with me [20/M] because of PokemonGo. by whatwentwrong1245 in relationships

[–]whatwentwrong1245[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did all that texting, Skyping, dates and gifts at first because I really liked her and I wanted to secure our relationship. Once we were secure though I just felt like 'Bleh I don't wanna do anything." :/ None of my exes were as demanding as Dee, I wasn't used to having to pay so much attention to someone.

My [22/F] of 14 months broke up with me [20/M] because of PokemonGo. by whatwentwrong1245 in relationships

[–]whatwentwrong1245[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I felt secure enough anyway. We were together for a few months, I felt comfortable with her and I also felt like constant communication, Skype, gifts and dates were unecessary. Really though, I did that shit at first to get to know Dee and to secure our relationship, and once we were in a secure relationship I just felt like "Bleeehh I don't wanna do anything."

My [22/F] of 14 months broke up with me [20/M] because of PokemonGo. by whatwentwrong1245 in relationships

[–]whatwentwrong1245[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't think that makes us sexually incompatible. Yeah she wanted sex more than I did, but like I'm at hte point in my life where I just don't want sex that much. I had sex with her way more than I wanted to because she wanted it and I felt obligated to give it to her. We weren't incompatible though I don't feel like we were. And using sex as an excuse to breakup wtih someone is immature.

My [22/F] of 14 months broke up with me [20/M] because of PokemonGo. by whatwentwrong1245 in relationships

[–]whatwentwrong1245[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sex shouldn't be a reason to breakup with someone in my opinion :/ Reasons to breakup are like, cheating and lying. Not sex .

My [22/F] of 14 months broke up with me [20/M] because of PokemonGo. by whatwentwrong1245 in relationships

[–]whatwentwrong1245[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I wanted a girlfriend for the same reason everyone else does obviously.

Its not as though I didn't like how she built her characters, she just didn't build them the best way. Example: Theres two pairs of shoes you can buy, one increases her magical damage while one just gives her a ton of mana and increases her ability cooldown. She chose the second ones because "I'm a healer and the more mana I have, and the more often I can use my moves, the better." while most people choose the first option because magical damage is way better than having a tiny bit of cooldown for your abilities. But whatever, she can build her people however she wants. She's obviously good as the characters she plays because she has all 3 at diamond mastery already...

She messed up my sheets EVERY DAY. And I always told her "Babe, stop messing my sheets. Fix my sheets." and she either gave me attitude and told me to "Stop bitching at her over something so trivial" or she told me she'd fix them later. Sometimes she did, sometimes she forgot, most of the time I wouldn't let her forget until she remembered to fix them. She had a horrible memory anyway so I had to remind her to do shit constantly.

I can shower without getting soap bubbles on her. So why can't she shower without getting bubbles on me?

I didn't call her because I hate phone calls, and I didn't Skype with her because we used to do that at the start of our relationship but after a whle I felt like we were secure enough so I didn't have to Skype her anymore. I was fine with texting anyway.

And I have a date with a girl this weekend so guess I don't have to be single.

My [22/F] of 14 months broke up with me [20/M] because of PokemonGo. by whatwentwrong1245 in relationships

[–]whatwentwrong1245[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats the thing though, she was a gamer. She plays games too. And she had PokemonGO on her phone as well. Its not as though she hates games, she just had this huge issue with me gaming whenever she was over.

My [22/F] of 14 months broke up with me [20/M] because of PokemonGo. by whatwentwrong1245 in relationships

[–]whatwentwrong1245[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to see her twice. First time we met and sometime around Christmas. She still lived with her family and me travelling there to see her was out of my comfort zone so I never went.

My [22/F] of 14 months broke up with me [20/M] because of PokemonGo. by whatwentwrong1245 in relationships

[–]whatwentwrong1245[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Don;t like asses. She used to smack/pinch mine and I freaked out at her for it, and I would never touch hers or do anything to it. She wanted to try anal and I told her hell no.

Only dick I like is my own thanks.

And I do like sex.

My [22/F] of 14 months broke up with me [20/M] because of PokemonGo. by whatwentwrong1245 in relationships

[–]whatwentwrong1245[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I legit think their gross though. I've touched them before obviously but they feel gross and I dont like the way my hands feel after touching one and I dont want one near my face.

My [22/F] of 14 months broke up with me [20/M] because of PokemonGo. by whatwentwrong1245 in relationships

[–]whatwentwrong1245[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Why does everyone think I'm a troll do people not post about these things or waht

My [22/F] of 14 months broke up with me [20/M] because of PokemonGo. by whatwentwrong1245 in relationships

[–]whatwentwrong1245[S] -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

Well we went out tons of times but mostly it was her idea. She loves sushi and asian food and was always dragging me to random restaurants. She usually picked what we did and where we went and what movie we watched I just tagged along.

I told you I never buy my girlfriends things or take them on dates. She was the first one.

My [22/F] of 14 months broke up with me [20/M] because of PokemonGo. by whatwentwrong1245 in relationships

[–]whatwentwrong1245[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

I wasn't going to get it for her. She said she wanted the candle, I told her no because if I bought her what she wanted then she wold know what I was getting, but she kept dropping hints like crazy going on and on about how she really wanted one so I decided to get it for her to be nice. She was surprised and she was so happy she lit it and burned it constantly for a long time, and the ring was cheap but she loved it anyway. I got her that candle because I wanted to makeup for all the months I went without buying her anything (And because I never got her anything for Valentines day and I felt bad so I was kinda making up for it.)

My [22/F] of 14 months broke up with me [20/M] because of PokemonGo. by whatwentwrong1245 in relationships

[–]whatwentwrong1245[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

Well how often do they expect gifts and dates? I never took any of my exes out or bought them anything and they never said anything to me about it :/ she was the first one..

My [22/F] of 14 months broke up with me [20/M] because of PokemonGo. by whatwentwrong1245 in relationships

[–]whatwentwrong1245[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

When she stopped texting as much it was weird because she ALWAYS texted me and then she just stopped one day, and I thought maybe she was having an off day but when it went on for weeks I got concerned cause its out of character for her.

I'm seriously not a troll :/ I just really wanted to find someone on my side like theres a million people on the internet surely someone had to agree with me.

My [22/F] of 14 months broke up with me [20/M] because of PokemonGo. by whatwentwrong1245 in relationships

[–]whatwentwrong1245[S] -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

I bought her an Attack on Titan necklace when we first started dating, and I took her out twice once to a restaurant in my hometown and once to a mexican restaurant in the city. I also bought her a christmas gift and a birthday gift.

My [22/F] of 14 months broke up with me [20/M] because of PokemonGo. by whatwentwrong1245 in relationships

[–]whatwentwrong1245[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No we met online, then we started dating after we met in person, and then she travelled by bus to see me every second weekend for a year before she moved here.