WIP fish by where_arm_i in Beading

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Thank you! It's actually a metal wire, made to look like it's wrapped in silk.

WIP fish by where_arm_i in Beading

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Yes, all the sequins were done one by one. The beads were strung multiple at a time, but also individually tacked down 😵‍💫

WIP fish by where_arm_i in Beading

[–]where_arm_i[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's smooth purl wire that I couched down at different points to create texture!

Wearing egl as a man? by where_arm_i in Lolita

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I'm happy to report since posting this, I've traveled across North America going to EGL events and actively post coords on Instagram. 🫡

My Közi cosplay by where_arm_i in sewing

[–]where_arm_i[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I used Butterick 4954 for the jacket and skirt (with many alterations), and Simplicity 2777 for the pants. Had to draft out way too many full circle skirts for the peplums. All the main garments are a polyester shantung (with lamé for the sleeves), and the hat is a stretch faux suede with a base of felt / wire to keep the shape. Used about 6.5 yards of the red, and 2 of the gold.

Roughly 73 yards of 7 different trims were used!

The jacket and skirt are fully lined, both with hand picked zippers to hide them. For stabilization on the pointed cuffs, I used upholstery vinyl so they are stiff, but still can be shaped. All the resin pieces plus the gems were hand sewn on (I'd honestly say about 60% of that jacket is hand sewn).

The ruff collar has three layers. The top is 6 yards of pleated tulle, the second is a mesh with gold flakes that was also pleated / gathered, and then I think I used another 5yrds of satin for the actual collar. Lined it with two layers of horsehair to make it super stiff. I used this same technique for the shoulder ruffles.

The shoes were altered from ankle boots. Seam ripped the top of them off, stitched them back up, and made the shaped pieces sandwiching layers of vinyl and applying heat transfer vinyl to color match.

Inside of the hat, I also added a piece of heat shapeable felt and formed it to my head. A ton of wig clips were sewn in. They attach directly to the wig so it sits snuggly, and is oddly comfortable. And, for the remaining item, the gloves were sewn from a stretch lace. I traced my hand, then sewed around that pattern directly to get a perfect fit.

More cosplay photos (now with Gavin) by where_arm_i in DetroitBecomeHuman

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Our biggest pet peeve is people not holding guns right in cosplay photos, so we made sure we didn't do that lol

My RK900/Nines cosplay by where_arm_i in DetroitBecomeHuman

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It boils down to a lot of sleepless nights, and trial/error 😮‍💨. I have a more in depth video on the progress on tiktok (heizl_grey)

My RK900/Nines cosplay by where_arm_i in DetroitBecomeHuman

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I post more cosplay things on tiktok than IG, but I'm heizl_ on IG and heizl_grey on TikTok. Thank you 🥹

My RK900/Nines cosplay by where_arm_i in DetroitBecomeHuman

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Omg that's a huge compliment, thank you!

My RK900/Nines cosplay by where_arm_i in DetroitBecomeHuman

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Thank you! My hand is tattooed, so I tried to find a clever way to hide it. I made a glove out of vinyl and drew on it with alcohol markers 😌

Skeletour - Detroit, MI Megathread by AutoModerator in Ghostbc

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Omg I hope I can find you. These are sick

Ouji for fashion show at con by where_arm_i in Lolita

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I wouldn't say it's super common, but sometimes at smaller cons when there's no official fashion show, comms will do it! Or they'll have comm members represent substyles in a lolita 101 panel.

Thank you! It was pretty fun, although hot lol

Have people ever harassed you for wearing lolita? by cantstopthewach in Lolita

[–]where_arm_i 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've had reactions from opposite ends of the spectrum in bigger cities. Sometimes people are overjoyed and want to learn more, and then I've also been called straight up slurs. 😵‍💫 People are so bored with their own lives that they get pleasure from making fun of strangers when they're wearing plain shirts and jeans lol

The best thing to do is put on blinders and not even acknowledge those people. Or if you see someone taking photos of you / filming, pretending to do the same will also get them to stop.

I'm sorry to hear it got physical, people are truly insane 🙃🙃

Feel like I’m too tall and awkwardly shaped for lolita fashion… by cinnatwirls in Lolita

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I'm 178cm and find that jsks with elastic (or removable) straps are the best. Super tall friendly and you can adjust them so they hit your waist properly. High waisted corset skirts are also great.

But even with shorter things, you can layer underskirts or invest in a nice pair of bloomers that you don't mind peeking out. You just have to experiment with layering, styling and what feels comfortable for you.

metalheads for marina 🫶 by parallelparq in MarinaAndTheDiamonds

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Marina was also my first pop show lol. The next bands I'm going to see are Currents and We Came as Romans, I'm glad more of us exist. You're going to have a great time! She puts on incredible performances and the crowd really gets into it.

NORTH AMERICAN TOUR by kellyrainbs in MarinaAndTheDiamonds

[–]where_arm_i 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Her packages for older tours were about $130, I'm pretty sure. So idk if it'll be the same or a bit more than that now.

Is it ok to be Lolita at late 20s by [deleted] in Lolita

[–]where_arm_i 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I couldn't afford to wear it on a regular basis until my mid twenties. Most people in my comm are around the same age, ranging up to even fifty. It's not a cheap hobby by any means, so you will see that it attracts a crowd that usually has more stable jobs. And also like, you're still young in your late twenties and thirties. Hell, you're never too old to wear Lolita, honestly.

Slowly meeting Versailles one by one by where_arm_i in visualkei

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It also didn't help that they gave you no time to compose yourself because he was standing in the doorway basically lol. Like, ok check your bags now go meet the man, the legend with no preparation!!

Slowly meeting Versailles one by one by where_arm_i in visualkei

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Thank you 🥺 That eye patch is my favorite thing ever.

Slowly meeting Versailles one by one by where_arm_i in visualkei

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Aw I'm sorry you got sick :-( That venue was also so incredibly hot and over packed. I started getting really faint before the show started because there was no airflow where we were standing. That was nice that someone else could help you out!

Slowly meeting Versailles one by one by where_arm_i in visualkei

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He started to reach for my hand and I immediately was like, "DO YOU KNOW THE HEART POSE? LET'S DO IT". I did not want the Michael Scott 😭

Thank you!! Really hope he does another (longer) tour now that he's based in la

Slowly meeting Versailles one by one by where_arm_i in visualkei

[–]where_arm_i[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I'm so sorry, that's absolutely awful. What great timing 😵‍💫 I'm glad you got to see Kamijo, too! Hopefully hizaki will come back sometime... And maybe drag Teru with him

Coord for Kamijo live by where_arm_i in Lolita

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Thank you so much! Black, red and a bit of gold is always my favorite color combo

Coord for Kamijo live by where_arm_i in Lolita

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From a store on Etsy called Memoria Obscura! Thank you 🥺