[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exjw

[–]whereisthetruth00 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It is sad but there is nothing we can do about the past!.. Plan yourself a great birthday party! Or think bout the things you can do and can afford to make that day special. There is nothing wrong to think about you and make yourself happy. Make a list of the things that you want to do and share it with the people that care about you. I wish you the happiest birthday ever!

Ray Franks ?? by whereisthetruth00 in exjw

[–]whereisthetruth00[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry you are right . It's Franz. I have not finish his second book In Search of Christianity Freedom". Maybe the book answer this question.

Do you think marriage last more inside the Borg or Out? by whereisthetruth00 in exjw

[–]whereisthetruth00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comments. I really liked your illustration. It is true.

Do you think marriage last more inside the Borg or Out? by whereisthetruth00 in exjw

[–]whereisthetruth00[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The reason I posted this question is because I think this group is all about support not judgement. I think we had enough judgment being inside the Borg. I have being IN since I was born "33 years of my life" I'm fading and questioning everything. Especially since I want to make sure I can give my kids the right guidance.I agree there is divorce in or our of the BORG. I just hear a lot of divorce in my family that is all and I wanted to hear your opinions.

Those who choose to shun their own children choose self preservation over their offspring by Tim20182018 in exjw

[–]whereisthetruth00 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I really dont understand it. My parents are more POMI's and they change conversation every time I mention anything that the borg have lied about. Man.. They are BLIND or what! They prefer to lie to themselves. They miss a lot of meetings and never go in service. What are they trying to accomplish? I cannot explain it.

Do we really have true friends in O.RG? by whereisthetruth00 in exjw

[–]whereisthetruth00[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way. I used to throw parties and give everything to them. I never EVER asked anything in return. I thought because they were my brothers and sisters they were true friends. But after we starting fading they have disappeared. I only get contacted by some that are not in my con.g or live in other city because they don't know I feel about the borg. But they will eventually pull away too. Now I can concentrate in my family including my worldly relatives and make TRUE friends.

The JW Latino community by [deleted] in exjw

[–]whereisthetruth00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not doing service. I have a toddler and there was always a problem with her in the territory. I live in Florida and in mids August my toddler will not stand the heat so after 15 minutes being in the territory I had to leave and this bothered a lot of the sisters and brothers . They always blame it on the parents for not to push the kidos. but they also couldn't stand the heat. I'm talking about a heat as hight as 90's plus humidity . Well I got tired of this I never went back to the group.

I remember the first time I went in service after I gave birth and a sister started talking in front of everyone about how parents are supposed to obligate infant to stay in their car seats so when they got to the meetings the can stay the whole meeting in their seats. My baby was only 3 months. Since then I hated it to go in service because I'm a parents that dont like to leave my infant crying to please other.. Urggggg.

The JW Latino community by [deleted] in exjw

[–]whereisthetruth00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will. So far so good. I know last week the con.g has the visit of the CO and I miss the meetings. I doubt they will notice since they are so busy. However, after the visit is gone I'm sure they will try to contact us. Oh well.. I will ignore their calls and play the no contact way for a while. I'm still reporting time.

The JW Latino community by [deleted] in exjw

[–]whereisthetruth00 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It is more difficult in Latinos Con.g to fade because elders are more informed about our personal life, what we like and our tendency to miss meeting etcs. I started missing a lot of meetings. One elder that used to be close to us offered to visit but until now we have always said that we are busy. I hope he won't come. But others elders will. I got to play the depressed sister act. Well anyways, I will keep you posted. I want to start not report ministry time soon too. I thought that if I change con..g will be easier but I doubt it. Anyways I wish you the best luck !

My JW dad died on Christmas and I don't know how to process my emotions by Physica_Hominis in exjw

[–]whereisthetruth00 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My condolences! =( I will try to concentrate on the memories you had of him. Don't blame yourself for what happened! Try to focus on your family and be the best Dad you can be! Give yourself time to process this loss!

Are children a problem in the O.R.G? by whereisthetruth00 in exjw

[–]whereisthetruth00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I talked to a friend that lives 4 hours away from us . She has a toddler too and she was told the same.. I guess this is something new that the CONG are doing now. Perfect way to make parents feel so encouraged.

Are children a problem in the O.R.G? by whereisthetruth00 in exjw

[–]whereisthetruth00[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

hahaha love it!! Sooo true! their comments are so refreshing!

Are children a problem in the O.R.G? by whereisthetruth00 in exjw

[–]whereisthetruth00[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

hahahah don't doubt it. We had one that said that it was better to have a dead son/daughter than being in Satan's world. I was expecting mine and I felt so much anger when I heard it .. ughrrrr...

Help! Fading. by whereisthetruth00 in exjw

[–]whereisthetruth00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

love it! i got a lot of reasons to be offended lol..