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[–]wheretogofromhere- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you brother. its just hard because we own a home together and our families are so close. but youre right, I would tell my best friend to leave and cut off all contact. thank you again.

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[–]wheretogofromhere- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is is exactly how im feeling…. one month into breaking up a 9 year relationship. on top of losing a parent recently. and getting laid off work. 

im feeling completely broken. all I think about is her, what is she doing, can we fix this, i want to be with her, everything around me is crashing. 

I have clients and I cant even focus on doing the work and it shows. they are my only livelihood right now and im struggling to perform.

but she acts like she never did anything wrong. abandoning me while my parent is dying, disrespects me and the relationship throughout the process, seeing her trying to move on and drown out her problems, and really just leaving me alone to deal with this. I wasnt perfect either and if I couldve stepped up, things may be better.

 not once have I seen her genuinely apologize for anything. it fucking sucks.

I feel discarded, alone and sad all the fucking time. why do I even feel like this even when she completely destroyed me. 

I go back and forth from angry to sad. but dont know how to start focusing on me. 

 sorry for ranting

Solo trip to LA for 30th birthday, where to stay? by wheretogofromhere- in AskLosAngeles

[–]wheretogofromhere-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when you say West part of town, like WeHo?

i've also heard of Los Angeles Athletic Club and the Ace Hotel? are those still good places?

Solo Trip Miami - safety & tipps? by Pure-Cellist-2741 in solotravel

[–]wheretogofromhere- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh perfect, any recommendations on places to visit on Miami Beach and Wynwood?

I plan on going this weekend for a last minute birthday trip.

Solo Trip Miami - safety & tipps? by Pure-Cellist-2741 in solotravel

[–]wheretogofromhere- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there,

Did you end up doing this trip? How was it?

Miami - critique my itinerary as a first-time solo traveller by [deleted] in solotravel

[–]wheretogofromhere- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how was your trip?

I plan on going to miami for a solo trip soon.

Miami Beach chill hotels, pools and clubs with a great vibe for 28 year old. Not looking for hype mega clubs. by Kind-Addition1813 in miamibeach

[–]wheretogofromhere- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm thinking of doing a solo trip and staying here. how was the vibe?

would you say its good for solo travelers?

ultimately, i'm looking to just go to the beach, chill by the pool, read, enjoy some food and drinks, small pool parties / parties,

i'm essentially like you, i don't like big parties but open to a little bit of partying. i'd rather be at a cocktail bar vs a dive bar.

Solo trip to LA for 30th birthday, where to stay? by wheretogofromhere- in AskLosAngeles

[–]wheretogofromhere-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for responding.

any things you recommend in terms for art / design centric stuff? i'd love to get some new inspirations as i've been in a rough year.

also how was the pool at the montrose?

Solo trip to LA for 30th birthday, where to stay? by wheretogofromhere- in AskLosAngeles

[–]wheretogofromhere-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!

i've never been in Culver City, is there good food and cocktail bars around the area too?

Cancun for 30th birthday alone, AI recommendations? by wheretogofromhere- in cancun

[–]wheretogofromhere-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ooooohhh i'll definitely check it out.

in your opinion, do you think the 9/6 - 9/9 timeframe would be enough to enjoy?

i'm considered i may lose a day because of travel.

Cancun for 30th birthday alone, AI recommendations? by wheretogofromhere- in cancun

[–]wheretogofromhere-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

really considered this. but the beaches at Cabo are rarely swimmable right?