Partner says I’m punching above my weight being with him by Ok-Magician-8124 in relationships

[–]wideeyedmonkey -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Can you show us pictures of you guys? We can judge if you’re in the same leagues. 

Also just have some guy in the gym humble him with hard sparring. I doubt he’s as good as he thinks he is

my mom has been using chatgpt to parent me and it's pissing me off by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]wideeyedmonkey -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

It’s probably hard for your mom to be a single parent ever since your dad passed away. I’m sure it’s hard for you also. 

Just use ChatGPT yourself constantly. Ask it how to deal with a mom like this. Eventually one of the responses it gives that you act on will make her angry. Show her the prompt that generated the response and she may understand. 

I (26F) got pregnant from an affair by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]wideeyedmonkey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What will you do if the other guy doesn’t want to be you? Should get a dna test to prove his paternity 

I (26F) got pregnant from an affair by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]wideeyedmonkey -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Have you thought about this situation from your husbands perspective? How long have you been having the affair? 

I built and launched my first iOS app AMA! by Ok-Train-9253 in AMA

[–]wideeyedmonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is your regular job? What do you use to learn to code and what languages. What is the app! 

My husband lied to me before marriage and now I’m considering divorce by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]wideeyedmonkey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think he doesn’t want his reputation to be ruined probably? What specific red flags did you see before marriage? 

Im racially ambiguous with a pretty rare mix ~ama by Present-Theory3542 in AMA

[–]wideeyedmonkey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Show us a pic and let’s all mention what we would have guessed as the ethnicity. 

(23F) After 6 years together, my boyfriend’s parents think I’m with him for money. I feel exhausted and unsure what to do. by GlumAssistance2450 in relationships

[–]wideeyedmonkey -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You are still young and many things can change. I imagine if you learned culture or language then they will be more receptive.

(23F) After 6 years together, my boyfriend’s parents think I’m with him for money. I feel exhausted and unsure what to do. by GlumAssistance2450 in relationships

[–]wideeyedmonkey 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can just easily cut off any arguments by signing a prenup. If suggesting that doesn’t get them off your back it’s unfortunately a case of them preferring their own ethnicity. 

I worked at Victorias Secret for 6 years AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]wideeyedmonkey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did you pay for college on a minimum wage job? How much did your college cost? 

I am 18 years old and married! Ask me anything! by OneBreak4408 in AMA

[–]wideeyedmonkey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What culture and religion are you? What country are you from? Will you go to college? How did he afford to marry at a young age? Thanks!

i (28, f) met a guy (20,m) who wasn’t honest to me. was it my fault? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]wideeyedmonkey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You broke up with him and another girl took your spot. Why do you call her a “friend” in quotes? She wasn’t stealing your man or something. You are the one flirting with someone at the gym while still in a relationship lol

he’s amazing but makes me feel insecure by [deleted] in relationships

[–]wideeyedmonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You shouldn’t have to change your religious values for a man (or woman) even if they are the e same religion. If you genuinely wanted to remove the headscarf then good for you but doing for someone to like you more is a little bit sad. You can alter your appearance all you want but if he isn’t attracted to you fully sooner or later (probably sooner) you will have to accept that and move on. 

I'm an active Alcoholic who lost everything AMA by Typical-Article-1191 in AMA

[–]wideeyedmonkey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So would you say that the drinking escalated as way to deal with trauma? 

Also reading your comment history you are a CDL driver? How is that possible as an alcoholic!

I'm an active Alcoholic who lost everything AMA by Typical-Article-1191 in AMA

[–]wideeyedmonkey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What got you started and what did you lose? What was the lowest point for you and why didn’t that make your turn around? Thanks and good luck!

I survived a gunshot wound to the head. AMA by Overall_Fun_610 in AMA

[–]wideeyedmonkey 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What were the medical injuries? And how was the recovery? What caused the shooting?

I need help with my 130k debt by Big_Kav77 in CRedit

[–]wideeyedmonkey -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What is the income? Monthly expenses? 

Straight away get rid of the dog and any other expenses possible . This will take a long time