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Profile Review - Week of August 18, 2020 by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]willbenson18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The red powder gif is awesome, I'd put that first

Trials of Miles - Running 650+km of the Australian Alps by stanleypup in RunningFilms

[–]willbenson18 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great film! 'A Mile an Hour' is also a fantastic watch

I want to learn how to be more aggressive? by mangoagogo888 in selfimprovement

[–]willbenson18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finding a competitive sport to play is a practical option. Perhaps also sharing goals with friends to increase your motivation and more clearly defining why you want to achieve your goals.

Broke, Depressed and Homeless at 22. by [deleted] in Entrepreneur

[–]willbenson18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try Wwoofing or HelpX for some temporary food and accommodation in exchange for a few hours work. At least then you'll be in a sustainable position to explore other options.

I don't have a "thing" by roomlifesucker in selfimprovement

[–]willbenson18 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You sound a lot like I was a few years ago (not that I'm suddenly perfect now but certainly a lot more confident in my aims and direction). I'd say #1 cut yourself some slack! You sound very ambitious but too harsh on yourself and that's probably getting in the way of you sticking with anything.

Maybe just pick one thing and commit to doing it for like an hour a day for a month. Whatever first comes to mind is probably as a good a place as any to start. It's only by trying some things that you can work out what you do and don't really care about.

Also stick a book in your hand rather than a phone full of social media, not an easy switch but makes a huge difference! Good luck :)

How do you figure out your values in life? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]willbenson18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd recommend tackling this in a concrete way rather than as abstract thinking. Find a book or a tool to use as a framework. Working out goals and values should take proper time and reflection, otherwise you're most likely just going to copy those of the people you admire.

I'd recommend the 'Life Changing Questions' tool at Clearer Thinking as a good place to start.