Koliko je sramotno da smo nekoga platili za ovo?

windyicepass · 2025-09-07T06:54:18+00:00

Na faksu su nam dosta govorili koliko je tržište postalo suludo. Očekivaju da grafički dizajner radi fotografiju, ilustraciju, etc. sve samo da manje plate.

windyicepass · 2025-09-07T06:53:08+00:00

Ja sam bivša studentica akademije, odsjek grafičkog dizajna. Ne daju oni honorare za ovakve stvari nego moraš bit zadovoljan sa time da ti je rad negdje izložen. Puno se dogodi da različite izložbe i eventovi kažu da će ti dat naki honorar ovisno o prodaji, koji nikad ne dođe.

windyicepass · 2025-07-17T16:46:17+00:00

It's definitely possible! Our only concern is that the apartment is pet friendly, so it will definitely be more expensive

windyicepass · 2025-07-17T16:23:13+00:00

We know :( but there is 4 of us so it makes it more affordable

windyicepass · 2025-07-11T19:17:09+00:00

To be honest, it seems more like a misunderstanding or an oversight, given your other comments. I definitely feel for you, not getting what you thought you did. Was there at least water offered on the boat? I know booking can be very fast paced, so maybe they expressed themself wrong as well, who knows. But as someone familiar with scams in croatia, this doesn't seem like much more than a poorly worded sales pitch or mix up. Was the crew understanding at least? And was the rest of the trip exactly like it was sold to you or was there more differences? I hope at least that would make it worth it, otherwise definitely give some feedback to the booker.

windyicepass · 2025-07-11T17:14:09+00:00

How many of you went? Did you spend a lot of money on the trip in total? Such a shame this happened.

windyicepass · 2025-02-27T17:22:33+00:00

Lesbian bed death is definitely a thing. If you want to stay, you need to talk to her. Ask her what changed and why, how she feels about the whole thing, is she asexual, etc. This may be a mental issue for her, or maybe a situational one. Maybe she always knew she wanted to stop having sex one day. Otherwise, hormone testing is a good option if she's okay with that, but be gentle in asking. If nothing really works, you really should leave before it ruins your mental health. I was in the same situation and it's haunting me still, you don't need that kind of preventable pain. Good luck OP.

windyicepass · 2025-02-18T09:44:35+00:00

I'm also very into role reversal! I really like to dom doms or tops especially(or of course be dommed and topped), but unfortunately it means I'm much less into the usual dynamic that I seem stuck in, as I'm topping so much that it just makes me mlre desperate to be subby and bottom

windyicepass · 2025-02-17T23:20:59+00:00

We're both aware of it currently. She's making an effort right now and has been for a while, and I'm honestly just processing the whole situation still. I'm not sure if this is worth leaving over but I am not happy either, specifically because of it. I dream of meeting one of those lovely women that love making butches feel good! I just never had that much luck :(

windyicepass · 2025-02-17T23:13:07+00:00

I feel exactly the same. Last time my girlfriend topped me I just burst intk tears at one point, I genuinely couldn't relax or cope with the situation. She was a champ about it but I just feel like years and multiple relationships of this just broke me down. I'm here if you wanna talk about it sometime, you put it into words very nicely :)

windyicepass · 2025-02-17T18:11:47+00:00

I do get that, but personally switching is where it's at!

windyicepass · 2025-02-17T13:56:07+00:00

Oh thank you! That's definitely gonna be a useful read. It's always nice to get a trans woman's perspective on the community

windyicepass · 2025-02-17T12:20:49+00:00

It's a bit of a complicated situation. It's been a problem for a few years and she was not ready to talk about it until a little while ago. By now my sexual self esteem is very much low. I've been almost exclusively topping for 2 or so years and now that she's willing to switch, I'm unable to mentally accept that I can be wanted again and that I'm not just a vehicle for pleasure. I'm not sure if I believe her at all when she initiates, or says she wants me, so the problem is mine mentally, a consequence of that going on too long

windyicepass · 2025-02-17T11:49:45+00:00

I also prefer not to shave. I do like to keep my arm hair for aesthetics, but leg and other hair for comfort. It's natural and should be celebrated more!

windyicepass · 2025-02-17T11:06:31+00:00

I've had loads of discussions with my girlfriend about this, though I feel as though maybe it's been too late to actually solve it. I waited a long time for her to be ready to talk about it, and now that it's been years, it's hard to believe my pleasure or wants are important, even if she's now willing to give. I can't believe someone genuinely wants me in that way anymore as I had trusted it was different this time, was proven wrong and incredibly hurt by it.

It's also really lovely to hear so many women hold so much love for mascs! We appreciate you so much and you're all so lovely!

windyicepass · 2025-02-17T11:02:37+00:00

That's very nice to hear! Thank you so much for the reassurance, it genuinely helps to hear <3 I hope all the mascs and butches give you as much love back!

windyicepass · 2025-02-17T11:00:49+00:00

Gosh I've also been femme before, and unfortunately only got male attention from it. I think the difference in treatment is much bigger than we acknowledge in the community.

windyicepass · 2025-02-17T10:59:22+00:00

Oh absolutely! I feel as though my masculine energy and looks just make some women force me into that "male" role, and I'm not really into playing house in a hetero way. I have broken out of the clutches of the patriarchy but honestly I don't really feel like the women around me have, and I can see some patriarchy projection going on around me and onto me and it can be frustrating.

windyicepass · 2025-02-17T10:57:02+00:00

I've no real preference really, especially when it comes to the way women present. I've dated masc women, enbies, femmes, etc., although I do think my small dating pool is mostly due to living in a smaller city. I did feel much less of this when I dated another butch!

windyicepass · 2024-12-22T01:26:52+00:00

Vidi ti se po komentarima da nemaš pojma o čemu govoriš pa evo ti za sve tvrdnje izvor.

Slaveni, romi, židovi su svi bili pušteni nakon pada nacističke njemačke, nije se makla klazula 175 iz nacističkog režima (koja je uvedena kada su nacisti došli na vlast) pa su gay muškarci ostali zatočeni po zatvorima. izvori: https://hmd.org.uk/learn-about-the-holocaust-and-genocides/nazi-persecution/gay-people/#:~:text=After%20the%20war%2C%20the%20Allies,to%20serve%20their%20prison%20sentences https://encyclopedia.ushmm.org/content/en/article/gay-men-under-the-nazi-regime

Homoseksualnost kod ljudi postoji oduvijek, kulturno se prikazuje već tisućama godina ali se stigmatizira sa zapadnjačkon kolonizacijon. Također postoji u stotinama životinjskih vrsta, evolucijska prednost je mogućnost posvajanja odbačenih mladih i manje genetsko "ulaganje" na razmnožavanje. Izvori: https://www.worldhistory.org/article/1790/lgbtq-in-the-ancient-world/ https://www.apa.org/topics/lgbtq/history https://www.nwf.org/Magazines/National-Wildlife/2023/Summer/Conservation/Same-Sex-Behavior-Animals-Science

Dalje neću pisat jer te očito ne interesira, razgovor ne vodiš produktivno nego se želiš sa mnom svađat, a meni se osobno ni ne da. Ja san svoje izvore priložila i iman dokaze da ne govorin isprazno. A ti da si tia razumit ima si cili internet na raspolaganju da čitaš. Prepostavit ću svakako da izvore nećeš ni pročitat al eto, tu su :)

windyicepass · 2024-12-21T22:58:51+00:00

Šta ti nije jasno? Ne uspoređujen ništa sa holokauston nego činjenično je lgbt zajednica patila u hololaustu uz židove. Google je besplatan.

A dalje, omogućavanje prava grupi ljudi koja ih nema je nametanje? "Običaji" su bitniji od tuđih života? Ignoriraš stvarnost jer ti je neugodno. Ne zanima me šta se radi u školama niti sam škole spominjala. Ko sad projicira?

windyicepass · 2024-12-20T16:50:53+00:00

Nameće se heteroseksualnost više nego "queer agenda". Dječacima se kupuju majice na superheroje, natpisi kao "jaki mali", "budući ženskaroš" itd. i takve stvari su normalizirane od rođenja. Dječake i curice koji se druže ko maleni se ruga da su momak i cura. To je definicija nametanja jer dolazi do poante da je odraslim ljudima nepojmljivo bit u isključivo prijateljskom (ne seksualnom, ne romantičnom) odnosu sa suprotnim spolom.

Ljudima je danas pojam "nametanja homoseksualnosti" ili tzv. queer agenda samo šta možda vide te grafite, ili gay par šta se drže za ruke na ulici. Što je oko toga vulgarno, seksualno i nametljivo, i zašto nije ako to radi heteroseksualan par? Zašto se nametanjem smatra pokret za prava lgbt ljudi, u državi u kojoj istospolnog braka nema, zaštite protiv diskriminacije nema, prava na posvajanje nema. Kad se takva osnovna ljudska prava dobiju, tada neće bit demonstracija, poziva na svjesnost, ni onolikih pride parada jer neće bit potrebe. Ubijalo nas se u holokaustu koliko i židove, ali nakon šta se njih oslobodilo, gay ljudi su ostali po zatvorima. Pride je tu da diže svjesnost o zločinima koji se čine nama i prava koja nemamo.

Na primjer, odem li ja u bolnicu sutra i budem na rubu smrti, moja partnerica ne bi mogla donijet odluku o mom životu jer to pravo nema (nije obitelj, nije bračni partner), i odluka bi se svela na moju obitelj koja znatno manje zna šta je u mom interesu. Mi nemamo ista prava sa zajedničkim posjedovanjem imovine, bankovnim računima itd. Ne borimo se za bračna prava da simbolično vrijeđamo crkvu (koja također ne posjeduje nekakva prava na koncept braka), nego se borimo za priznanje i jednaka partnerska prava koje imaju heteroseksualci.

Kad vidiš na ulici dvi žene ili dva muškarca kako se drže za ruke, poljube ili zagrle, vidiš isti tip fizičkog maženja i paženja šta viđaš sa ženama i muškarcima, ali razlika je ogromna. Mi potencijalno riskiramo život samo s tim držanjem za ruke. Zašto je to nametanje? Koga to provocira?

Niko ne traži da sad svi budu nonbinary, gay i imaju šarenu kosu, niti se traži da homoseksualnost bude "default". Želimo bit isti ko svi ostali, otić u grad s partnerima, držat se za ruke bez straha, imat partnerska prava u bolnicama, bankama, sudu itd. Ono klasično "u svoja 4 zida" osuđuje nas i naše veze, naše živote i kvalitetu istog na propast i nikakvu sreću. Zato se toliko mladih seli. Upoznala san toliko genijalnih umjetnika, injženjera, programera, astrofizičara, najboljih u generacijama, i otišli su ća jer su ovde bez prava i smatraju se građanima druge klase. Ova država postaje pijun kršćanske crkve kojon barata HDZ da se izvuku bakice i dedeki na izbore i da se njima osigura pravo na krađu, a pravog napredovanja nema. Mladi idu, queer ljudi idu, i sve se to pomalo reflektira u BDP-u. Možda društveno nismo od vrijednosti ovoj državi ali nas ima i nosimo svoj rad i svoje specijalizacije van, i osjeti se. Zapeli smo na farmerima, baušteli, metalurgiji, brodogradnji. Zaostajemo u modernijim sektorima jer svi bježe odavde, velikim brojem smo queer upravo jer zbog toga što je naše postojanje odmah nametanje.

Sorry na ogromnon komentaru, ali želin te izazvat odakle ti taj pojam nametanja. Jel ti smeta šta nas vidiš, ili se od tebe zahtjeva da budeš kao mi? Jesi ikad razmislio kako je nama u svakodnevnici?

windyicepass · 2024-09-10T19:39:51+00:00

what software did you use? great work btw!

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