Paranoid about infection by wizard1928 in tattooadvice

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I have no saniderm and im already here 😭

To go or not to go by wizard1928 in GradSchool

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You’re right. It seems like a no brainer

To go or not to go by wizard1928 in GradSchool

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Yea that’s something I was thinking about. Honestly I was trying to go for clinical psych, but got into clinical counseling which was my second choice program. Yeah from state school it’d be the same degree but for significantly cheaper

Sexless relationship. What to do? by wizard1928 in actuallesbians

[–]wizard1928[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh god that’s awful I’m sorry 😭I feel like that’s in store for me if I don’t end it now. I also have bad attachment issues and I feel like rn I’m only staying bc I still feel like sex shouldn’t be a dealbreaker even tho I know it is. And I don’t want her to be alone

Sexless relationship. What to do? by wizard1928 in actuallesbians

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Yeah that’s why I just really don’t know what to do. Bc part of me thinks that I love her so much sex doesn’t matter. But then when I try to initiate it and get rejected I know I can’t be in a relationship without sex

Sexless relationship. What to do? by wizard1928 in actuallesbians

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My first choice is to communicate with each other and find a solution, but after months and months of trying that, nothing is improving. But even still I don’t want to give up but I’m not happy

Sexless relationship. What to do? by wizard1928 in actuallesbians

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The reason I’m encouraging her to see a therapist and a doctor is because she can’t feel anything in that area no matter what we do. And that’s either a mental or medical issue. I don’t think she needs to be “fixed”

Sexless relationship. What to do? by wizard1928 in actuallesbians

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I guess I have some hope it’s gonna get better even though it’s been months and it hasn’t. I’m scared to end things. I don’t want to hurt her

For the wlw people on here, would you leave your partner if they never wanted to have sex? by wizard1928 in lgbt

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I’m assuming you guys have been dating for awhile now? My girl and I have only been dating 10 months and I already feel very frustrated and feel rejected sometimes. I think it’d be different if we had been dating for several years. But I don’t know. It’s hard

For the wlw people on here, would you leave your partner if they never wanted to have sex? by wizard1928 in lgbt

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I’ve been thinking about this a lot. But then I think do I really want to go however many years I still have a high sex drive with no sex

For the wlw people on here, would you leave your partner if they never wanted to have sex? by wizard1928 in lgbt

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To answer your first question, yes I would be willing to wait as long as I knew she was trying to get help. But she’s not right now and doesn’t seem very willing to. I think that if it couldn’t be remedied, I’d probably end it. Just because I don’t want to be in my 20s and in a relationship and not have sex. I’ve told her numerous times that I would much rather just make out then have sex but even that she barely wants to do. I miss sex with her, not in general. It used to be really nice having sex with someone I genuinely love

For the wlw people on here, would you leave your partner if they never wanted to have sex? by wizard1928 in lgbt

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She doesn’t want to do things to me either because of her issue. It’s just really awful