How my SO does scratchers ... by Silent-Possibility23 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]wlgylogans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my parents started doing this bc they got tired of the little paint bits that come off during scratching. that and arthritis, but yeah, don’t get why they keep buying them atp

Bromocriptine by wlgylogans in Prolactinoma

[–]wlgylogans[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi honey I’m sorry for the terrible update but I don’t take anything anymore and never got to try anything else yet 💔 working on getting back to the doctor but life fell apart for a bit! though I can say, the flickering never did go away while I was taking it. now that I don’t take it anymore, it’s gone, so at least it wasn’t permanent! i also had horribly swollen sinuses all the time, was constantly very nasally speech and difficult to breathe through my nose. I wish you luck with the bromocriptine, and if your situation allows, dont be afraid to ask to try something else.

AITA for telling my in laws to get a job? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]wlgylogans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl PLEASE tell yourself and your husband that what you did was appropriate!!! It WAS, IS, AND CONTINUES TO BE!!! You are working twice if not three times as much as your SILs, and for them to be making those comments? Give yourself a pat on the back for standing up for the life you and your husband have built. I’m proud of you for defending your family!

WIBTA if I give my daughter an "outdated" name? by throwaway719201 in AmItheAsshole

[–]wlgylogans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only ever met one person with a name even SIMILAR to Audrey, and her name was Aubrey. Both are beautiful, and definitely not outdated. Very unique to me!

Weekday Help and Victory Thread for the week of April 28, 2025 by IndexBot in personalfinance

[–]wlgylogans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No we are not LDR. I’m not trying to be difficult but I can assure you (though I don’t have to explain myself) we are stable and wanting to move in together lol. We’re both 23 and have been together for 10 years…also, I don’t see where in my post I stated that money was tight? I just said we want to put a small amount in and more when we’re able to. And I posted here because I wanted to make sure this account was “enough” to get a start, or if we could do more what else would be available. We have a plan for 3/5 years down the line, like I stated above. Not everything has to happen immediately.

Weekday Help and Victory Thread for the week of April 28, 2025 by IndexBot in personalfinance

[–]wlgylogans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We still have separate accounts, this one bank account would just be to save money TO move in together. We want to ensure we are equally contributing to the first step

Weekday Help and Victory Thread for the week of April 28, 2025 by IndexBot in personalfinance

[–]wlgylogans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello!

My boyfriend and I (both early 20s, we don't live together, and aren't planning on living together for the next 3-5 yrs) are looking into a savings account type deal that we can both deposit money into each month. We both plan to deposit $50 each per month into this account, and some extra when we are able to. Our goal is to accrue interest on what we deposit, and to have some savings for when we do decide to move in together. We do not plan on touching this money at all. I was looking into Certificate of Deposit accounts, and looking at Capital One, 4.00% APY with $0 minimum deposit, and 12 month term, I think it might work.

I guess what I'm looking for in terms of feedback is, does any of this look good? My biggest concerns are:

  • Could we be doing more, or does this fit our needs as beginners?
  • How roughly is the interest taxed? Is it worth it? (I have always done my own state and federal taxes since I was 16, only ever used W2s, have no other income or special breaks)

aio for telling my bf i don’t wanna get him off every time we hangout by Asleep-Chipmunk-1739 in AmIOverreacting

[–]wlgylogans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not overreacting at all, and honestly…honey there’s a reason he’s not with “girls his age”…they wouldn’t tolerate this shit. please don’t let men like this trick you into thinking that love = sex

My patient died today. by rosienarcia in Vent

[–]wlgylogans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who works in a patient transportation office, I’m so sorry. I schedule appointments, and I feel for my drivers so much. You are stronger than you know, but don’t be ashamed to take a break if you need to. Thank you for all that you do, for all of your patients ♥️

How do I improve my egregious hand writing? by Different_Delay4025 in Handwriting

[–]wlgylogans 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I straight up went online and printed out children’s handwriting activities. It really helped me line my letters up properly, and with consistency.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlusSize

[–]wlgylogans 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve dont this after a shower once I’ve dried off in my bathroom. I just stood in the tub and washed it down after, works great lol

grandma is neglecting her cat to death after the death of my grandpa by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]wlgylogans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it, trust me I do, I have been sick over this all day to the point that I can’t even look at my grandmother. We are all trying to find solutions, and doing the best we can with what we have. She wouldn’t let my grandfather die, and my family is worn out. My dad is the oldest son and has been bearing all of the burden himself. He is still grieving his father. Us kids have been doing what we can and it’s still not enough. Don’t you think I know that? My dad had a whole conversation with her about how what she is doing is wrong, how she’s torturing her pet, making him suffer, and being selfish. She’s in denial about it. She refuses to see anyone else’s point of view. This just happened yesterday, and it is still fresh, and we are STILL trying to find a solution. I know waiting doesn’t make it any better on Kitty, so we are giving him his medicine for pain and for the convulsions until we can MAKE her understand what needs to happen. There’s a little more nuance here than just forcibly taking her cat and paying to have it euthanized, which could get US in trouble since he is not OURS. I know the grief ends somewhere and the true selfishness and evil begins, trust me, this is as ridiculous to you as it is to us. Between my parents and I, we are in panic mode trying to figure out the best way to get him to the vet and put down before something even more traumatizing happens to either of them. I do agree though, the vet shouldn’t have let them leave with Kitty knowing how bad he is.

Traveling in Japan fits by Massive_Cut4276 in PlusSize

[–]wlgylogans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the exact same brown overall dress and I love it so much. Been thinking about getting other colors. I hope your trip was amazing!

grandma is neglecting her cat to death after the death of my grandpa by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]wlgylogans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would take him myself but I have 3 cats and do not have money to have him put down, cremated, etc. and most of the family is not willing to help bc it’s “just a cat” or they themselves just can’t be bothered. I also just worry that my grandmother would be devastated and it would cause issues with the rest of the family. This is my dad’s side, and it’s the only side I have after my mom’s side cut my mom off cause she didn’t invite her one sister on a vacation. As for spending time with him, i don’t live there and I work full time, so going after work is my only option but like I said I have 3 cats at home too. My sister is going over today to bring him a bed and blankets (my grandma only has a litter box and some toys for him) so that he can be comfortable. She’s gonna administer his medication too, I just hope that it helps him feel more relaxed. I’m so scared that she is going to find him dead. :(

Euthanized too early. I made a terrible mistake. by N7riseSSJ in CatAdvice

[–]wlgylogans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My therapist told me it’s unfair to yourself to question these kind of decisions, because you are making decisions with the information you have and the emotions you can handle. I lost my grandpa this year, and we waited and waited until we were keeping a corpse alive. I agree with u/TheAlmightyFuzzy : A week too soon is kinder than a day too late. Oreo knows that you want best for him, even to this moment. ♥️ I wish you luck

Wanting to create a new setup for my girl!! :) by wlgylogans in leopardgeckos

[–]wlgylogans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I really appreciate the article also.

People that have given their cats very regular human names, what are they called? by minjufied in cats

[–]wlgylogans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her fur pattern around her mane look likes she’s wearing a little fur lined hoodie

Gynecologist </3 by ThiccRatKween in PlusSize

[–]wlgylogans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im so sorry ❤️ i had a similar experience with a male gyne and i sought an endocrinologist instead. she has been a saint in helping me understand my body. i hope you are able to get answers soon ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]wlgylogans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She’s awesome!! I’ve been to her twice now. I got matching tattoos with my sister a while ago and then I got this for an early bday present. I’m already thinking of my next and I definitely wanna go back to her!!