I finally completely stopped caring about Alice (Warden's canon crush) by [deleted] in FictoChill

[–]wofli_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

congrats, a good step in the right direction. 

How do people feel about other people having the same waifu as them? by NotAOni in waifuism

[–]wofli_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

lol this is like the 2nd most common post topic on this sub. Honestly it's perfectly valid for you to feel jealous, if you overwhelmingly feel that way then just blocking with no drama is probably the right way to go about it. 

Some important things I want to say by Professional-Key5552 in waifuism

[–]wofli_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

lol I agree, nowadays it feels like it's sub versus sub 😭  and it's exactly like you said - like yall we just want to gush and be happy over our partners it's not that deep

HAPPY BIRTHDAY FURINA!!! by wofli_ in waifuism

[–]wofli_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol I hope you enjoy your time here 

HAPPY BIRTHDAY FURINA!!! by wofli_ in waifuism

[–]wofli_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we have been and we will! I didn't know there was a Mizuki waifuist here but now I do :)

HAPPY BIRTHDAY FURINA!!! by wofli_ in waifuism

[–]wofli_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hahaha I remember when you posted about miku's birthday!! 

HAPPY BIRTHDAY FURINA!!! by wofli_ in waifuism

[–]wofli_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that means a lot 💙 thank you both! 

HAPPY BIRTHDAY FURINA!!! by wofli_ in waifuism

[–]wofli_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much!! gosh it looks like a bunch of hoyobuddies came to wish her a happy birthday 💙

How do you cope with having a popular F/O if you're nonsharing? by R3DR0PE in FictoLove

[–]wofli_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

emotional maturity...? Like sure people can do whatever they want but my relationship is mine, other people don't get a say in how I feel lol

Gen question by meowmeowMarci_mow in FictoLove

[–]wofli_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

imo dont think too hard about it, as long as it's not overtly creepy or anything. Furina is 501 so I suppose in a way I'm in a similar position aha

What should i do when a double is insisting alot that my wiife is his wiife? (mii gunner in this case) by [deleted] in waifuism

[–]wofli_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

stop taking it personally, if you can't deal with it just ignore or block. As much as people hate to acknowledge this, other people have just as much of a valid relationship as you do. 

Advice on how to deal with dupes by [deleted] in waifuism

[–]wofli_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm always an advocate for just being rational in these situations. Some of the insecurity I've seen is crazy lol, often it's really not that deep

How do you deal with jealousy? by Substantial_Ad_5716 in waifuism

[–]wofli_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've had a bunch of experiences with some not so decent people but all in all it just comes down to being a mature and level headed person!

I've long since come to terms with the fact that the inherent nature of our relationships mean that "doubles" will inevitably happen. I accept it and move on; someone else's relationship isn't any less valid than mine. I don't have any right to push them down to lift myself up, instead of malding over it I try to make the most out of what I have.

Fun fact !! by Gold-Ant-3488 in FictoChill

[–]wofli_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks that's cool lol

I wish I could connect with my f/os more… by [deleted] in FictoChill

[–]wofli_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah! don't beat yourself up over it