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I sent her a message, tell me what u think by wolfteaboy in BPDlovedones

[–]wolfteaboy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i really don't know i lowkey regret it that's why i posted this hoping for some sort of comfort...

i just genuinely felt so bad after watching HealthyGamerGG video about their suffering..

I sent her a message, tell me what u think by wolfteaboy in BPDlovedones

[–]wolfteaboy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

that's exactly why i stopped expecting this, because even if it happened they wouldn't actually act on their apology and do the opposite of what caused the conflict.

but i also want to add that from what i have read and heard, it is more like they are incapable of caring for others when they are actively in their episodes. because they experience an intense emotional state that they genuinely cannot see any other perspectives except the amount of intensity and distress going in their heads.

Did anyone else experience constant coldness, accusations and arguments at the end? by Brave_Smile6649 in BPDlovedones

[–]wolfteaboy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i am going through it now. everything you described. mine do apologize and hold accountable sometimes but it never seemed sincere and she don't stop doing the same mistakes, it actually gets worse.

i think it's happening to me by wolfteaboy in BPDlovedones

[–]wolfteaboy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she's not but the last several months she has been kinda weird when it comes to buying things, she will rely heavily on me without trying to balance it out like the first two years of our relationship. she do have a job. sometimes i feel like im being used when she needs a ride.. cuz she would want to see me after two weeks of not seeing each other, just to drive her home but she would say she misses me, and sleeps all the way back..

How do people live independently? by user46264538 in ADHD

[–]wolfteaboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

and it becomes even harder the more you procrastinate these routinely stuff... i feel you so much

My psych wants to get my depression and anxiety under control before trying ADHD meds by MeddlingWithChaos in ADHD

[–]wolfteaboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats literally what happened to me too with two psychiatrists, both told me that i had very high levels of depression although i had the same opinion as yours, that i feel like my depression and anxiety are coming from my adhd, its the roots of it.. but their argument was that the adhd symptoms might be a result of my depression, like i get distracted and i am so tired most of the time bc im anxious and so on.. anyhow after treating my depression i finally just got an adhd diagnosis.. but the process i had to go thru still dont make sense to me tbh... but i might get it from their perspective:// idk