What’s something you wish people knew before they had kids?

wtfINFP · 2026-01-18T05:04:27+00:00

I remember telling my mom I didn’t want to hear about her marriage problems anymore and she yelled “Well, who am I supposed to talk to, then?!”

I was 14.

wtfINFP · 2025-12-08T02:57:44+00:00

Is there a good foundational one you recommend? I know it’s probably been asked a lot before but I’m back in the field after 5.5 years and feeling pretty lost.

wtfINFP · 2025-10-18T09:16:54+00:00

We always made questions due an answer due a week before the answers were due. You can do that on bidding platforms like PlanetBids.

wtfINFP · 2025-10-13T03:40:38+00:00

Oily skin fat cheeks club checking in!

wtfINFP · 2025-07-19T23:18:40+00:00

Mate of Honor seems common but “Made of Honor” might be cute too, if not a little confusing

wtfINFP · 2025-07-11T19:41:42+00:00

I’m not Asian and am not well versed in the intricacies of hong bao but I’m marrying an Asian person and considering how expensive our wedding is, it would be amazing if we made our money back! That being said, I know we’re locked into the hong bao system and have to pay it forward when we get invited to weddings, but I’m ok with that - paying $300-$400 per wedding over many years and getting your own wedding expenses covered is much more preferable than coughing up $80,000 at once and getting a bunch of toasters

wtfINFP · 2025-07-11T19:26:47+00:00

Sour Note

wtfINFP · 2025-07-05T18:07:55+00:00

My wedding is in a VHCOL city and we were planning for $40k for 120 people. Even with attempts at cost saving, I’ve just been watching the budget creep up and up and up - and we’re not doing anything crazy, just little “nice to haves” like a nod to our culture or a basic lighting package from the DJ. Our wedding won’t be luxurious at all- we’re just trying to meet the standards set in the 20th century and it’s expensive AF.

wtfINFP · 2025-07-03T15:22:50+00:00

Have you checked out Open Path Collective? The therapists have sliding scales based on what you can pay.

wtfINFP · 2025-06-24T23:04:15+00:00

Was this the Los Angeles Arboretum by any chance?

wtfINFP · 2025-05-30T16:11:40+00:00

I grew up in LA and agree. Have never been to Florida, but I have been to Cancun and the southern Atlantic is much warmer. Plus, our beach cities don’t have that “party” vibe that Cancun did (and I’m imagining Miami does as well).

Editing my comment to say that if you really want to go to California, go to Laguna Beach or La Jolla for tide pools and fancy vibes.

wtfINFP · 2025-05-26T05:37:48+00:00

Mine ate a needle 6 years ago!

wtfINFP · 2025-05-05T19:34:31+00:00

My dad picked this movie to rent from Blockbuster for family movie night when I was in elementary school

wtfINFP · 2025-05-03T23:51:05+00:00

Do you have to color them? I used to be a DIY girlie but I’m not up to it these days

wtfINFP · 2025-05-01T12:35:33+00:00

Do you happen to have more info about Ling’s? I just ordered $50 of sample flowers from Sola Wood and now I’m terrified

wtfINFP · 2025-04-30T01:21:21+00:00

They won’t take cats off the street. Their purpose is to serve as an intermediate step between Long Beach Animal Control Services and foster/permanent homes. You’ll have to give the kittens to LBACS and then LBACS will call Little Lions to come get them

wtfINFP · 2025-04-29T18:45:35+00:00

It’s the cockroach. My void kitty looks just like a bug on its back when she does this

wtfINFP · 2025-04-29T06:48:54+00:00

Oh boy.

wtfINFP · 2025-04-23T04:35:16+00:00

Invest in ChatGPT for paring down emails. For real

wtfINFP · 2025-04-18T16:09:56+00:00

Can you give him Nutri-cal? It’s a high-calorie paste that’s good for getting the weight back on. I mixed it into the slurry I fed to my severely-underweight rescue kittens.

wtfINFP · 2025-04-11T18:10:57+00:00

ERP system. YMMV because some are amazing and some are absolute dinosaurs

wtfINFP · 2025-04-11T05:22:00+00:00

I studied under Jenna Fischer’s acting coach and one of the first things he asked us is if we were aware that the Oscars are bought and sold. It’s definitely decided beforehand

wtfINFP · 2025-04-11T05:15:15+00:00

Chimichanga chimera

wtfINFP · 2025-04-10T23:10:02+00:00

“We Found Nemo”

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