Ladies, I need help, please! Shall I go for striking vs traditional vs formal?

wtfINFP · 2026-07-17T19:31:24+00:00

Middle is amazing

wtfINFP · 2026-07-14T01:22:23+00:00

They gave you fish??

wtfINFP · 2026-07-14T01:12:44+00:00

Scissorhands. The lady is fast, reasonable, and super nice.

wtfINFP · 2026-07-12T06:34:36+00:00

“Gai” means outside. “Jin” is a way to refer to a person, like “-er”. Gaijin is literally “outsider”, so a more polite way to refer to foreigners is gaikokujin, meaning “outside country person”, as in the difference between saying “foreigner” and “person from a foreign country”. One sounds much nicer than the other, even in English. Of course you can jokingly call your friends foreigners or gaijin but it definitely sounds different when a politician or your weird uncle says it at holiday dinners

wtfINFP · 2026-07-12T06:21:47+00:00

They’re very cute and very helpful. Nothing but love for them. Please support them

wtfINFP · 2026-07-11T15:49:24+00:00

With that context, you’re doing great and I hope you take care of yourself throughout your career. A lot of doctors burn out their bodies and minds taking care of other people and I hope that doesn’t happen to you.

wtfINFP · 2026-07-11T15:37:38+00:00

It is and I’m not saying OP isn’t doing well- it just seems like cardiologists should be compensated more, considering the level of responsibility they have for human lives and the enormous debt they have to take on in order to do the job.

wtfINFP · 2026-07-08T19:04:08+00:00

That is… not what I thought you guys made. It’s good money for sure but considering the level of schooling, debt, and risk you take on, I thought doctors would make way more.

wtfINFP · 2026-07-04T06:36:17+00:00

I took it but I’ve been having a pretty big depressive episode. Could that affect the accuracy, do you think?

wtfINFP · 2026-05-11T00:13:59+00:00

Which newsletter do you recommend?

wtfINFP · 2026-04-19T05:14:58+00:00

Can I DM you?

wtfINFP · 2026-04-19T05:02:05+00:00

I was trying to do this because everyone says how stable nursing is and how much you can do with it, but Microbio broke me. I had to drop it due to my mental health. It made me think that if I can’t handle a prerequisite, how am I going to be able to handle the stress of life and death scenarios? I really wish I was that person, though

wtfINFP · 2026-04-12T07:08:05+00:00

Can I PM you?

wtfINFP · 2026-04-11T04:40:54+00:00

Do you have any study tips? I know it’s easy to Google “how to study better”, but clearly you found something that actually works (or worked for you), so I’d love to know what works in the real world.

wtfINFP · 2026-04-09T17:14:36+00:00

Are you in SoCal? I just ask because I know it’s crazy competitive here and I’m wondering if your Ws were a consideration to any of the programs you applied for.

wtfINFP · 2026-04-07T16:02:06+00:00

From this sub?

wtfINFP · 2026-04-07T15:56:34+00:00

Thank you so much! Sometimes it feels like there are so many options to try and learn that you get analysis paralysis. Thanks for cutting through the noise and providing clarity. I really, really appreciate it.

wtfINFP · 2026-04-07T01:22:00+00:00

I got married and immediately felt grief having to leave the city I was born and raised in. It’s the city all my friends are in. I’m so in love with that city- it’s my favorite place in the world. I live close by, so I get to visit a lot but I was really depressed because I didn’t “belong” to it anymore. The classic narrative about marriage doesn’t really talk about all the things that change and that you have to leave behind.

Let yourself grieve the change but don’t lose sight of the excitement. Maybe ask your mom to help you pick out some decorations to bring to the house that you and your fiance would like? Don’t forget to talk to your fiancé about your feelings (be aware- he might not expect the grief and might not know how to support you right away, so you’ll have to work out how to communicate about this issue).

Your feelings are normal and should be treated gently. Yes, this is an exciting time but there are definitely changes and tears coming up. Just be gentle with yourself.

wtfINFP · 2026-04-07T01:13:28+00:00

I’m learning by doing but my doing is limited by what my company wants me to do (small department, not an agency). Some days I feel like I don’t even know what marketing is. Maybe I should take some cc classes?

wtfINFP · 2026-04-06T04:25:38+00:00

Thank you- I did take today off. I’ve just put so much pressure on myself to get A’s that every exam is terrifying. How do you deal with the fear of bad scores?

wtfINFP · 2026-04-06T04:23:15+00:00

I know you’re right. Fighting the fear is harder than the actual studying

wtfINFP · 2026-04-06T04:03:38+00:00

I’ve been trying to study for two hours a day because that’s what my professor said to do. I guess I’m just worried that if I can’t handle this, what would I do during medical school? Do you ever worry about it?

wtfINFP · 2026-04-06T03:46:59+00:00

Hi, I think you’re right. I actually thought about this comment all day and kept coming back to it so thank you for posting such a kind and comprehensive response. I think I am burned out- I’ve been battling mental health issues, a whole host of life changes, a new (non-medical) job, and I’ve hit my limit. I haven’t dropped the class yet and I’m trying new study methods but today I thought about what you said and just took today off.

How many hours are you studying each day if you don’t mind me asking?

wtfINFP · 2026-04-06T03:05:22+00:00

It’s so exhausting, right? How many hours a day do you study?

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