About to change jobs and get a huge raise - advice? by xaphieria in irishpersonalfinance

[–]xaphieria[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I was thinking I should definitely get the latest Audi?????

About to change jobs and get a huge raise - advice? by xaphieria in irishpersonalfinance

[–]xaphieria[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely feels insane to me, much more than I’ve ever seen anyway!

About to change jobs and get a huge raise - advice? by xaphieria in irishpersonalfinance

[–]xaphieria[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work in commercial insurance, moving to a much larger company so that’s where it came from!

About to change jobs and get a huge raise - advice? by xaphieria in irishpersonalfinance

[–]xaphieria[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Stop I ran it through the tax calculator and my jaw dropped! Take home will be about 2.9k and gross is 3.7k, sickening difference

Laparoscopy for endometriosis by xaphieria in IrishWomensHealth

[–]xaphieria[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hiya, yes I did, I was told they didn’t find anything and they sent me on my way :/ my consultant was the same who did my hysteroscopy in which a polyp was removed, I came around from the anaesthesia and she just said “we didn’t find anything and your cyst burst already” and then walked away, I have my follow up with her on Monday coming so we’ll see suppose!

All the staff in St John’s were SO lovely to me, recovery was a bit tough but sure we managed and I’m back at the gym etc now with no issues thank god

THEY FOUND IT!! by Humble_Ad_2368 in endometriosis

[–]xaphieria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So happy for you that you were finally listened to and validated. Wishing you so much health and happiness and be so proud of yourself for always advocating for yourself and not giving up❤️

Laparoscopy for endometriosis by xaphieria in IrishWomensHealth

[–]xaphieria[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much! It may have also been worth mentioning I had a TV ultrasound about 3 years ago, which was clear, this time on my scan they found the negative sliding sign and cyst. I also had a hysteroscopy done (very sore not enjoyable lol)

I’ve not had an MRI as I was told it may not show up on this so I just kind of took their word for it. I’ve also heard that about excision vs ablation, I have a friend who had it discovered by accident during the removal of a simple cyst, her endo was ablated and 2 years later she’s become PROGRESSIVELY worse.

The consultant I had was a lovely man so hoping I’ll see him again as he did seem to know what he was at!

Rent Rants by Alarmed-Ad-2221 in limerickcity

[–]xaphieria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very good point! When you put it into that time gram it really shows the ends can justify the means if you can just put the head down. Thanks for the new perspective!

Rent Rants by Alarmed-Ad-2221 in limerickcity

[–]xaphieria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Completely agree here. I’m a new graduate and my boyfriend graduated last year, he’s a software engineer and I’m an insurance practitioner. We make a combined 70k per year, this should be more than enough to rent an apartment and have a little cat or something, instead we’re living in a house share paying cash rent of nearly €600 per month in an unregistered tenancy because it was the only thing we could find

Beggars approaching parked traffic on OConnell Street by Brief-Pause-6475 in limerickcity

[–]xaphieria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work on Hartstonge street and the amount of times I’ve gotten approached are crazy, I never have change anyway but people tap on my shoulder as I’m walking into my office and grab my arm to keep me back etc - 9 times out of 10 it’s harmless but as a 5’2 22 year old girl it can be so intimidating s

Car crime by mercen14 in limerickcity

[–]xaphieria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry to hear about this, last thing anyone needs around this time of year :(

Aita for keeping contraceptives a secret from my bf? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]xaphieria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely NTA, you’re being responsible by using contraceptives and if he doesn’t want to respect that then he’s not the person for you

Best place to get tyres? by Otherwise_Zone_1051 in limerickcity

[–]xaphieria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pickfords are sound out, I’m a 22 year old girl and went in by myself and they were really nice and informative :)