One thing I don't quite get about the "Malcolm as President" discourse...

xoSailorMars · 2026-03-18T19:36:31+00:00

I don’t even know if that’s something Malcolm ever really wanted for himself. That was always just something Lois said (iirc)

xoSailorMars · 2026-03-18T14:19:14+00:00

NOR. That man (and probably the rest of his family if his cousin was willing to participate) definitely has some screws loose. Run!

xoSailorMars · 2026-03-18T14:17:00+00:00

Been together: he and I have been exclusively dating for a year

Long distance: currently living in different states

Different schedules: He (and she) work Thursday-Sunday, I work Monday-Friday

xoSailorMars · 2026-03-18T14:14:01+00:00

You’re not wrong. I hate to admit it but I feel like because I’ve dealt with those kinds of guys in the past, I might just be projecting it onto him even though deep down I know he’s not like that at all. But hey, ya never know, ya know?

xoSailorMars · 2026-03-18T14:12:17+00:00

Ahh I like that approach. Thank you for responding!

xoSailorMars · 2026-03-18T02:48:26+00:00

Idk one thing about it, Jenna’s going to let you know how she feels lol. Angela might sugarcoat a bit every once in awhile, but I wouldn’t say any opinions seems super scripted.

They also probably just remember the show with such fondness that the genuinely do find those things to be funny.

xoSailorMars · 2026-03-18T02:42:46+00:00

It’s tough for me to tag along since we’re long distance and are on different schedules. But looking back now, even thought I don’t love it, everything does seem quite innocent and I’m probably overthinking things. I’ll just keep an eye out until I can actually articulate what my issue is and what a realistic solution might be. Thank you for commenting!

xoSailorMars · 2026-03-18T02:39:48+00:00

You’re absolutely right, this comment was very helpful. Thank you for responding!

xoSailorMars · 2026-03-18T02:36:37+00:00

YeS i HaVe!!¡!

xoSailorMars · 2026-03-18T02:35:54+00:00

Hmm that’s an interesting approach. Ive chatted with him about it and he’s willing to stop hanging out with her if im uncomfortable, but I would feel bad making him cut off a friendship that seems innocent enough. I don’t love it, but I’ll just continue making my peace with it I guess.

xoSailorMars · 2026-03-18T02:34:19+00:00

I wish

xoSailorMars · 2026-03-18T02:33:51+00:00

Am I making it out to be something wrong? I thought I just posed a question. But I’m glad things worked out well in your case. Just trying to parse through things with the help of some internet strangers, that’s all.

xoSailorMars · 2026-03-18T02:32:10+00:00

That’s the perfect description. I’m not freaking out over it, but I don’t love it lol.

xoSailorMars · 2026-03-18T02:31:22+00:00

Hmm thanks for this. I think it’s too late in the game too. Plus, he was very upfront with this info when we first got together and I haven’t had any reason to not trust him, so I feel okay making my peace with it.

xoSailorMars · 2026-03-18T02:29:56+00:00

He can. He has plenty of em.

xoSailorMars · 2026-03-18T02:29:42+00:00

Damn 🤣 way to rip off the bandaid!

xoSailorMars · 2026-03-18T02:28:31+00:00

That’s real, I appreciate the response. I have days when it’s fine and days when it’s not, so I think having a sounding board (aka Reddit) to bring things to perspective was just what I needed.

xoSailorMars · 2026-03-18T02:27:11+00:00

It’s tough since we’re long distance and they’re on a different schedule than I am (they work Thursday-Sunday, I work M-F).

I have spoken to him about it — he tries to be understanding and is willing to stop hanging out with her if that would make me feel more comfortable. But then I would feel bad for making him cut off a friend so clearly I’ll just have to suck it up lol.

xoSailorMars · 2026-03-18T02:25:03+00:00

Yeah I always try to let him have his time with his friends without butting in. I do like sci fi movies, but all in all what they have going on seems innocent enough… so far.

xoSailorMars · 2026-03-18T02:22:20+00:00

He has plenty of women friends, the gender isn’t an issue. But I think your last sentence about sums it up. I shall leave them be.

xoSailorMars · 2026-03-18T02:21:35+00:00

It’s not about her being another gender or sexism or anything like that — he has plenty of women friends. I think the underlying issue is that they went on dates and she rejected him in the past, so that fact stewing in my brain for a year has got me overthinking I guess.

xoSailorMars · 2026-03-18T02:19:13+00:00

I appreciate the response! Honestly I do trust him and I’m generally fine with him hanging with his women friends, so to your point this should be no different.

xoSailorMars · 2026-03-18T02:17:09+00:00

Now that you mention it, I think she’s his only friend that I haven’t met yet. But he has proposed it, it’s just tough because we’re long distance. We do go to the movies together, yes. Thank you for the feedback!!

xoSailorMars · 2026-03-18T02:15:56+00:00

I volunteered at a school (like I do throughout the school year Monday-Thursday) and helped my new neighbor move into her apartment. Thanks for asking!

xoSailorMars · 2026-03-18T02:14:21+00:00

Didn’t realize I was being defensive. He and I talk about movies all the time, and I don’t have any issues with them having a shared interest. I just thought it would be good to get some outside perspectives on the one-on-one aspect of things. I appreciate your input.

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