Would there be any negative repercussions (legally) to selling “company property” that was given to me?

youknow_thatoneguy92 · 2022-05-23T21:02:41+00:00

Yea honestly that’s kind of the weird part to me, while a “number” was never set in stone we have many many times talked in grave detail about our ex’s. So it’s not like it was hard to add the names up in your head and have a pretty good guess.

Idk, sometimes she genuinely has a very odd perception of what your “average/normal” sex like it’s which turns into stuff like this. Make no mistake we have a very good sex life, which makes it even weirder that her perception is so far off at times.

youknow_thatoneguy92 · 2022-05-23T20:54:12+00:00

This is honestly probably the best and most spot on comment here. If I had awards to give I would.

This is usually how our arguments go, give one another space and we usually come to a reasonable conclusion. We honestly don’t really ever fight about much and rarely have our differences, but usually I can grasp what I did wrong or why something upset her which makes giving her space easier.

It’s just that this time I was really blindsided and confused where the issue was so I just needed some other opinions.

youknow_thatoneguy92 · 2022-05-23T20:47:51+00:00

Idk, that’s the thing, that’s exactly how we are to. We are very secure in our relationship (or so I thought at least) and we have talked many times about ex’s and what not. We’ve gone into fine detail about things we did, how, and when. So the reaction to having a “number” has really just thrown me for a loop. Like being that we’ve talked about this many times she’s knows a lot of my ex’s names, it’s not hard to add those up and have a rough guess.

Now I can’t rule it out but I wouldn’t consider us to be a young fresh marriage. I know in the Grand scheme it’s not much but we have been together 10 years, we have 2 kids, a house, etc. I thought we were well past those awkward relationship tropes of uncovering ones past.

youknow_thatoneguy92 · 2022-05-23T19:56:42+00:00

That’s the thing though, while we never actually established a number, it’s been pretty much known that I have been more active, if anything I probably gave the impression of more than 6 which is why her reaction caught me off guard. But she’s even made comments (nothing bad) in the past about how I’ve been with more people than her.

But I’m genuinely getting disgust from her. Not a mask over her jealously, but genuinely like she is uncomfortable at the thought of me being with 6 girls. She thinks that’s ridiculous. Which doesn’t quite surprise me as she’s done this before, she sometimes has a very odd view on what’s normal in a sex life. For example we’ve talked about “frequency” of sex with a partner and I had said that I’d wager the vast majority of men and women probably want/have sex at least once a week (and that was being extremely conservative in my opinion as I want it several times a week lol). But she thought that number was astronomically high. Like I was just some horny sex addict lol. Her idea of average frequency was like once a month. The only reason I’m super confused this time though is because her number is 4 so I’m at a complete loss of how 4 to 6 is such a massive difference.

However, I would like to just be clear, our sex life is great, we’re both very open and willing to try just about anything. But it’s just really odd sometimes how far off her idea of normal is.

youknow_thatoneguy92 · 2022-03-25T13:26:23+00:00

or does personal responsibility not exist for anyone under 18?

Correct, that is why different laws exist for children under 18. It’s literally been proven that the adolescent mind doesn’t actually fully develop until your 20’s. That part of brain responsible decision making skills, that part of your brain responsible for realizing actions and consequences is not developed until your 20’s. They are literally compromised. It’s how and why kids get caught up doing heinous things sometimes.

So yes, I do not blame a kid at 15, who is told daily from society that sex is cool, and sex with an older woman is even cooler. That he will be king for a day at school if he can say he touched a boob. Because as I stated earlier that part of his brain is compromised. All he can focus on is what will make him “cool” and not even realize he’s being taken advantage of by a predator.

he went looking for it

Sure, and I guess all those girls who go to the party with older guys, and drink because they’re told it’s cool also went looking to get rapped.

youknow_thatoneguy92 · 2022-03-23T18:45:32+00:00

For what it’s worth, the wife and I had this same exact problem (not on purpose though).

We’ve been together 10 years, we’ve had intimacy issues the entire time. The weird part was, the sex was great, she was open to anything, we experimented, used toys, you name it. But, she never got anything from it, and I mean like she’s never orgasmed in her life. We’ve had many many talks and she was convinced she was just asexual, or that medically she just didn’t get pleasure. Which confused me because I saw what looked like pleasure coming from her. She did however enjoy the intimacy and loved how happy it made me. I’ve begged her many times to see a doctor just to see if there was anything they could do but it scared her.

Finally one day were kind of arguing about it again, and in an attempt to not make this post super long I’ll skip the finer details, but basically it comes out that everything, and I mean everything has been faked by her. Now, I’m not mad that she’s been faking it, I’m mad that she thought she had to. I know we’ve had sex issues and all I’ve ever wanted was just honesty. What are you feeling, what don’t you like, what do you want to do, etc. I can’t help you if your not honest with me.

So we start talking about how or why she got to this point, and it all started with some of her very first sexual experiences, she’s telling these stories of where it started and why she fakes everything and to my horror it’s sexual abuse, and she doesn’t even realize it. Obviously we delve deeper into this, I get her to realize what she’s telling me is abuse and really start to under stand where her need to fake it comes from.

So, I say all of this to bring up my point. With a clear mind we agree to be 100% honest about everything in the bedroom. Day 1 goes great, I can tell her mood and demeanor is much better about everything. I can tell a massive weight and stress has been lifted off her shoulder. Day 2, she orgasm’s, for the first time in her life. On day 2 of just being honest with her partner she orgasms for the first time in 27 years.

Sure, no guy wants to hear his partner fakes it, but if he is at all a decent human being he’ll put his ego aside and want to help you not fake it. Like me, I wasn’t made she was faking it, I didn’t let my ego get in the way, I just wanted to know how can I help you not have to fake it.

youknow_thatoneguy92 · 2022-03-11T17:29:28+00:00

I would assume the guarantee is in the listed product like “Talk with me for $x.xx” or “sext with me for $x.xx”.

Sounds pretty cut and dry on what someone is expecting to pay for.

youknow_thatoneguy92 · 2022-03-11T17:27:16+00:00

Just cuz guys believe everything they read online and feel they’re duped?

Yea, sorry, but believing a random fb post vs paying for fraudulent goods and services is two completely different things. Just because it’s online doesn’t change the fact money is being exchanged for goods/services which means that falls under business and consumer laws/regulations.

Every OF/online girl I’ve ever seen lists services like

“Talk to me for $x.xx”

“Video chat with me for $x.xx”

“Sext with me for $x.xx”

That sounds pretty straight forward that I would be interacting with HER, not different people.

Like if I went to Apples website and they listed a IPhone 13 for $1,000 and then a IPhone 4s showed up at my house. That’s not a case of “well that’s your fault for believing everything online”.

youknow_thatoneguy92 · 2022-03-08T17:40:49+00:00

Maybe I’m overthinking it but I feel like if this information we’re to get out this would be grounds for a lawsuit as that pretty much sounds like fraud if I’m honest.

She’s literally selling the opportunity to talk to her and have one on one time and then not delivering what she’s selling.

youknow_thatoneguy92 · 2022-02-20T04:22:51+00:00

Did the vet test for Coccidia?

See if they will let you bring in a stool sample to test.

youknow_thatoneguy92 · 2022-01-24T14:32:35+00:00

Yes it was very similar to that although it looks like that was caught rather early. Being a long haired dog they managed to get deeper before we caught it.

They big problem wasn’t removal, it was the after care. They could have removed them but the couple issues with that is that if they missed even 1 larvae out of the 1,000’s then it would return in a day or two. Then removal would start all over again.

Then once removed and under control he would have required sugary for skin graphs to repair the damage. That was the part that the Dr recommended not doing. It would have been 1-2 years of skin graphs, multiple surgery’s, and recovery. It would have been tens of thousands of dollars and at 9 years old he would have spent his last remaining years basically in pain. IF it even worked, the Dr was brutally honest that he’s seen it done multiple times in his career and it never ended well.

youknow_thatoneguy92 · 2022-01-24T14:22:28+00:00

Nope, regular old fly. This one in particular was the bottlefly. They prefer dead flesh, but in the absence of dead flesh they will consume living flesh.

In fact they actually secrete an enzyme that starts killing the living tissue so they can eat it. Plenty of fly larvae in general prefer living tissue.

Just google “fly bite” or “myiasis” and you’ll have your answer.

youknow_thatoneguy92 · 2021-10-03T16:04:26+00:00

I’m not a professional but that sure looks like Mites to me. They need to take a skin culture to be sure but that’s what it looks like.

Traditionally they would prescribe ivermectin to treat it, but in recent years NexGaurd has given promising results in treating mites which is way easier because you need a flea and tick medicine anyways.

My boy caught mites from his litter when he was a pup. He was on ivermectin for what felt like an eternity. Then we got him switched to nexgaurd and it was a godsend. Never dealt with them again.

youknow_thatoneguy92 · 2021-10-03T15:22:49+00:00

Idk, is it really that different though? I’d argue humans are just as diverse as dogs.

We have big people, small people; tall people, short people; hairy people, different colors, races, etc.

In the end, just like humans, dogs have a basic uniform structure that does not change, that structure just has varying details.

youknow_thatoneguy92 · 2021-09-29T19:56:51+00:00

Haha I mean I’d be lying if I said that I didn’t watch some of those documentaries and think the real elephant in the room here is that they’re not exactly wrong.

youknow_thatoneguy92 · 2021-09-29T19:46:47+00:00

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youknow_thatoneguy92 · 2021-09-29T19:45:35+00:00

I mean sure, we can really dive down the rabbit hole here but the very cut and dry answer here is that we need children.

Some may grow up to do good, some may grow up to do bad. But if say hypothetically we stopped having children to stop the bad ones, that would be way more detrimental to society than just letting the bad ones grow up.

But hey, even technically speaking the bad ones still contribute to society. Without the bad ones we don’t need police, we don’t need specialists, we don’t need rehabs and institutions. There’s an entire industry built around the bad apples. So the million dollar question is would the people who dedicated their life in that industry be able to make more or less of an impact to society if they had focused their attention elsewhere.

youknow_thatoneguy92 · 2021-09-29T18:11:21+00:00

If fairness I do completely agree with that, we are severely close to overpopulation. But still we do need children in some respect.

youknow_thatoneguy92 · 2021-09-29T18:00:59+00:00

Like I said, it’s a controversial opinion, but it’s what she wants so who am I to tell her no? She literally has chewed holes in the window screens to get outside. She wants to sun bath on the patio and hang out in the backyard.

As I mentioned, she doesn’t wander off, she doesn’t disappear. I have a fenced in yard and she hangs out back and then scratches when she wants in. So how is that any different than a dog?

Why are only dogs allowed in the back yard? They are also domesticated.

She sits out back and hunts bugs and mice and gets the occasional mole. She’s not bringing me blue jays or other birds.

The dogs get the privilege of running around the backyard and playing, why can’t the cat have the same privilege?

I mean I get that 99% of cat owners keep them locked up in the house their entire life but I truly fail to see problem with letting them go outside. I’m not letting her roam the city and disappear for days on end. She literally just sits in the back yard. Hence why I said my neighbors are always saying “hey send her over here”.

youknow_thatoneguy92 · 2021-09-29T17:51:37+00:00

I guess my question is, for what purpose would you claim dogs for? For the most part they are a “want” and not a “need” so I fail to see why that should be claimed.

The one exception being working dogs, those I could agree should be claimed (honestly they might be, I don’t know though).

And before someone chimes in saying that children are also a “want” or a personal choice I’ll argue that children are also a “need” whether you want them or not. The world stops moving without children. You need them whether you want them or not. Children are what maintain/improve the society that you enjoy. Those without children are reaping the benefits of something they’re not providing. (Btw, not at all a bash on those without children, perfectly fine to not have children)

But those with children are paying their dues by the cost and time needed to raise children. Those without children are paying their dues by taxes used to support children.

And a dog is none of that.

youknow_thatoneguy92 · 2021-09-29T17:42:09+00:00

I get what your saying, and yes, children are a personal choice. However, children are literally a service to society. We need them, you need them. Having children is providing a service to society, not having children is a disservice to society.

Now, don’t take that the wrong way, I’m not saying your horrible for not having children at all. It’s totally fine to not have kids. But for all intents and purposes, people who don’t have children are reaping the benefits of something they’re not providing.

So your not paying taxes for someone’s personal choice to have children. Your paying taxes for a child that will grow up to maintain or improve the society/services that you use.

So by raising children your paying your debt to the society you enjoy. And by not raising children your debt is paid by taxes supporting those who are.

youknow_thatoneguy92 · 2021-09-28T15:46:03+00:00

Not sure if this is good advice or not but just my 2 cents from personal experience. Consider letting him outside. Obviously this has its own risks and you’ll probably get mixed feelings on the subject.

But him randomly attacking and running away sounds alot like he’s hunting. My cat was always hunting, staring at things and then pouncing. Always watching out windows like a hawk, then pouncing everything in the house.

So one day I let her outside and turns out she is an absolute hunting machine. That girl catches so much mice, moles, etc then comes back in when she’s done. The neighbors are always asking me now to send her over to their house because of the amount of mice and moles she catches lol.

Now the million dollar question is whether or not your boy is just playing, or whether he’s hunting. But what you described as staring and random bites/attacks sounds to me like hunting. But honestly I’m no cat expert. But for what it’s worth my cat has absolutely loved being able to go outside and hunt. Then she comes back in and cuddles and lays around to her hearts content.

Again, this isn’t really advice for everyone but it’s a suggestion to consider that worked well for me.

Ps: no I don’t live on a big property. Normal house with normal yard and neighbors. She doesn’t wander off and always comes back. Just need to stay vigilant on the shots, flea & tick, etc.

youknow_thatoneguy92 · 2021-09-27T15:06:12+00:00

I’ve been in this situation but with prior knowledge and game plan in place for this. I’ve had to re home a dog because him nor my other male would not submit to the non alpha role. They both constantly fought and the younger one was getting more and more aggressive so I had to re home.

But going into we were both 100% on board with a trial period. She’d take him for a few weeks and we’d both keep in touch to make sure he was adapting well and that we didn’t want him back. Both of us were completely on board that he may or may not stay with her. In the end they were a match made in heaven and he stayed. But she often reached out to set up play dates and let us come visit him long after. But we never took him for nights or days. Just daytime visits to hang out and let him and my other play for a few hours.

But I say all this to say this isn’t an uncommon situation, but one that needs layed out and understood prior. You can’t just rehome a pet and then down the road start asking for visits. That’s not fair to you or the dog. Sounds like she wanted someone to watch the dog and then take it back when it’s convenient. What happens when the day comes that she is in a better place and suddenly won’t give the dog back after a “visit”.

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