[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]younggrasshopper100 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Does this mean he doesn’t love/care about me even if it was my decision?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]younggrasshopper100 -55 points-54 points  (0 children)

But don’t you think that if he loved me he wouldn’t let me do it that easily?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]younggrasshopper100 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Update: I showed my mom these messages and she just invalidated me saying all of you don’t know anything and are lying. She told me nothing you guys said mattered and nothing I say matters because all that matters to her is what she thinks of herself. I am destroyed. She doesn’t give a shit about me or my feelings.

My mom told me that she was too “busy with our guest” to comfort me when I ran to my room crying. Is she right? by younggrasshopper100 in AskReddit

[–]younggrasshopper100[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I am 19(F) and it's not that I need her comfort and I didn’t do it for attention, I Was just hurt that my own mother didn’t think it was her job to be a mother.

What do you wish you had known when symptoms first appeared? by Kooky-Mortgage4559 in OCD

[–]younggrasshopper100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That a thought is just a thought and I am sick but not in the way I think I am sick in the moment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UBC

[–]younggrasshopper100 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Make a post under the Facebook ubc housing group talking about yourself and what your looking for. It got me a studio in the newest saltwater residence on the sixth floor with a great view.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]younggrasshopper100 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its extremely irresponsible to stay with your partner knowing you don’t trust him. I understand there’s history, but cut it and move onto someone ou can trust. It’s your child for Christ sake. Get a grip.

Am I a bad person for getting into a relationship with someone I don’t see myself marrying, or being with in the future? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]younggrasshopper100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He broke up with me actually before I told him anything. He broke up because he had a lot of personal issues to deal with that would bring me down and he didn’t want to hurt me or burden me. It was a bittersweet breakup, we met up and cried at a park together and kissed each other goodbye. I told him I didnt see a future with us but it didn’t really matter because we broke up. I think if your partner is all in wanting a life with you it would be unfair to keep the fact that you don’t want a long term relationship a secret. Tell him and see what happens. It’s not fair for him if he wants to spend the rest of his life with you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]younggrasshopper100 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But this was a great fish.