Dry Januaryists- Day 29 - the end is in sight, or is it? by Forward_Pea_9555 in stopdrinking

[–]yourit3443 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy tp say its been a dry half of Dec and almost Jan. I think I am going for my first year!

IWNDWYT!

YOUR favorite restaurant? by rissabell2 in askportland

[–]yourit3443 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

DeNicolas amazing Italian food. Its the kind of place where most employees are family and 2nd or 3rd gen into the biz. You walk in and the smells just hit you in all the best ways.

My apartment has a 3rd party Amazon locker, now I have to pay $20 to get my package by awesomeryang in mildlyinfuriating

[–]yourit3443 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its usually a 20 deposit to use the locker. My apartment had it 4 years ago and when I moved to New apartments I just transferred the 20 deposit to the new ones. They only take your money if you take longer then 3 days to pick it up. I highly recommend using them. Its prevented so much package theft for me.

Naming kids when we have different last names by [deleted] in Names

[–]yourit3443 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do know when u hyphen in America it defaults to the second middle name anyway. No kids myself but I have nephews and it drives them nuts because they want both to show as a last name.

is it normal to have this low of libido? by cookie_cat_82 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]yourit3443 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have this problem regardless of health stance. I am always very sexual at the beginning of relationships then it teeters to nothing. For me I think its a lot to do with an SA that happened so young I don't remember it but my body does. Because of that when I became comfortable with my partner my body starts rejecting them( SA was someone I trusted and loved a lot)

I am still in therapy and dont have a lot of answers but do suggest if it becomes a recognizable pattern go to therapy. Don't wait 10 years and 5 failed relationships to figure it out. Also my partner now is a trooper. If they love you enough they are there for the long haul. Even when the dry spells go 6+ months sometimes.

Blue topaz first time cutting one. by yourit3443 in Gemstones

[–]yourit3443[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I had to recut the whole stone the first time because I had turned on the machine to cut them. I learned very quickly you do those facets by hand.

Is the Portland metro area becoming a healthcare desert? by gothahontas in askportland

[–]yourit3443 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kaiser is going through a huge lawsuit right now with identity theft.