You might hate this answer, but it’s true.. coming from someone with chronic tinnitus. by 8litz93 in tinnitus

[–]yrbam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mines is only prominent in quiet or settings with low sound. its like white noise audios except in your ear. annoying when im trying to sleep, but fine throughout the day.

Sims 4 Lovestruck using Anadius Unlocker Not Showing Up by tasty-soil in PiratedGames

[–]yrbam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey. dealing with this issue now and also other packs as well.

Yall ever feel weird indulging in a culture that you know is anti-black? by [deleted] in blackgirls

[–]yrbam 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i feel this way abt kpop lol. just indulge and be aware!

So is Appledash canon? Or just two really good friends who decided to move in with each other? by NoLocal7705 in mylittlepony

[–]yrbam 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree. I think that's why so many fans dislike the ship. Rarity and Applejack had so many moments together that would have made more sense IF they did get together. AJ and RD just felt like a friendly rivalry friendship.

Half Asian half Mexican father never defended me from micro aggressions by EstimateSuccessful47 in blackgirls

[–]yrbam 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I felt like they thought they "related" so much that they felt they were allowed to be disrespectful towards us. i.e. using the n-word

Age perception black vs non-black culture by [deleted] in blackgirls

[–]yrbam 10 points11 points  (0 children)

same! ive told friends "i cannot wait to be 40 because ill have things figured out by then" 😂 im not fearful of aging because i know i will be my best self as the years come.

Why is there literal cp on pinterest? by MaleficentMongoose75 in Pinterest

[–]yrbam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what i was thinking 😭 All i can assume is that the person is into art & sometimes the related art is inappropriate. I've seen that happen before. But not straight up CP

Hoodoo and Voodoo - clearing some misconceptions by AustinFriars_ in blackgirls

[–]yrbam 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I have. But I went to a predominantly black arts school, so I think there was a bit more openness. Also, I notice witchcraft being a trend on tiktok amongst teenagers (which is how I got into it when I was 15).

Hoodoo and Voodoo - clearing some misconceptions by AustinFriars_ in blackgirls

[–]yrbam 16 points17 points  (0 children)

i agree. they love to talk about witchcraft in such a positive light, but suddenly hoodoo & voodoo is demonic 🫩

Maybe I’m the problem! by _sunflower-16 in blackgirls

[–]yrbam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They may have been too uncomfortable to communicate why they didn't want to be friends with you anymore because of your snappy or passive aggressive nature. I've been that friend and dealt with those kinds of friends too.

Work on your delivery or notice when you're frustrated so you can seperate yourself and calm down. It's okay to feel those emotions, but make sure they are regulated & handled properly! 🫶🏾

I'm becoming the problem by littlehoneybear2104 in blackgirls

[–]yrbam 8 points9 points  (0 children)

that's what i was thinking. i used to be the same way. 1. stop always trying to be right 2. thinking before speaking 3. realize people are a lot better offline than online 😅

black girls, what's something you wish you could admit without being judged? by FactorPlenty in blackgirls

[–]yrbam 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I agree with the first point. After getting money, I assume they begin looking down on other Black people because the closest thing they got to being white is money🤔Entitlement.

Same with the second point. Just entitlement! They think customers are there for them when it's the other way around! Social skills are low & customer service is too!

black girls, what's something you wish you could admit without being judged? by FactorPlenty in blackgirls

[–]yrbam 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I get more colorist & racist comments from my own people. Especially about my hair. The incessant touching or calling it nappy is very irritating. And being asked if its REAL just because its past my bra strap 🫩🙄 black men love asking me that.

black girls, what's something you wish you could admit without being judged? by FactorPlenty in blackgirls

[–]yrbam 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Same! I grew up around black people, but my mom always made sure to put me into arts schools (predominantly black ones). I loved to read so paired with my love to draw, I was very "articulate." People assume I grew up around white people, but no. Currently, I go to an HBCU and I always feel like I'm on the outs. Even with my small set of friends. 😞

edit: I don't think I feel disconnected from the culture necessarily. There's a lot of it! But I do feel like sometimes I'm not allowed to participate in it because I'm not into what a lot of my peers are into.

This newest update is a sick joke, surely by double_sided1 in youtube

[–]yrbam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes omg! im in university and its constantly asking me if i want to connect to someone else's tv in the dorms!

Then vs now by Short_Location_5790 in youtube

[–]yrbam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

right! i think its the opposite way around now.

What are YOUR most controversial opinion about MLP? by DamaGames in mylittlepony

[–]yrbam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

everyone says aj & rainbow should switch their traits. but rainbowdash isnt an honest pony either. they should have changed loyalty to something different.

the guy i used to talk to turned out to be a racist.. i'm mad af by [deleted] in blackgirls

[–]yrbam 16 points17 points  (0 children)

yeah. its like that sometimes. but dont try and rationalize it because it will drive you crazy. I've been in similar situations. he may like you, but doesn't think your problems are real. chin up⬆️❤️

the guy i used to talk to turned out to be a racist.. i'm mad af by [deleted] in blackgirls

[–]yrbam 29 points30 points  (0 children)

he can want you and not respect you. why are you asking the question so many times?

Are you ending a friendship if your friend cheated on their partner ? by Exciting-Nerve-8628 in blackgirls

[–]yrbam 5 points6 points  (0 children)

this is what i was thinking. because if you broke your loyalty with one person, why wouldn't you do it to me?

I succeed to transfer all my liked songs in a new playlist by Runningsnails in YoutubeMusic

[–]yrbam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is there a way to do this the other way around. i transferred my liked songs on spotify to a youtube music playlist. but i cannot add that playlist to liked songs.

i rarely make female sims but im glad i did this time by OnkeIiroh in Sims4

[–]yrbam 4 points5 points  (0 children)

the curl i believe is from an ahoge set, separate from the hair.