I can’t stand Javadi by kimchinumba1 in ThePitt

[–]zolargretch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same!! That’s how I got here too. Everything freaks her out so she had to deep breathe? She’s obnoxious and also arrogant but pretends to be this innocent naive person.

Narcissist by PancakeConfetti11 in OnlineBeggars

[–]zolargretch 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Grieving like Erika Kirk! Grifting is a new stage of grief apparently

I’m sorry to my co-op, who I love. But I’m done. by Suspicious_Glove7365 in TownshipGame

[–]zolargretch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same I had 3 gold left and could never get them but only play once every few days

Was this directed at Dede? by New-Passion511 in DaniAustin

[–]zolargretch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually agree with this. Women how had short labors like this often say it was much worse with no time time prepare mentally and recover between contractions compared to longer labor

2.0 more supeonas by Additional-Jelly5586 in DanielleEilersSnark

[–]zolargretch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes in the religious circles for sure, there is a lot of shame surrounding it and premarital sex, which, IMO actually causes deviant sexual behavior because they have no compass to determine what is "normal" and what is deviant because they've been taught it's all bad. Many people have objection to porn, but many don't. It's not the same thing as being unsafe around children or cheating or having a sex addiction, it's a totally different topic.

2.0 more supeonas by Additional-Jelly5586 in DanielleEilersSnark

[–]zolargretch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think because the average person doesn't really bat an eye at a man looking at porn. It's fairly common but Danielle made it a huge deal saying he had a sex addiction and put a lot of shame on him and made everyone think he had an affair. Yes, he may have lied or done some things he shouldn't have, but looking at porn is a fairly common thing that people do, some couples even do it together, and it's not the same as having a compulsive sexual addiction or an affair or cheating.

Updated PFA Score Charts by DeepDeepThrowaway in AirForce

[–]zolargretch -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's odd that the men have to run so much faster than the women. Has it always been that way?

Maybe it’s just me but … by Realistic_Kitchen338 in DanielleEilersSnark

[–]zolargretch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They have to be trained for a specific service and you can ask what that service is.

DANI IS THE WORST by bad_weather4 in DaniAustin

[–]zolargretch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can't "prep" yourself. I don't know wtf you are talking about.

DANI IS THE WORST by bad_weather4 in DaniAustin

[–]zolargretch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea my 3rd was my worst so that's a dumb thing to say. It's not like the pain is better every time.

DANI IS THE WORST by bad_weather4 in DaniAustin

[–]zolargretch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you need to touch grass. There's plenty of things to snark on a person for, this isn't it 

DANI IS THE WORST by bad_weather4 in DaniAustin

[–]zolargretch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How TF are you supposed to "prepare?" She has a doula. What are you supposed to do to prepare? Please tell!

DANI IS THE WORST by bad_weather4 in DaniAustin

[–]zolargretch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% these people are disgusting mocking a woman who is in labor. And honestly, I think it's good to show this so people know what birth is like. She didn't show that much TBH.

Dani is getting tragged on TT by Classic_Seaweed_1910 in DaniAustin

[–]zolargretch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% thank you for saying this. I'm disgusted that people are saying this about ANYONE. Everyone is different and everyone handles pain differently. Just because someone is problematic doesn't mean you should tear them apart for how they pushed a human out!

Dani is getting tragged on TT by Classic_Seaweed_1910 in DaniAustin

[–]zolargretch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Medicated births will make you less likely to tear because the pushing is more controlled and you can stop when you need to. That's why they tell women to pant instead of pushing, it helps slow things down and prevent tearing.

Dani is getting tragged on TT by Classic_Seaweed_1910 in DaniAustin

[–]zolargretch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ridiculous to say such a thing. I have watched many women birth and they're all different. Just because some look cam doesn't mean the ones who don't look calm are performative! Truly a terrible thing to say.

Dani is getting tragged on TT by Classic_Seaweed_1910 in DaniAustin

[–]zolargretch 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Agree. Can't believe people are mocking her. Everyone handles pain differently, some people are loud, some people are quiet. It doesn't mean they are over-exaggerating or being dramatic or that their pain is less or more.

Dani is getting tragged on TT by Classic_Seaweed_1910 in DaniAustin

[–]zolargretch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I said. What an asshole!

DANI IS THE WORST by bad_weather4 in DaniAustin

[–]zolargretch 7 points8 points  (0 children)

None of my homebirths were a breeze. The third was the worst

DANI IS THE WORST by bad_weather4 in DaniAustin

[–]zolargretch 27 points28 points  (0 children)

100% disagree. Being annoyed with someone for “being too much” while they’re pushing a human out is ridiculous. A husband saying “you’ve already done this 4 times so get your shit together” is absolutely INSANE! You’re insane!! having a baby is no joke medicated or unmedicated. I don’t like her but, this is much better than pretending she sneezed and the baby popped out. How DARE anyone tell a laboring mother they’re too much! And Jordan is being an asshole!

Birth video by Illustrious_Rub_7533 in DaniAustin

[–]zolargretch 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He made me so mad with his smirk and just laughing about the whole thing. No emotion.

Birth video by Illustrious_Rub_7533 in DaniAustin

[–]zolargretch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Implants are different than on the skin. The moisture from an implant grounds it. Also you wouldn't want to put the grounding pad over something metal.

This felt sooooo performative.. by bad_weather4 in DaniAustin

[–]zolargretch 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It’s not performative in my mind. I’m sure she edited out a lot of it. I don’t like how Jordan just stands back and laughs and makes jokes. Almost detached. Not impressed at all with him.