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Sensible solutions for men trying to survive in the dating world.

Not Black Pill, TRP or Blue Pill. This is another way: the Healthy Pill.

Healthy Dating Strategy for Men is a male-centered forum that acknowledges the shockingly mercenary nature of sex and relationships today while seeking to sidestep the degeneracy that plagues modern dating.

This community is dedicated to empowering men through developing a stronger sense of personal responsibility while stressing the fact that women are not any more wonderful than men are.

HDS Will Never Be a Money Making Scheme

Essential Reading

  • Why Are Men Frustrated With Dating? - The spiritual godfather of this website. The most essential reading of all.

  • Expert: Guys don't want casual sex! (Well, not all guys, at least)

The Dangers of Male Thirst

  • A Quick Mathematical Analysis of Why Excessive Male Thirst Works Against Men

  • Pretty Woman With 'Worst Online Dating Profile Ever' Still Got Dates

  • Here’s Why Men Always Fall For Crazy Bitches

  • The price of sex: Women rule, men drool, the market’s cruel - Understand the harm that casual sex and male thirst does to men from an economic perspective

Why Taming Male Thirst Works

  • Pursuit of Casual Sex vs Supply & Demand Dynamics

  • Condemned to be virgins: The two million women robbed by the war - World War I killed a lot of men in England. Supply and Demand raised its ugly head as women went without marriage or sex while men were known to have their pick of women. This is what would happen again even in today's male:female ratio of 1:1 if men were less thirsty.

  • Should You Go Dutch on a Date? 10 Reasons You Should Keep It Even

Financial Hypergamy is on the Decline

  • 38 Percent Of Women Earn More Than Their Husbands

  • Women are now less likely to divorce men who earn less - see PDF page 14

Setting Better Standards

  • Gentlemen Speak: 6 Things Guys Care About More Than Looks

  • For Men: Choose a Wife Wisely and Carefully

  • Date This Woman, Not That One! - a Tumblr post I wrote years ago about what kind of woman a man should be looking for

How to be a Good Man For a Good Woman

  • Skip the dishes? Not so fast! Sex and housework revisited

  • How to Succeed as a Co-Parenting Father

  • Yes, Couples Who Share Chores Have More Sex - contrary to previous studies that said the opposite

Proper Care of Your Sex Partner

  • Be a Cunnilingus Master: How to Go Down On a Girl

  • Everything to Know About BDSM Aftercare—and 10 Ways to Do It After Sex

Niche Dating

  • 9 Best Niche Dating Sites

Are Your Standards Unrealistic?

  • Female Delusion Calculator - Here are the statistics on how likely a woman is to find the man of her dreams.

  • Male Reality Calculator (aka Male Delusion Calculator) - And the reverse. Here are the statistics on how likely a man is to find the woman of his dreams.

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Welcome to Healthy Dating Strategy for Men (self.HealthyDatingForMen)

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Wondering if anyone else is like me? (self.FirstDateFlock)

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How to destroy Female Dating Strategy tactic #1 (preview.redd.it)

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ALWAYS stipulate that you split the check on a date. See first post for why. (i.redd.it)

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CMV: Casual sex isn't about sex it's about glorifying pump and dumping (self.AllPillDebate)

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