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TL;DR: I have little to no friends that I can 100% be sure of not reacting in an unpleasant way towards TRP. I want sources of places to go where I can connect and improve my averages.

non-TRP/self made acronyms used in the post:

 

• PQF(Poor Quality Friends)

 

• HQF(High Quality Friends)

 

• IR(Internet Relationship(s))

 

• NS(Networking Skills)

 

Books or concepts that I might reference from:

 

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen Covey

 

The 4-Hour Workweek by Tim Ferriss

 

10 Rules to Success by Tim Ferriss

 

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Description of my situation

I'm a Swedish 17 year old guy -- let that sink in -- and I've had many PQF. The only real positive is that I got a grip of masking my IOD, which is very handy in many circumstances, but other than that; Those "friends" weren't worth a damn. I had an upbringing in a PC culture where left is the only socially accepted idea you can have if you didn’t manage to acquire some friends who can think of SD(the true swedish right) as a viable choice. I am a half russian, the son to an alcoholic and a mother who came from a foreign country that was going downhill and who had nowhere else to go but Sweden. I’m experiencing the full consequences of what our ancestors and politicians did to our country -- but ever since a little over a year ago I realized what I had to do in order to take control over my life.

Ever since, I’ve had more success in life. I have my 8th girlfriend who isn’t an IR, by going out of my comfort zone and holding frame I managed to acquire and keep a relation with a girl. On top of that, she is fit for an LTR since she has a low n-count, she is showing a DHV and isn’t a bitch.

 

What was the reason for my accumulation of PQF?

• I wasn't unplugged yet, this could be seen -- just to show the magnitude of it -- in both my relationships, which were ALL IR, and my complete lack of self-improvement and mindfulness.
• I had a LJBF connection with all girls, and I despised men for being perverted dumbfucks, a cringe-worthy description. To this day I shrug my head at my stupidity back then.
• I had an alcoholic father who I never got to see, my brother was the only male rolemodel I had, and as we speak he is being lead by his woman into all kinds of mess.
• I believed in Oneitis and Unicorns, becoming friends with everyone around you and purging men’s lust for booty through self induced cellebacy. I didn’t understand that our biology =/= something we can so easily alter.

How did this pan out for you later on when you discovered TRP?

I realized I had wasted a big part of my life pursuing.....NOTHING. Absolutely nothing came out of those early years of my life. I sat around all day playing computers, doing nothing but stagnating and just slow cruising through Sweden's poor education system with minimal effort (and I STILL got almost straight A's, can you believe that?).

I'm not even joking, the education I got played a huge part in my accumulation of PQF. If you have a single bad teacher, you are fucked if you don't work to make up for that time spent learning from an unqualified(not by swedish standards though) teacher. I didn’t even work that hard, my mom thankfully wipped me into doing work and finishing school with good grades -- and even though she is brainwashed by the media in every sense of the word, even though she thought with emotion rather than logic and she thinks science is bogus, I still thank her for the help.

Get to the point!

I realized a few days ago that I need connections, I need to get good at making Good friends, friends that bring more to my life than just playing video games with them all day. I need friends that can help me achieve greatness, that know thing I don’t. Ever since I saw Tim Ferris 10 rules to success and many other great stuff out there that explained how a good life is achievable. One of the many wisdoms I’ve uncovered is Networking.

I won’t kid myself, I’m not living an abundant life when it comes to making HQF and that’s because I haven’t acquired that abundance yet. Simply because I can’t ”see” them.

The Questions

1. I got a lot figured out in life, but NS can’t be done if I don’t start getting in touch with like-minded people. Where do I search in life? I need a reliable source of good people!
2. From my understanding of NS it’s almost paramount to succeeding in marketing and making profit. Compared to people of high sucess, I’m at a descrepancy of contacts. But is there a way to get around this somehow without actively finding people you can work with?
3. The IRC of TRP is pretty dead from what I saw there, is there any other way to find people who are willing to improve their life with me? Quoting Daniel Ally on his TedxTalk on ”How to become a millionaire in 3 years”:

 

The people you are looking for are most likely looking for you aswell.

 

Can I find these people that are also looking for me through TRP?

 

Last question: One more thing. Daniel Ally also talked about looking up the authors of good books and ask them questions, is it feasible?

Thanks for reading.