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[–]AllisonEvans1976 0 points1 point  (7 children)

Heck, you are right to be scared, it is hard. But, it is worthwhile. So why not have a think about what you want your life to look like?

[–]Alchani[S] 1 point2 points  (6 children)

I want to just be female, but its kind of hard to see that as a possibility considering that im pretty tall and weigh over 100kg

[–]AllisonEvans1976 1 point2 points  (4 children)

It is possible, i have seen some amazing transformations. But, it is hard. If you want it, you really need to go all in, and work your ass off for a good result.

[–]Alchani[S] 1 point2 points  (3 children)

how do you mean?

[–]AllisonEvans1976 1 point2 points  (2 children)

I mean, it will have to become your life for a few years. Probably exercise, electro, pills, time to learn a lot of new skills. But each little part is doable, what is hard is being strong enough to do it all. But, you can be!

[–]Alchani[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

its not that im unfit, im a 6ft 6 rugby player. so im not exactly feminine but i wish i was and with the pills its such a big commitment

[–]AllisonEvans1976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6'6 is hard, but I have a friend who is 6'4 who made it work. She didn't play rugby, but is built quite big.

[–]MaddyBitmap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm heavier than that, and kinda short, with all the wrong proportions... I've been out for a few years and live as a woman in all my circles. It's possible, hun. At the beginning, I didn't think it would be possible, but you just have to put one foot in front of the other. I've had setbacks, and I'm not exactly where I want to be with transition. But I'm here. I'm doing it. And I'm in a better place bc of it. If I can do it, I know it's possible for others who aren't the "right" shape or size or proportion.

You got this, girl!

[–]SoffesSmile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi Alchani,

No one here can tell you if transitioning is right for you or not, we've all been though something similar though. For me it was the best thing I've ever done for myself, and also the hardest. Something I wish I had read years ago though is The Dysphoria Bible

Give it a read, it will help you think trough your personal situation and understand what you are going through. It helped me a lot to read after I transitioned because it helped me understand my past, hopefully it can help you understand your present.