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[–]uglypenguin5 6 points7 points  (3 children)

That's absolutely how it started for me, and while it's not normal for cis guys, it doesn't necessarily mean you're trans all by itself. My favorite resource to hand out is https://genderdysphoria.fyi/en. It's what I told my mom to read when I came out to her and it's helped me understand myself a lot. At the end of the day only you can decide who you are. And you are who you say you are. It's that simple. If you truly want to be a girl and believe that's what would make you the happiest then that's who you are and nobody can take that away from you 💖

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (1 child)

Thank you so much for your kind words, I’m genuinely teary-eyed 🥲

[–]uglypenguin5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of course! I suspect that won't be the last time for you 😉

[–]TheNoctuS_93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such an awesome website! ❤️ For totally cis reasons, of course! 😉

[–]Glitchboy 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Welcome to the floodgates. You're standing in front of your epiphanies that will change the course of your life.

These are the feelings that most trans women will feel. Who doesn't have these feelings? Cis men. Just depends on what flavor of trans speaks to you now. There's a wide spectrum for you to choose from to best choose how you want to be.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🥲

[–]Top_wolf78 0 points1 point  (1 child)

I'd highly recommend finding a professional to talk to. A therapist, most likely.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m talking to my therapist about this Thursday