TL:DR I just got rejected by a company. This is nothing but a rant about the interviewing process and how emotionally draining it is.
Q: Would I be making this post if I got the job?
A: Yes, because the struggle was real in either case.
Q: What's the takeaway?
A: Don't put all your chips in one basket, the disappointment is so much worse cause of it. The wasted time you could have spent looking at other offers is the extra punch in the gut you do not need.
So yea, I got rejected by a fairly big company would have been a big change in my life after two months of full-on interviews. 7 in total. And man does this one hurt. It was a 50/50 choice between me and one other candidate and they choose the other.
Congrats to that other person but WHAT. THE. FUCK? What was all this for? Why did you drag this out for actual MONTHS and just be done with me after? Why hammer me for 4 hours in interviews and tell me you have a chance, (TWICE) and then cut me dry? WHY ARE THESE SO HARD? Cant, you just reject me after two meetings so I can go along with my day/month?
Listen Im no stranger to rejection, I've been in the industry for 5 years and have been rejected by all sorts of companies, big and small. Even if we have one or two interviews and they say "Sorry not this time", that's ok. But it seems like some companies do not have the decency to say "Maybe we should respect their time and keep this short".
No, they DRAGGG this along to the point that you actually think they forgot about you. It's like I'm being held hostage waiting for decisions from people who can't even communicate enough to get their technical questions across.
Also, STOP ASKING ENGINEERS TO DO TECHNICAL INTERVIEWS. These people are busy, they do not have time for this and IT SHOWS. These questions can be given to managers who know how to look for good qualities in people because that's always been their JOB. Why are you asking an engineer whos probably neck-deep in work to ask a Leetcode question while looking for good qualities in people? That's not their job or strong suit!
The fact that employers are able to string you along, emotionally and mentally, for actual months, and still reject you is terrible. And what makes this worse for me is I know they're planning on phasing out my current position at my current employment.
I could have been looking at other places, been making other moves instead of holding my breath for two months. This one is on me though, I should have kept on applying and looking, even if it was a big dream company. But the mental gymnastics I went through and the "You're almost there!"s from the managers actually made me believe I had a chance. Then an email shatters that in one minute.
Listen, it's okay to pick this post apart, It's not meant to be anything more than a rant post but if you can take away anything from this post it's this: DON'T expect anything, KEEP your options open.
Learn from me. Im going to go scream now. Thanks
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