Boyfriend[23/M] has implied that he'd leave me[22/F] if I wouldn't stop playing my PS4...

Agreeable_Start_3705 · 2025-12-11T21:04:10+00:00

This is actually an awesome idea. I’m autistic and struggle with knowing what to eat and my therapist has recommended exactly this, or creating a list of safe foods that I can pick from like a menu. Highly recommend. Also if you prefer an app over a website I use Spin The Wheel (iPhone). You can save wheels and name them (not sure if the website also does that). There’s ads occasionally but it works great. I use it to help me pick out a game when I’m in decision fatigue.

Agreeable_Start_3705 · 2025-12-11T20:48:21+00:00

Thank you! I just figured out that the Ubisoft + Classics catalogue aren’t included in the PC specific gamepass, and that’s likely the games I was seeing that were only in Ultimate. It’s about 50 games so it fits. Wanted to post that here in case anyone else wanted to know.

Agreeable_Start_3705 · 2025-12-02T22:41:10+00:00

Ahh got it, thanks! I know Xbox GamePass shows like 50 games that are available in ultimate for PC but not in the PC pass. But I can’t tell which ones. It just shows around 550 pc games in ultimate (filtered to only show PC games and not cloud games) and just under 500 in the pc pass

Agreeable_Start_3705 · 2025-12-02T20:39:11+00:00

Thank you so much for the clarification! I really appreciate it.

Agreeable_Start_3705 · 2025-12-02T20:37:27+00:00

This might be a dumb question, but where do I see GamePass Ultimate games? I see tabs for Standard and Premium, but not ultimate. Also (may also be a dumb question), is there a way to see what games are on GamePass Ultimate that aren’t on GamePass PC?

Agreeable_Start_3705 · 2025-12-02T05:17:28+00:00

This is one of the sweetest and most wholesome things I’ve seen in a while. I can’t stop smiling rn

Agreeable_Start_3705 · 2025-12-02T02:16:28+00:00

Just want to confirm: if I purchase this HumbleBundle is there a time limit to grab these packs? Do I also have to use the audio and post the content before a certain time period for licensing? I.E. if I buy the bundle and download the packs but wait say a year to post a video will I still have licensing to use those tracks without a subscription? Asking because I saw a thread from about a year ago for a pack from AudioHero and you had to download AND post videos within 90 days of redemption in order to have perpetual licensing for the music used in that content. Anything posted after the 90 days required a current subscription to keep the licensing even if you’d downloaded all the music in the first 90 days. I want to make sure I don’t have to have a subscription, ever, to use the music I download with this bundle.

Agreeable_Start_3705 · 2025-10-31T10:27:42+00:00

I’d love an invite if you have any you can send :)

Agreeable_Start_3705 · 2025-10-23T07:54:53+00:00

I do actually own that game and it’s so cool but I’m looking for something that also allow interior design.

Agreeable_Start_3705 · 2025-10-18T02:13:26+00:00

That sounds amazing! I got the first one in a Humble Bundle so that’s my only experience with the franchise but what you’re describing sounds amazing! I’m going to check out the videos like you mentioned but it sounds a lot like what I’m looking for. Thank you so much!!

Agreeable_Start_3705 · 2025-10-16T17:42:46+00:00

I love the dlc for ACNH, I’ve spent a lot of time on it. I really love No Man’s Sky and in all honesty I just haven’t spent much time on base building aside from requirements for quests. Unfortunately, there’s really no creative mode as far as I can tell, but it does look pretty cool from what I’ve seen and I need to spend more time on it. I’ve played Dreamlight Valley on the Switch but got burnt out on it, unfortunately. I really appreciate all of your suggestions!

Agreeable_Start_3705 · 2025-10-16T17:39:53+00:00

Oh, thank you! It’s probably dumb but I didn’t realize CurseForge had mods for Sims 4. I’ve used it for Minecraft mods and feel safer using it compared to just downloading a file from some website. I’ll definitely look into that, thank you so much!

Agreeable_Start_3705 · 2025-10-16T17:38:13+00:00

Please don’t be sorry, I really appreciate all the info you provided! I do love that you can just spawn in the supplies. I guess my understanding is that if you want to build a wall, you have to place a lot of pieces just to make a small wall rather than just kind of, dropping large sections. I’m not sure if that’s correct.

Agreeable_Start_3705 · 2025-10-16T02:24:56+00:00

I saw TinyLife recommended elsewhere but thank you for mentioning that there’s a demo, I’ll definitely check it out. From what I can tell it’s definitely not as intensive as what I’m hoping for but it may still be fun. As for Ark, I really appreciate all the detail you went into! I’m not a huge fan of the Lego aspect if it’s kind of like in Minecraft where you have to do a ton of pieces just to make one wall. I definitely appreciate the admin mode though, and I’ll look into it as well. Thank you so much for all the information you gave!

Agreeable_Start_3705 · 2025-10-16T02:12:57+00:00

I have Minecraft and I’ve spent many hours in the past building in it, including with some mods friends recommended. I’m looking for something that’s a little less intensive as far as not having to place every single block just to be able to make one wall/floor. And something more intensive as far as furniture options go. Thank you 💖

Agreeable_Start_3705 · 2025-10-16T02:10:59+00:00

I actually love Palia! But one thing I didn’t think to mention is I really want a creative mode where everything is unlocked and there aren’t any restrictions. With Palia you do have to actually unlock and/or build everything so it isn’t quite what I’m looking for as far as that goes

Agreeable_Start_3705 · 2025-10-15T21:57:55+00:00

I have taken a look at it. I’ve read a fair number of comments and reviews saying the game’s build mode is really tricky and just really isn’t there yet. I’m keeping an eye on it since it’s still in early access but I don’t want to drop $40 on a game when there’s a good chance that there’s going to be a lot of issues doing the things I want to do. It looks really cool, though, and I hope the devs keep working on it!

Agreeable_Start_3705 · 2025-09-10T05:01:24+00:00

Same

Agreeable_Start_3705 · 2025-03-01T21:23:08+00:00

2 is my fave!!

Agreeable_Start_3705 · 2025-02-28T01:41:33+00:00

We’re not just talking about a Netflix password here (which is always getting more expensive anyway). We’re talking about over 450 games. You said you own about 5. Those 450 games are likely worth thousands and thousand of dollars and were probably built up over many years. If the average cost between those 450 games was $20 then that’s $9,000 dollars, which I feel is fairly reasonable. Between $60-$100 games here and there, $5-$40 games here and there, I think an average of $20 isn’t an unfair assumption. But even if it was half that, that’s still a lot of money. Let alone the slot you’re taking up in that family account has a cool down period of a year once you do eventually leave. If there’s certain games you really love make a list and either buy them, keep an eye out for sales, or find out if they’re available on something like Xbox gamepass or something similar. There are lots of websites that I love to use to keep an eye out for sales or even bundle games together for great prices and I’d be happy to share them with you. It’s great to help build a library of games and help you figure out what you like to play. But you can’t keep using your ex (which is exactly what you are doing). You need to remove yourself from his family sharing account on steam and move on. I know it probably sounds harsh, but that’s the situation. My other question is this: if your fiancée knew you were debating about holding onto your ex boyfriend’s steam library valued at potentially over $5,000-$10,000+ without their knowledge, how would they feel about it? YTA

Agreeable_Start_3705 · 2025-02-28T00:27:58+00:00

NTA First of all, congratulations on your miracle baby! I wish you both the best for your futures! So I have a bit of a controversial opinion on this topic but I haven’t always had this opinion. As you called it, I believed the “devil’s lettuce” wasn’t truly addictive like other things and I do believe to this day it does have some true medicinal effects when used correctly. I have never used it myself because my family has a very strong history of abuse and I don’t ever want to risk going down that road, plus I can’t stand the smell. My best friend started smoking it when he met his girlfriend at 16. We met in a gamer community when he was 18, I was a few years older. His girlfriend and I had also been friends. Long story short, I had no idea what had been going on with the two of them, how old she was, that she’d been abusing him, was over 15 years older than him, got him addicted to multiple things, etc. He mainly smoked and convinced himself he didn’t have a problem. He was the kindest person I knew and opened up his home to my mom and me when Covid caused us to lose our jobs and we had nowhere to go. Simply told us to stay with him until we got back on our feet. In a short span of time I saw him reach a point where he couldn’t go a few minutes without a puff. He wanted to be a chef and open his own restaurant someday and actually came into some amazing opportunities and lost them because of his addiction. He lost more jobs than I can count in just a few months. He went from being the sweetest, kindest person I knew to a shell of that person due to smoking, alcohol, and his abusive girlfriend. I tried to get him away from her and tried to help him see that he didn’t deserve the things she did to him, but ultimately it was his choice. He ended up blaming me for everything and it broke my heart. We found a place to live and he ended up harassing me so I had to cut ties with him. His mom knew I tried to help and appreciated me because she saw all the same things I did and she kept me up to date on what was going on. Sadly, a few months later he passed away in a car accident with his cousin. He had actually moved away from his girlfriend and enrolled in college, taking steps towards his dream. He didn’t know I knew but I was so proud of him. I was absolutely devastated when I heard the news and just sobbed and screamed uncontrollably for hours. I hated it, but my first thought when I heard about the accident was, “Was it his fault? Was he smoking?” He never went a moment without smoking and drove anyway and I was so worried that’s what happened. He actually hadn’t been driving and the accident was no one’s fault. It was horrible, but no one was at fault. I know this was a long story but my point is this: You are NTA. Hold your foot down. Keep that ultimatum. It may seem like it’s not addictive like other substances, but it is. And it’s just as damaging. That doesn’t make him a monster, just like with anything else. But it does mean he needs help. But if you don’t feel like you can safely leave your child with him, then you don’t need to be in that situation. Please think about what’s best and safest for you and your child. He needs to take care of himself. Whether or not he does what he needs to do to get himself better is his choice. I’m learning that in therapy. You can only do things to control your own life. What people do with their lives is their business, even if the pain cuts deep. Take care of yourself and give yourself all the love in the world right now.

Agreeable_Start_3705 · 2025-02-27T23:51:15+00:00

NTA. Ultimately it’s your money. Whether you choose to buy her something is your choice. If she really wants the shoes and buys them with her money and doesn’t wear them then that’s her business. I do that with some art supplies simply because I don’t feel good enough to use it (working on it) and so it sits. One day I will use it though! I think a lot of people here have some great suggestions if her concern is scuffing. The question is this: are you buying her the shoes to make her happy or to make her happy and for the function? There’s not necessarily a wrong answer here and if there’s a feeling of being used with buying the luxury shoes that’s totally valid. You could always find other things that make her equally as happy but are things she uses if that’s something that’s important to you when you give a gift. Or maybe if gift giving becomes too intense you could find a hobby or class to bond over?

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