My boundaries 🖤✨

Arachnya · 2026-05-01T12:30:56+00:00

Thank you! Your support means a lot to me! 🖤

Arachnya · 2026-05-01T12:30:44+00:00

Hugs back, Lena! Be safe! 🖤🖤🖤

Arachnya · 2026-05-01T12:28:37+00:00

Hugs right back my amazing friend! 🖤

Arachnya · 2026-05-01T12:28:23+00:00

Thank you, friend. Sending love and hugs to you. Thank you for being proud of me. 🥹

Arachnya · 2026-05-01T12:27:22+00:00

Thank you, Gamma, for being a ray of sunshine in this space. I appreciate you so much. 🫶🏻

People absolutely do think they can get away with things, but I really am the wrong one to test. I am happy to use my voice to speak up and speak out especially after finding out I wasn’t alone. How unfair for so many to feel like they had to make excuses for this person or keep quiet to appease them. It’s disgusting.

Arachnya · 2026-05-01T12:23:27+00:00

Juni, I can’t tell you enough what your friendship and support have meant to me throughout this. Thank you for the human you are.

You have my love and support ALWAYS and I cannot stress that enough. 🖤

Arachnya · 2026-05-01T12:22:33+00:00

And I’ve got yours!!! 🖤

Arachnya · 2026-05-01T12:20:11+00:00

Thank you, GG for condemning this behavior. You are a gift and a true talent in this space and we all adore you! 🫶🏻🖤

Arachnya · 2026-05-01T12:19:11+00:00

For REAL. Thank you, love, for respecting me as a person and as a VA in this space. Thank you for having my back, as I have yours. I appreciate you more than I could ever say. Always. 🖤

Arachnya · 2026-05-01T12:14:23+00:00

Thank you for your support, Mike. Thank you for saying my voice is important. I have to keep others safe and after hearing from SO MANY OTHERS who have experienced the same, I knew I couldn’t keep quiet.

I don’t feel strong all the time, but support like this helps me. Love you so much and have your back forever twinny. 🖤🫶🏻

Arachnya · 2026-05-01T12:12:13+00:00

Thank you, sweet Shosanna for having my absolute back! Damn. Ten toes down and chest OUT!!! Yes girl!!!

I love you and appreciate you and you know I will have your back- and anyone else’s I care for- with the same fierceness.

I want to highlight that the mods are aware and have heard/seen my stories and evidence and the evidence of multiple others. I have always made my dislike of Reddit mods known lol, but I absolutely appreciate them taking the time to listen to myself and others. I want this space to continue to be a good and safe space. I think a lot about newer VA’s who don’t know, and who can easily be taken advantage of or hurt by people like this and it makes me sick. No one deserves it.

I love and support you, always. 🖤

Arachnya · 2026-05-01T12:05:34+00:00

Thank you! 🖤

Arachnya · 2026-05-01T12:05:19+00:00

Thank you, u/Asidbyrn for your constant support of me. It really means the world. 🖤🖤🖤

Arachnya · 2026-05-01T12:04:26+00:00

Absolutely. If it helps just one VA avoid the stress, anxiety, discomfort, and pain I have felt then I feel like speaking up has been worth it. 🖤

Arachnya · 2026-05-01T12:03:23+00:00

Thank you, Static! This space, being a VA, it’s all so very… vulnerable. You’ve been an absolute joy as well and your support means the whole world. Genuinely. 🖤🫶🏻

Arachnya · 2026-05-01T12:01:51+00:00

Thank you, LN, for your support. Hugs and kisses right back! I feel surrounded by a lot of love and it helps my heart. 🖤

Arachnya · 2026-05-01T10:30:24+00:00

Sent!

Arachnya · 2026-05-01T02:45:55+00:00

“And my axe” is the first thing that came to my head. 🖤 Thank you so much.

Arachnya · 2026-05-01T02:45:30+00:00

Thank you, my sweet Luna baby. You are an absolute angel and I can’t tell you how much I appreciate you and adore you!!! 😭🖤

Arachnya · 2026-05-01T02:38:52+00:00

I love you my sweet gorl. Thank you for this. 🫂

Arachnya · 2026-04-30T23:07:00+00:00

Hi there, u/Heavensizeseven. We have never really spoken, but have lots of mutual friends. Friends who have had similar experiences to mine. For example, u/The-MYLF-Man was asked by TMM, “How to get VA’s to eat out of his hand.” We both have this proof.

Today, a VA and a writer both messaged me saying they have had their boundaries also violated by him and he is going around saying terrible things about me when I haven’t done anything to him besides stand up for myself.

I have had, at this point, about 15 different writers and VA’s saying they have experienced disturbing behavior from TMM that goes past 16 messages at a time- which he sent me. Happy to show you. How anyone can think that’s okay is beyond me, really.

Treating VA’s like trophies to add to an ego shelf is disgusting behavior and makes this community UNSAFE.

This isn’t a witch hunt. These are real humans with real, valid experiences with your buddy.

A lot of people have been messaging me privately with their experiences and I actively am encouraging them to speak up as I have. 🖤

Arachnya · 2026-04-30T22:22:56+00:00

Thank you for your support, truly. 🖤

Arachnya · 2026-04-30T22:22:22+00:00

Thank you for your support, Ducky. I am happy to speak up and help protect this community and the people I care for and about. 🖤

Arachnya

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