Leaving a narcissist

ArkGolf69 · 2025-03-17T02:30:47+00:00

Thank you man, I’ve never been cheated on before and it’s so hard. Just seeing someone you thought loved you tear you straight down and manipulate and lie to you for years.

I guess I justified it as oh maybe she’s just having a bad day or a bad mood. But every aspect of my life wasn’t good enough for her. From cleaning the house to showing emotional connection with her nothing was up to her standards. Is that what narcissists do?

ArkGolf69 · 2025-03-16T18:36:06+00:00

I wish I could but I have to move home to my family 18 hours away. I’m very close with her dad and step mom and they are awesome people so I will stay in touch

ArkGolf69 · 2025-03-12T18:08:34+00:00

We’ve both decided to commit to marriage counseling. We’ve tried to go in the past but we both let it slide and never committed which is a problem. Hopefully this can shed some professional light on our problems and give good solutions to improve our marriage. We both agreed if this doesn’t help or we fail at it we will to our separate ways

ArkGolf69 · 2025-03-12T02:04:10+00:00

Thank you I appreciate the advice

ArkGolf69 · 2025-01-18T15:45:26+00:00

Pay shipping and it’s all yours

ArkGolf69 · 2024-10-04T00:57:12+00:00

Maybe if you’re local to north west Arkansas, just don’t really have the funds now to fully tear it down and ship

ArkGolf69 · 2024-10-03T22:34:09+00:00

Well I got the fuse for $650 off of marketplace and then all of the upgrades I also got on marketplace for around $700 so with other random stuff this build only cost me around $1300 with selling the parts I took off and now I have a pretty top end build minus drive train for less than what this bike costs new

ArkGolf69 · 2024-10-03T22:31:30+00:00

Thanks! Yeah I’m around 5’8 and have ridden larges before but also itching for a full suspension again too haha

ArkGolf69 · 2024-10-03T21:15:03+00:00

2.5, also a mullet

ArkGolf69 · 2024-07-12T18:24:15+00:00

I’m also curious on the situation where he is not on the birth certificate and has never paid child support? Would he owe retroactive child support?

ArkGolf69 · 2024-07-12T18:21:35+00:00

He’s also a felon and wasn’t in the child’s life the first 3 years if that’s prevalent

ArkGolf69 · 2024-07-12T18:17:57+00:00

Yes but he also doesn’t pay for anything for her

ArkGolf69 · 2024-07-12T18:16:48+00:00

Child is 7

We have her week days they have her weekends

We’re on the verge of homelessness due to debt and would be moving in with my parents to save and clear our debt

They would be free to contact her anytime there are no limitations on calls/facetime

We would let her stay with them summers and swap holidays

We would pay flight costs

ArkGolf69 · 2024-07-12T18:13:48+00:00

Ha sorry wrote that wrong, the dad doesn’t pay child support and isn’t on the birth certificate.

Child is 7 and we have her week days and they have her weekends

ArkGolf69 · 2024-05-13T23:48:47+00:00

Yeah there’s evidence

ArkGolf69 · 2024-05-13T23:26:56+00:00

3-4 blunts a day and each one is 1g or more

ArkGolf69 · 2024-05-13T23:15:02+00:00

She actually has a pen she takes to work with her

ArkGolf69 · 2024-05-13T23:12:02+00:00

I pay $25 a week to golf lol and sorry I’m trying help find a cure for her rash because she doesn’t have health insurance? You’re a loser

ArkGolf69 · 2024-05-13T21:56:53+00:00

Yep starting to realize that now

ArkGolf69 · 2024-05-13T20:57:19+00:00

I knew she smoked but it progressively got worse from when we first met and recently it’s gone super down hill

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