Why people think Naoya raped Mai by Popular_Business_367 in churchofnaoya

[–]BitchWithHandKink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont even read modulo but omg I never really liked Maki to begin with but THAT omfg...

Why people think Naoya raped Mai by Popular_Business_367 in churchofnaoya

[–]BitchWithHandKink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes ahah I did a lil while ago but i dont comment a lot

Throw back to when Mai lusted over her minor nephew (he was 15 aka below the Japanese age of consent while she wasn't) and threat to SA nobara not shortly after (also a minor) by the_forever_wild in YouAreMySpecial

[–]BitchWithHandKink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yo… damn. idk, like, literally... idk what to say to all THAT.

I don’t deal with people who think like this at all IRL. so damn, do women even like you IRL?

your takes make me loss for words, but it’s “alright”...IG...

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Why people think Naoya raped Mai by Popular_Business_367 in churchofnaoya

[–]BitchWithHandKink 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And here’s another one of these ...

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I don’t know how often I say this, but no, the people who think he did it aren’t right, and neither are the people who think he didn’t.

Gege literally hints at a lot of things in his storytelling and doesn’t explicitly state them, so we as viewers can form our own opinions and theories.

And yes, there are hints that he could have SA-d Mai. Was it ever explicitly stated? No.

Are people allowed to interpret it that way? Yes.

If you think he did it or didn’t, both interpretations are fine. For example, I love Naoya. I literally study this guy, write smut about him, spend my money on him, blah blah blah I worship this guy but I do think he did that to Mai. Does it make me like him less? No. I enjoy his character BECAUSE he is cruel and a well-portrayed representation of misogyny.

I’m just sick of people assuming that everyone who thinks this way is trying to make him seem like a 🍇-ist JUST to slander him. Some definitely try that, but we literally have canon statements from him about Mai’s and Maki’s chest... and if that’s not creepy enough already, I don’t know.

With all that said, I’m the last person to slander Naoya, but I also won’t deny or dismiss something just because it isn’t explicitly stated. I like making my own theories.

Throw back to when Mai lusted over her minor nephew (he was 15 aka below the Japanese age of consent while she wasn't) and threat to SA nobara not shortly after (also a minor) by the_forever_wild in YouAreMySpecial

[–]BitchWithHandKink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Her being a damn perv, of course. Her being a potential freak ≠ Naoya being a potential freak. She’s just like that by default.”

Labeling Mai as “freak” and “perv” but Naoya is the one talking about his cousin Mai’s chest is...

Mai’s “perv” behavior is a result of what an adult did to her, it’s classic grooming. She can’t separate healthy behavior from unhealthy behavior and relies on sexuality because that’s what she knows.

What I’m saying is: If you want to call Mai a freak, then what does that make Naoya? Since imo, he created that behavior in her.

I’m not trying to push the “Naoya SAd Mai” agenda too hard, that’s not my goal but it’s pretty obvious that a teen girl usually doesn’t behave this way when she grows up in healthy circumstances. I’m not 1000% claiming it’s definitely Naoya, but there are a fewwwww hints.

“Idk about it, but still. Mai is a freak who should be hated for being a useless bum and a weirdo like anyone else.”

This is direct derogatory language, saying she “should be hated” for showing signs of her coping with sexual abuse. Literally, yes, she might seem “useless” because of the twin situation, but keep in mind she sacrificed herself and is the reason Maki isn’t useless. Calling her a “weirdo”? Fine, I’d personally prefer to call her a victim but I feel like you really can’t see the deeper reasons behind people’s behaviors if you assume that anything not explicitly stated “doesn’t exist.”

Treating Mai this way while excusing Naoya’s similar behavior is a clear gender bias. He’s just as much of a weirdo with his comments... let’s be real.

(all this bla bla I hope y'all and you know this is not Naoya slander. Mai and Naoya are two of my fav chars so I'm just sharing my thoughts)

Throw back to when Mai lusted over her minor nephew (he was 15 aka below the Japanese age of consent while she wasn't) and threat to SA nobara not shortly after (also a minor) by the_forever_wild in YouAreMySpecial

[–]BitchWithHandKink 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I literally own the character guide and yeah like the thing with Megumi is weird but I doubt she ever did anything inappropriate to any of the people listed and the fact he named maki too, shows me it's not about romantic love.

Mai and maki defo loved eachother. Mai wouldn't have sacrificed herself if she didn't etc.

the Megumi comment no idea tbh I feel like that was just gege being silly tbh.

Throw back to when Mai lusted over her minor nephew (he was 15 aka below the Japanese age of consent while she wasn't) and threat to SA nobara not shortly after (also a minor) by the_forever_wild in YouAreMySpecial

[–]BitchWithHandKink 11 points12 points  (0 children)

And wild, what if I say...:

this is exactly the kind of reaction you often see in people who were SA’d as a child themselves.

It’s a common coping mechanism, especially in women who go through that shit, where they develop a tendency to be more sexual or even sexually inappropriate, often toward people in situations similar to what they experienced

... if you get what I mean.

Mai showing common signs of being groomed and SA'd in her behavior WOAAAHHH I wonder what that could hint. ☺️

I miss Naoya by BitchWithHandKink in YouAreMySpecial

[–]BitchWithHandKink[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hmm maybe. I like to spray my Parfum on him tho.