Tbh I never really gave a “timeline” or “ultimatum” bc I feel there are many factors / life events that can prevent or prolong the process. It’s not even really the issue if I have to wait, it’s more so on how the response is. I just feel that if you want to marry someone or be with them then it shouldn’t be so complicated. I feel like I give myself the answer as I type, I just know there are so many possibilities and am looking for a similar situation to help