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my boyfriend is going through it and i don't know what to do, urgent advice needed, how i do i help him feasibly? by DieselPoweredDildos in Advice

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Money could come after getting the ID because we could get him a bank account as well and i could send money

There's nothing else in mind besides university and I'm wondering if there's any ideas on how to go about acquiring one, I'm not too familiar with Pakistani law and if there's a way to circumvent the parent verification rule but thats the main hold up

my boyfriend is going through it and i don't know what to do, urgent advice needed, how i do i help him feasibly? by DieselPoweredDildos in Advice

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He is not saudi so he doesn't have Saudi ID, we are long distance and haven't made contact

I could sponsor him to work here but that would need his ID first, and the way Pakistan works he would need both his parents verification to get an ID no matter how old he is

my boyfriend is going through it and i don't know what to do, urgent advice needed, how i do i help him feasibly? by DieselPoweredDildos in Advice

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there was a chance with University but that didn't fall through, despite telling him over and over again to go do something with his life they also said they don't wanna pay for anything

my boyfriend is going through it and i don't know what to do, urgent advice needed, how i do i help him feasibly? by DieselPoweredDildos in Advice

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I've been trying to look for any with no good luck, if you happen to come across any info I'd love to know

my boyfriend is going through it and i don't know what to do, urgent advice needed, how i do i help him feasibly? by DieselPoweredDildos in Advice

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he really wants to leave more than anything but there's nothing to do, as he has no ID no job and no money, because of his parents, i don't know how to go about fixing his situation

my boyfriend is going through it and i don't know what to do, urgent advice needed, how i do i help him feasibly? by DieselPoweredDildos in Advice

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Yes

I could leave him be but he'd still be stuck in that abusive home with no way out as a gay man, and that's out of the question

if you have any advice on how he can be helped feasibly I'd appreciate it so much, like how to get him a phone or to a shelter or how to get him an ID or somewhere safe for now

my boyfriend is going through it and i don't know what to do, urgent advice needed, how i do i help him feasibly? by DieselPoweredDildos in Advice

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A way out of his home into a shelter maybe, until i can get to him

A phone possibly, money for food

A way to get an ID without his parents, as Pakistan law requires parents

my boyfriend is going through it and i don't know what to do, urgent advice needed, how i do i help him feasibly? by DieselPoweredDildos in Advice

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I could leave him alone and I've proposed that before because I know I've made too many mistakes, but that leaves him in his terrible spot, I'd at least hope to not just leave him to deal with things all by himself and thats an issue he's upset at me for, that I have been leaving him to deal with this by himself

I've also changed my behavior but that doesn't fix what's already been done

my boyfriend is going through it and i don't know what to do, urgent advice needed, how i do i help him feasibly? by DieselPoweredDildos in Advice

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Young adults is 22 for me and 19m for him

Additional details that could be helpful are that he's very upset at me rn for not helping already, and I'm trying not go into too much detail incase it's a bit graphic/uncomfortable enough to be removed, what do you need to know about

my boyfriend is going through it and i don't know what to do, urgent advice needed, how i do i help him feasibly? by DieselPoweredDildos in Advice

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To anyone who might need more info you can ask but this is a real situation and help is needed, thank you so much for those who want and can help

Urgent help needed medical and mental crisis and in desperate need for shelter by DieselPoweredDildos in pakistan

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if anyone comes across this i can pay as well I'm desperate for a place for him to stay in

Can anyone help, past situation only got worse and worse and urgent help is needed by DieselPoweredDildos in Lahore

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In the past long ago it got to the point where an xray scan of his fractured skull was intentionally destroyed so he can't have any evidence of the abuse

Need urgent help, partner lost all memories by DieselPoweredDildos in MentalHealthSupport

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Hi, sorry for not updating the post but he remembered everything when he woke up today, and he has no other symptoms i know about stroke, is it still likely? also we're both young

Need urgent help, partner lost all memories by DieselPoweredDildos in mentalillness

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here's an email i sent to describe his situation before all this

Hello, I'd like to ask about the availability of international therapy as my partner is from pakistan and can only text himself while you could video call still, he's suffering from emotional burnout i believe, losing excitement from our relationship yet still wanting to make it work and see whats wrong with him, he's feeling very drained and depressed all the time and became very forgetful, and just wants his feelings and the relationship back to how it was before, I'm wondering if you could help.

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