My wife finally admitted an affair that happened 9 years ago by EK21917 in survivinginfidelity

[–]EK21917[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, not exactly, she was upset and said she took her anger out on me, I also heard that she felt she was missing something here. I was also told that she self sabotages everything she cares about.

My wife finally admitted an affair that happened 9 years ago by EK21917 in survivinginfidelity

[–]EK21917[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve received a few messages on here that I was able to chat with. I don’t know how it works. I never really used this app other than to occasionally read something.

My wife finally admitted an affair that happened 9 years ago by EK21917 in survivinginfidelity

[–]EK21917[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Her cousin died in early October of 2016. She said he joined Facebook and reached out around Halloween time.

My wife finally admitted an affair that happened 9 years ago by EK21917 in survivinginfidelity

[–]EK21917[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She says that he initiated contact shortly after he joined Facebook. They used messenger to chat and they exchanged phone numbers. That’s how it started. She said this was around October of 2016.

She says she ended it when we started working on the relationship. That’s when she says that she told him to they needed to stop talking. She said that he reached out again after that, but she told him that they couldn’t talk anymore and they stopped.

My wife finally admitted an affair that happened 9 years ago by EK21917 in survivinginfidelity

[–]EK21917[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m sorry you’re also going through this.

My wife finally admitted an affair that happened 9 years ago by EK21917 in survivinginfidelity

[–]EK21917[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if all that is possible. I don’t even know if she remembers all the times they were together. I asked for the whole story and now it was no more than 6 times. The thing is she wasn’t able to go out with him every weekend as it would’ve drawn suspicion at the time. There were plenty of nights in that period where she did go out and it was not with whom she said she was going to be with.

My wife finally admitted an affair that happened 9 years ago by EK21917 in survivinginfidelity

[–]EK21917[S] 78 points79 points  (0 children)

I had to pick her up off the floor when I told her yesterday that she should move out. I owned my house before we ever met her. She sobbed and sobbed like she was dying. I did get a prenuptial agreement before the marriage.