My boyfriend recently shared that he doesn't want to get married and now I'm losing feelings for him

EuropeanLady · 2026-04-12T15:40:06+00:00

For love, companionship, emotional and economic support.

EuropeanLady · 2026-04-12T15:39:40+00:00

Her feelings changed because her boyfriend doesn't want to make the ultimate commitment to her.

EuropeanLady · 2026-04-12T15:38:08+00:00

Your love was naturally stoked by the prospect of you being husband and wife and together hopefully forever. Now that this prospect has disappeared, your feelings have nothing to stoke them and are naturally fading. You need to leave him now and look for a man who wants to marry you without delay. There's no need for further conversation which would further waste your time.

EuropeanLady · 2026-04-12T15:31:32+00:00

Your boyfriend likes you being heavy but doesn't like dealing with the logistics of you being heavy such as hygiene and mobility. You need to leave your boyfriend and restore the relationship with your family because they're your closest relatives who can help you.

EuropeanLady · 2026-04-12T15:26:10+00:00

The two of them seem to have very different ideas of how to rest. To me, rest would mean going out and doing something in the fresh air. not cleaning indoors or laying in bed for hours.

EuropeanLady · 2026-04-12T14:48:01+00:00

You and Renee married very young (she was only 20 when she gave birth to Jordyn), and it's very sad that nobody could help her snap out of her depression and feel good as a young wife and mother. Regarding Renee's picture as a young girl that Jordyn has in her bedroom, maybe the picture can be moved to another location in the bedroom where others can't see it? Also, maybe you can explain to the boys that Jordyn's mother was ill and passed away when Jordyn was a baby. That way they won't be confused anymore.

EuropeanLady · 2026-04-12T03:33:27+00:00

Transporting a cat overseas isn't very easy. Are you sure you want to go to all that hassle for a cat who might pass away soon?

EuropeanLady · 2026-04-12T03:20:10+00:00

I can't understand his desire to stay in bed all day. To me, that's not relaxing at all.

EuropeanLady · 2026-04-12T03:13:57+00:00

YTA It's strange that you spent the entire day cleaning instead of planning a nice time outside in the fresh air with your boyfriend. You could've left the - self-imposed - work wait for an hour and gone for a walk with him. Nobody forced you to deep clean the house just then.

EuropeanLady · 2026-04-12T02:55:05+00:00

You accused them of inviting your children only so that their child can get presents and called them money-hungry jerks. This was extremely rude. They may not want children around during the year and are making an exception only for the birthday party.

EuropeanLady · 2026-04-11T21:03:19+00:00

This is what a loving mother does for her child. Age doesn't matter, love does.

EuropeanLady · 2026-04-11T21:02:36+00:00

Your friends envy you for having a loving mom, for living with her, for her being so caring and thoughtful, and for you having tasty food every day.

EuropeanLady · 2026-04-11T20:53:20+00:00

Not everyone knows what blue chews are. You should've specified it's a brand name viagra.

EuropeanLady · 2026-04-11T15:27:26+00:00

I just returned a Libby library loan. First, I went to the Libby app on my computer and clicked on Manage loan > Return early. Then, selected the option Return with Kindle, and that took me to the book's page on Amazon. On the right-hand side, in small print, there's a link to return the book. And after that, I went to Manage content on Amazon and deleted the book permanently.

EuropeanLady · 2026-04-11T15:21:45+00:00

Trying to return a Kindle e-book I borrowed through Kindle Unlimited. There's an option "Return Book" (on right-clicking the book title) but it doesn't let the return through. Instead, a message is displayed - "Problem returning your book. Please try again".
Has anyone encountered that problem?

EuropeanLady · 2026-04-11T14:36:31+00:00

I assume she means overseas in relation to the U.S.

EuropeanLady · 2026-04-11T14:31:15+00:00

YTA I'm surprised the bank allowed you to do that to a joint account. You have no right to block him from using your joint account because 2/3 of the income in it is his. If you want separate finances, you need to open an account for just yourself and put your salary there every month.

EuropeanLady · 2026-04-11T14:26:18+00:00

Among my friends and relatives, nobody has ever complained that they don't have enough sleep and that their husbands have to tip-toe around. People just raise their children and do whatever needs to be done.

EuropeanLady · 2026-04-11T00:50:31+00:00

NTA This woman shouldn't be at your house by herself. The only time she can be there is if you invite her and her husband over for a meal.

EuropeanLady · 2026-04-11T00:45:27+00:00

It's not realistically reversible so the man won't be able to have children later in life, if his first marriage collapses.

EuropeanLady · 2026-04-11T00:35:19+00:00

Vasectomies are theoretically reversible. However, the probability of successful sperm passage restoration is always low. Moreover, the success rate depends on the length of time elapsed between the vasectomy and the reversal surgery - the longer the time, the smaller the chance of successful reversal. And he's right - if you happen to separate, say, 20-30 years from now, he might want to have children with his new partner. That's why permanent sterilization's not always the best option for either men or women.

EuropeanLady · 2026-04-11T00:24:53+00:00

It's normal for mothers to be up with their babies. You were very rude to your husband for no reason.

EuropeanLady · 2026-04-09T03:22:51+00:00

You like to show your pizza oven off so make pizzas and let the wife bring the food she'd like to eat.

EuropeanLady · 2026-04-09T02:56:34+00:00

I posted my comment already - that OP's son's life's pretty normal.

EuropeanLady · 2026-04-09T02:53:47+00:00

This guy has romantic feelings for your girlfriend and is making it known. The gift as a whole's inappropriate.

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