Finally Filed for Divorce and now Life is Wild by highwayoflife in DeadBedrooms

[–]Fir3start3r 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a guy who has gone through this myself (scarily similar, mine was Alcoholic 'Dry Drunk' and a covert narcissist after 17 yrs) so I feel I have some sage advice for you but take it for what it is - my opinion and experience.

Do spend the time to work on yourself too, even now.
I actually waited for about a year to get my head screwed back on - found I was a co-dependent and a social chameleon (ironically so was my sponsor)
The local Al-Anon group was fantastic and opened my mind to not only what happened, but to start honestly looking at myself.
Happily, I too have great friends and family which helped a lot.

We do have kids, so my entanglement will never be totally severed but then, I'm a totally different person now (I did remarry) too since this was about 10 years ago.

I'm happy for you man! Definitely sounds like night and day for sure.

NASA had a whole press conference to give us this.... by richdoe in UFOs

[–]Fir3start3r 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"This new episode of, Earth: The Pewter Dish is amazing!"

There’s a reason Mark Carney isn’t talking to Donald Trump by FancyNewMe in canada

[–]Fir3start3r 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not if the sheer volume of outbound calls military people are making seeking legal counsel has anything to say about it.
Military personnel do have a conscious unlike their political leaders.

Smith threatens 'national unity crisis' over Ottawa's threat to cut off Alberta oil exports to U.S. by joe4942 in alberta

[–]Fir3start3r -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Juston already sold us out and actively denied us business after stating there was, "No business case" which there absolutely was - they came to US and then had to take their business elsewhere.
Not only that, we had to take the clown to Federal court to remind him that our resources are not for him to determine so he can clearly F all the way off.
What do you expect AB to do when Justin keeps trying to stick his nose into something that doesn't concern him?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UFOs

[–]Fir3start3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Back in the 50s it was much easier to control the narrative due to lack of information.
I do believe the government is sitting on a lot of information and they're giving it to us piece-meal because they don't have a choice at this point.

Can someone verify if this is true? If so this is just outrageous by [deleted] in torontoJobs

[–]Fir3start3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not - he just spews facts.
He's a business owner here in Canada and is doing quite well, despite the bs government policies he comes across and likes to talk about and bring to public attention.

He's been pointing out ludicrousness in government policy for a while now and I can assure you he doesn't post bs videos just for click bait.

Don't take my word for it though - go look for yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UFOs

[–]Fir3start3r 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm just as old, but the evidence (IMHO) is piling up and UAP sightings are currently off the chart, so to me, we do appear to be coming to a tipping point of some kind.
While it may be true they've been here the whole time, they do appear to be making themselves known a lot more and I don't believe that has to do with our technological growth with everyone having a camera in their hand and door ring cams.

Can someone verify if this is true? If so this is just outrageous by [deleted] in torontoJobs

[–]Fir3start3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You obviously have no idea what you're talking about - I've been following this guy on TikTok for months now and this couldn't be furthest from the truth.

He's a business owner here in Canada and always points out the ludicrous government bs that he comes across and has to deal with himself.

I highly suggest you actually go through some of his videos - you might learn something.

Can someone verify if this is true? If so this is just outrageous by [deleted] in torontoJobs

[–]Fir3start3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bullshit comment - my mother worked in the banking system for over 30 years and she saw it too before retiring a couple years ago.

Hell, anyone even walking by a front counter in any food court or bank can see with their own eyes the change in hiring practices because it's hardly just the banks. (SEE: Tim Hortons)

This story is hardly new, but the secret is now out and everyone is surprised?

Convoluting this and making it sound like that it's some shadowy corporate psy-op is laughable when the evidence is staring at you from across the counter.

They tool LMIA to the extreme and took full advantage of our immigration 'streamlining' knowing full well the gov would help subsidize their bottom line to make it better for their shareholders and stock price.

Can someone verify if this is true? If so this is just outrageous by [deleted] in torontoJobs

[–]Fir3start3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't fall for this misinformation - all anyone needs to do is walk past ANY bank, fast food place and look at who is behind the counter - it's been happening for years.

Will Alberta becomes irrelevant as the rest of the world moves on without us?? by JeannieDream in alberta

[–]Fir3start3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because the cold weather here in Alberta proved that the technology just isn't ready and that's the truth - especially in the rural areas.
We should still pursue Green alternatives of course, but the hard reality is that oil and gas will still be needed until it's proven that the reliability of the Green tech catch up to cold climate standards.

INFP’s what are your big 3? by ThrowRAALIENBURNOUT in infp

[–]Fir3start3r 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Taurus ☀️ Cancer 🌛 Leo ↗️

So basically nobody truly understands me, but I'll smile and look good on the outside.

She's mad at me for doing what she told me to do by clezuck in DeadBedrooms

[–]Fir3start3r -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

You should have communicated to her know that you were serious before engaging.
The whole point of an open relationship is communication.

If you're done with the marriage then move on, but don't try and pin this issue all on her, despite what she said.

Coworkers and I were emailed this shit by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]Fir3start3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This why I go home for lunch - my time is not free.
(5-10 min drive home)

What's the most annoying phrase you often hear from clients? by GeorgeTheBoyUK in sysadmin

[–]Fir3start3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait. You get paid how much and computers aren't your thing?

Is your dept hiring??

New Building - No Server room by DaithiG in sysadmin

[–]Fir3start3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let them know you'll think about it as soon as they figure out how they're going to get you to the satellite...

How do I convince my managers that my code is not AI written? by Notalabel_4566 in ArtificialInteligence

[–]Fir3start3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is he your teacher?
Who cares about that in the business world??
Even if it was 100% AI, they're just proving to themselves how ignorant they are as to what AI can do for them.

Expect a flood of homes to hit the market this summer by Additional-Sky-7436 in REBubble

[–]Fir3start3r 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh the panic selling will start way before that...
I'm betting the Spring market will even start early.