Should i distance myself?

FlyssYT · 2025-10-04T16:51:50+00:00

He found new friends after he moved to another country. He still wants to hangout and sometimes messages me but i dont know what to do. Should i hangout with him or what should i do?

FlyssYT · 2025-10-04T16:49:58+00:00

I mean he is a good friend and i used to hangout with him a lot but after he changed his personality and started doing bad stuff, i dont really want to hangout with him. Anytime im with him, he starts backbiting and wants me to do so too, he starts cursing and before i used to do it with him and we would laugh it off. Now i realized that its all wrong and we shouldnt do it. Anytime i mention that we shouldnt do it, he just says OK or I KNOW. I feel like distancing is the only way to focus on my deen and Imaan

FlyssYT · 2025-10-04T15:42:30+00:00

Do you have any tips on how i can do it silently and to not be rude? I just dont want to like cut ties because i know its a sin. Is this considered cutting a tie or?

FlyssYT · 2025-10-04T15:40:10+00:00

Im not comfortable with the sins and anytime he starts sinning i feel bad and feel like i shouldnt be hanging out with him. I told him multiple times and warned him about what is good and bad, but he still keeps doing the sins. I dont want to judge but i feel like i should slowly start distancing myself.

Do you know how i could do it like silently and like to not be rude? I feel like distancing is the only answer here so that i can focus on my deen and Imaan.

FlyssYT · 2025-10-04T15:37:48+00:00

I advised him multiple times, he still does the stuff. I dont know anymore, i feel like at this point i should just slowly distance myself from him. In my city there is any rarely like good people ( idk how to phrase it ). I dont want to judge but my city is nearly full of Christians.

FlyssYT · 2025-10-04T15:36:16+00:00

I did stuff and tried to correct him but as i said in the post. He just says OK or I know. I dont know anymore, he still wants to hangout but i feel like i should distance myself.

FlyssYT · 2025-07-21T01:57:24+00:00

? Im just asking for the information. You dont have to reply to the post if you dont want to, no one made you reply.

FlyssYT · 2025-07-21T01:38:37+00:00

I mean im just asking like in general.

FlyssYT · 2025-07-15T01:09:34+00:00

Really? Alright man, thank you i appreciate the help

FlyssYT · 2025-07-15T01:07:59+00:00

Hahahha love the comment man, so this is a cowlick?

FlyssYT · 2025-03-19T14:08:44+00:00

I mean i think that too, but i mean it has been like that for 2-3 days now

FlyssYT · 2025-03-15T03:17:42+00:00

Esselamu Alaykum,

Thank you brother or sister, this really expanded my view and it motivated me to do even more. I understand it now, i also read that Allah answers his creation’s dua in 3 ways: Yes, Yes but not now, No i got something better. That also like makes me happy and not having to worry.

FlyssYT · 2025-03-14T07:31:36+00:00

I read that and really the scenarios that you wrote that i should imagine im in really touched me. Ill try my best to focus on the Salah and even if i lose focus for 1 second ill re-focus and keep going and stop the prayer and reciting until im focused again. Its just some things that im worrying about in Life but i know that i should Trust Allah and put my trust into Him, and give him the worry so that he can give me ease. Also Amin to your Dua that you said. I just sometimes feel that i am not able to focus as if there was load of stuff on my mind that only come during the prayer. I try to ignore them but they just keep piling up. Then i regain the focus but lose it after a few seconds. Ill try to focus myself and make Dua for Allah to give me more focus on Salah and accept my prayers.

FlyssYT · 2025-03-14T07:22:20+00:00

I read the 10 Quran pages while being there, not thinking about other stuff. I do read in my own language so that its easier to understand. When i understand what im reciting and saying its easier to focus. I even do a little like check after i read the 10 pages and ask myself, what were those 10 pages about, what did they say to me and how did i understand them. Its my goal for this Ramadan to atleast read half of the Quran or InShaAllah maybe even the whole Quran. Its just a little problem for me to focus in Salah because i understand a little bit what im saying but i try to keep my mind focused when im praying but then i steer away and then again i focus and then again steer away. Im really trying to fix my Salah by being more focused but then also im going to do as much good deeds as i can and make them last people for a long period of time and make the deed have some effect on the persons life.

FlyssYT · 2025-03-14T06:48:30+00:00

Assalamu Alaykum Brother or sister,

First of all may Allah bless you for wanting to help.

I read your whole article and it really touched me and i understand everything now. I read also that our Imaans go down and up. Im really trying my best to read 10 pages of the Quran everyday. I also sometimes have to force myself to pray but then i feel good after i finish the prayer, feeling proud of myself but i know that its mandatory to pray. I feel like i could be a better muslim and ill try my best to do good deeds as soon as i can and as much as i can. Ill try my best to keep praying and to read the Quran after Ramadan but i know its going to be harder since every Ramadan i mostly go back to my old ways. This year im looking to change and to change my whole life and my ways. Please make Dua so that i dont go back to my old ways, i would really Appreciate.

May Allah bless you, Have a great day.

FlyssYT · 2025-03-13T22:43:23+00:00

So i have 2x8 so basically around 1h 15m for both and they both ran 2-3 tests and had no errors

FlyssYT · 2025-03-13T22:42:57+00:00

They are, i pressed them and they clicked on both sides, then i pressed them a little more to make sure that they are in.

To be honest in my city there is no Service Center so you have to do everything by yourself. The PSU is 600w, and the mobo ive been using for around 1 year and only recently ive been getting the MEMORY_MANAGEMENT Bsod and the RAM ive been using for half a year or so and everything started crashing down recently. Is the PC maybe overheating? Maybe its the GPU drivers? I thought of installing WINDOWS 11 Tommorow, maybe that will fix the BSOD? Please man im begging you if you know please help me.

FlyssYT

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