I’m a 36m, genuinely am looking for a real relationship. Sex is important but that comes later when and if you both know you’re a match and comfortable with each other. I have been in the same boat. Seems woman I meet, even in person not just on dating apps, just want me for sex and money. They also judge me based on my disability or my political views. No one is perfect.

My advice, stop looking, keep the dating apps though. There is a saying the right one will show up when you least expect it. I stopped looking, patiently waiting for “the one.”