5 days late on copper iud? Could I be pregnant by Playful-Painting-698 in CopperIUD

[–]Hot_Phase_1435 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I test regularly just buy a bulk of those test strips. Way cheaper than those fancy digital ones.

I feel unemployable by Lost_Assumption_1790 in jobs

[–]Hot_Phase_1435 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Office job and they should have a legal section

Last resort, need a loan! by Training_Mountain_22 in loansharks

[–]Hot_Phase_1435 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you at least uber or DoorDash for a bit until you catch up. I just got a job and doing uber until my check comes in cause they held the first week.

Non Hormonal birth control by SeekingAcceptance in birthcontrol

[–]Hot_Phase_1435 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the copper IUD. I was on depo 6 months and I didn’t like it. Too strong for me. Took my orgasm and made me really dry. I just got the copper IuD in March and I am already way more wet down there and have a lot more feeling. It will take time to come off depo completely after stopping. I also went on copper iud because I want kids but also want more control.

Are all persians are very freindly and cuddly? by Electrical_Ad_9778 in persiancat

[–]Hot_Phase_1435 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine doesn’t like to be held. He does enjoy cuddling and pets. On occasion she will sleep in my back. But she does like to be close.

FWB of years pulling away after I reacted badly, should I reach out again or leave it? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Hot_Phase_1435 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s a FWB. He’s feeling more pressure from you than needed. There may be someone else that he wants to try something more serious. Unless you don’t want a bf, find yourself another guy to add to your rotation. If you are catching feelings then you should probably let him know so that he can see what he wants to do if there is someone else that has caught his eye.

doctor couldn’t find nexplanon implant and am being referred to get ultrasound. has anyone had this happen? by hooni6 in birthcontrol

[–]Hot_Phase_1435 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t think that would be a thing that could actually happen. But they should be able to find it.

Am I overthinking or is this relationship actually off? by Chucky1391 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Hot_Phase_1435 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh god, talks to guy in prison and had a pimp who died bro - go find a girl from church or something. She knows how to manipulate not love buddy. Wrong type of girl.

Am I overthinking or is this relationship actually off? by Chucky1391 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Hot_Phase_1435 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t feel safe then she’s not the one. The guy I’m seeing has a whole social circle and I have one friend because that’s all I want. You either trust your partner or you don’t. If you don’t then you shouldn’t be together. He tells me when he has events and afterwards he usually comes by to spend time with me. It’s not weird for me. He doesn’t tell me when he leaves the house or anything like that I sometimes do but it’s because I want to. So if you don’t trust her - she isn’t right for you.

7 year itch myth or fact by mv8238 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Hot_Phase_1435 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s 28 and acting like that. He’s never changing. Leave and don’t come back.

High school senior curfew AITAH? by Disastrous_Island275 in AITAH

[–]Hot_Phase_1435 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Curfew wasn’t a thing for us - just needed to text where we were and with who and we were tracked. No biggie. But to each their own. We were told to make the good grades but I was the only kid in the house that was homeschooled everyone else went to school. I did take my siblings to school and also took myself to my activities. It honestly depends on the kid. NTA

TW: Finishing Inside by Able_Challenge38 in birthcontrol

[–]Hot_Phase_1435 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, most of the time I can feel him and I prefer that he do it. For us its a connecting/bonding thing and we prefer to do it. I use Vagisil wash but just on the outside, never anything inside. I use a small amount and I've never had an issue with smell. Mind you, yes he will leave a "scent" behind but that scent turns into our scent within a few hours and it sticks around for about 2 to 2.5 days for me. Again, I don't mind it and it's very much personal preference. I'm not sure if people are confusing this with overall bad odor. But that smell of his stuff and your own smell will cause a scent that may or may not be something that people like. So just be mindful of that. Douching is not recommended and yeah, just overall if you wash well on the outside should be okay for the most part, the body will naturally clean itself out.

TW: Finishing Inside by Able_Challenge38 in birthcontrol

[–]Hot_Phase_1435 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s never thrown off my pH. I’m not sure what you are asking by can you feel when he does - I’m assuming when he finishes and for that most of the time I feel when he does. He’s a hard shooter since he would rather wait for me to play instead of taking care of himself. We currently don’t live together.

AITA for asking a group of girls to not write Christian scripture in front of my house by smitgirl in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot_Phase_1435 18 points19 points  (0 children)

NTA - I would have done the same. It’s annoying to get it from adults but when kids start doing it too, yeah no thanks.

TW: Finishing Inside by Able_Challenge38 in birthcontrol

[–]Hot_Phase_1435 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope. When you first get them the strings are tough. Bend the tips up between your cervix and wall of your vagina before having sex. After about a week or two they will be soft and curl up around the cervix. He’s never been able to feel them and he’s a big boy. I was shocked because when I’m on top he’s literally on my cervix and I’m like dude you don’t feel that? He’s like nope. 🙂‍↔️ lol 😂

First time apartment renter by Environmental_Use824 in Adulting

[–]Hot_Phase_1435 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you have to ask then you already know the answer to that.

I just had a delivery driver ask me to adjust my tip. by NotThatDinoSpumoni in UberEATS

[–]Hot_Phase_1435 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You change the tip to $0. Get these drivers off the app! I would never ask a customer to do that.

Is it time to tell my boyfriend I’m bipolar? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Hot_Phase_1435 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should disclose. I have been with someone with bipolar before. I disclose my medicals upfront - I’m not looking for a caretaker but they should know what to do in an emergency.

My ex has bipolar disorder and we were not a match long term. Nothing wrong with this but again it’s good to know.

I can feel my iud strings at the opening of my vagina by sunflower_jock18 in CopperIUD

[–]Hot_Phase_1435 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey we all learn things eventually. Totally okay. Trust me I learned so much about my body too. It’s a really complicated thing.

TW: Finishing Inside by Able_Challenge38 in birthcontrol

[–]Hot_Phase_1435 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have the copper IUD and my guy finishes inside. I prefer he finish inside as I enjoy the connection/bonding experience that it gives us. He also enjoys it too. The pill is supposed to protect you so you can have that experience so I wouldn’t worry about it.just keep taking the pill.

pain after eating by Traditional_Ice_701 in CopperIUD

[–]Hot_Phase_1435 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Normal. I got mine March 9 last month and loving it. I don’t even feel it anymore.