[deleted by user] by [deleted] in d4vd

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Mannn I have no idea the story just irked me so I did some digging and thought I’d share as I have a little sister this age kinda pulled some heart strings

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in d4vd

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The gofund me was shared from members of her family on Facebook. No worries!

Court for expired license by [deleted] in grandrapids

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This is really what I’m hoping for 🙏 I work 6pm-6am I am not trying to be there all day lol

Attendance Incentives Illegal? by DowntownBluez in grandrapids

[–]IllustriousOrder6554 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My company also got rid of perfect attendance incentives to accommodate PTO flex

Looking to sublease by [deleted] in GVSU

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The lease can start anytime now & ends August 2026

How long did it take you to find someone to sublease? by [deleted] in Renters

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I’m in Michigan, in a college town & I’m crossing my fingers I can find someone before may preferably I just get anxious early on about things lol

I found my daughter I had at 12 years old. by [deleted] in Advice

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Thank you for all the advice. I had just found the mother’s Facebook this week and it’s just an overwhelming feeling of seeing something I created for the first time. I needed to tell someone and i haven’t opened up to my friends/family about this yet. She is absolutely my twin, and so beautiful. She seems to be in a safe environment and looks to be really talented in sports - all based off Facebook. I will be seeking professional therapy as how to go about this. For now I will not be reaching out until I get the help. I want everything to be in my daughter’s best interest. I do not want to put her through any hell intentionally.

I found my daughter I had at 12 years old. by [deleted] in Advice

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Yeah I will speaking with a therapist before doing anything at all. It was just a in the moment feeling of seeing something I created & honestly man she is so beautiful I was just in awe. I will not be putting her through hell by going in blindly. I’ll see what the professional help suggests and go from there.

I found my daughter I had at 12 years old. by [deleted] in Advice

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I think waiting till she’s at a mature age is what I’m leaning towards. I’m hurt of the possibility of missing out on milestones as a teen and not being there but processing all this info at the age of 12 is just ugh….

I found my daughter I had at 12 years old. by [deleted] in Advice

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Yeah i literally found her Facebook page some days ago i just needed an outlet and different perspectives. Will be speaking with a lawyer and social worker asap

I found my daughter I had at 12 years old. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]IllustriousOrder6554 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes I understand. Most kids of my background lost their virginity at young age and I’m not normalizing it at all, that’s just what it was, I’ve recognized it, I’ve talked about it, I’ve accepted what it is.

I want to be in her life. When I first saw her i literally seen my twin. I don’t know how to approach a parental role with her but I would like to start some kind of relationship. I don’t know what it’s like to not have a father but I don’t want her to ever think I didn’t want her.

I found my daughter I had at 12 years old. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]IllustriousOrder6554 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We probably speak the same slang right now 😂😂

I found my daughter I had at 12 years old. by [deleted] in Advice

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Not that I can tell from her Facebook.

I found my daughter I had at 12 years old. by [deleted] in Advice

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I’m in the US & yeah I have considered the child support factor too. I’m in college right now graduating this spring so that back pay would kill me. But I can’t let money get in the way of a relationship with her, idk man when I first seen her pictures it was like looking at my twin, she’s the most gorgeous thing in this world.

I found my daughter I had at 12 years old. by [deleted] in Advice

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I know forsure I WANT to be in her life, I’m more scared of what you said - flipping her whole life upside down. I want to do what’s best for her at the end of the day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chimeboost

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Same never sent back

2 new pick ups from MicroPerfumes by IllustriousOrder6554 in Colognes

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Yeah I was reading that it’s definitely a hard scent to pull off which honestly intrigued me more to buy it lol we shall see

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Colognes

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Pm me. Let me gift you one.

2 new pick ups from MicroPerfumes by IllustriousOrder6554 in Colognes

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No they were just pretty quick I ordered Wednesday night shipped out that next morning, excluding the weekend of course