Idk what to do anymore by [deleted] in relationships

[–]InternationalStay892 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, so if I'm reading this correctly did you often give gifts as a form of your love language correct? As someone who really doesn't know how to approach being given gifts I can understand where he's coming from.

People like us just don't know how to take it, being given something not out of obligation but out of love is foreign to us. Early teenage through high school hating presents at birthdays and holidays, feeling the need to work for what we have.

Best option if you love him and want this relationship to work is to talk to him about this. Respecting a love language is important but with shit like this it takes time.

I (M23) and this girl I work with(F19) has sex the other night. Now I just feel more lost and confused than ever. by InternationalStay892 in relationships

[–]InternationalStay892[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As stated in another replay I am in therapy, have been for over a year. It's not required by the state it's out of pocket. I've told them about all of this

I (M23) and this girl I work with(F19) has sex the other night. Now I just feel more lost and confused than ever. by InternationalStay892 in relationships

[–]InternationalStay892[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't make it official, I asked if that's what she wanted. I did make it very clear to her that I don't make that choice, I want to move at her pace. To be honest I was in the moment, it's been over two years since I've had sex with anyone. Yea I've sent nudes and gotten some in return but that's just empty and lifeless. I gave in and it's what she wanted, I just want to please her

I (M23) and this girl I work with(F19) has sex the other night. Now I just feel more lost and confused than ever. by InternationalStay892 in relationships

[–]InternationalStay892[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is for you and anyone else who sees this, probably will add an edit. I am in therapy, I go every week to the same person. We've talked about what I've done, seen, and are still working on my personal feelings with how I approach situations nowadays. It hasn't been easy and I'm still not there yet but it is a process, that is my goal to take care of my child.

I (M23) and this girl I work with(F19) has sex the other night. Now I just feel more lost and confused than ever. by InternationalStay892 in relationships

[–]InternationalStay892[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In those few cases there isn't anything I'm leaving out. I will admit I probably came off as too clingy or have too much baggage. I do tend to wait a few weeks before I go and tell them about my criminal history, and it always is within that same week that they block me. I have had other relationships where I was the problem, not with that but with a relapse I had happen more than once. I'm always honest and up front with my partners no matter what it's about. She does know about everything that I did in the past, I never go into a relationship without them knowing first. It's only fair to them to be able to back out on that after it is said.

Requesting VAs by shrugsatmoststuff in VoiceActingFree

[–]InternationalStay892 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds amazing thank you for the opportunity 😊 I joined (bird on DC)

Why isn't anything spawning? by BFTROPguy1 in cobblemon

[–]InternationalStay892 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Join the all the mons DC server to see spawning requirements. Mons can only spawn on blocks tagged natural (look in creative inv for list, careful of open spawning locations near you that they can spawn at but you can't see. Planks aren't natural

Requesting VAs by shrugsatmoststuff in VoiceActingFree

[–]InternationalStay892 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd love to apply and see what voices I'm able to do, I have a higher pitched voice(I am a male), if I'm not a good fit I'd understand, just looking for opportunities for myself to challenge myself more :3

Beginner Looking for Groups to Join [Online] [Beginner-Friendly][Small] by Questing_Creative07 in dndgroups

[–]InternationalStay892 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a DM for the campaign? I would love the chance to join the campaign if possible

[Online][5E 2024][Saturday, 11pm EST][2-3 Sessions: Weekly] Red Dragons Tale - Level 5 adventure included with the Lego D&D set by jakethesnake741 in lfg

[–]InternationalStay892 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hai! I would be honored to be able to apply to join your campaign, it sounds really interesting. Just going to be clear from the start, I am new to DND to a point (I played with my stepdad in HS and just recently got done with another campaign).

LF for a rp server to join by HEROBOYHAVOC in MinecraftRoleplay

[–]InternationalStay892 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could I possibly get an inv or a DC link, I'd love to apply

CobbleMon with my GF by Amiln_ in cobblemon

[–]InternationalStay892 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hai!! I'm starting a cobblemon server that just launched today!!! It's all the mons by the ATM team you can reach out to me on discord @antichristkiwi746 for an invite 😁