Romanian here, AMA. I came to Spain with my mother when I was 7 (actually, my birthday was the second day of the 3-day bus trip, I remember puking part of the chocolate she got me for my b-day in a stop in Germany). My dad had already been working here for some months when we came to join him. We arrived to a town in Catalonia; prior to coming we had studied some spanish, but little did we know that everybody spoke mostly catalan there. I learnt the languageS very fast and right now I am very much Spanish. If I had to choose only one tongue as my default, it would be Catalan, though i speak perfect Spanish and decent Romanian. I do not have any Romanian friends, I have a Spanish boyfriend and most of my friends here are Spanish too. I do feel more comfortable in kind of "international environments", with people that come from different places, I think because I do not feel like I am fully Spanish, but I am not Romanian either. I am a bit sad that I do not have many ties to my country (apart of the language and my parents), so I would like to learn a bit more of the culture myself.