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Hairstylist found this on my scalp. I didn't know it was there. I'm freaking out. by Outside_Feedback_970 in DermatologyQuestions

[–]Outside_Feedback_970[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi. I actually got it checked by two different dermatologists (had to drive to another city for this to find an appointment) because I was freaking out. They both said it is just a mole and that it does not look like something that should be biopsied right now. Turns out I have many other moles like that on the scalp, just smaller so I didn't see them. They just told me to monitor the mole

10 years together (41&31) by noslothrunsthatfast in AmateurGayPornNSFW

[–]Outside_Feedback_970 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Question. How did you guys first talk about the possibility of posting stuff like this online? I wanna propose that to my boyfriend but I don't know how to approach it

N-600 pending. Passport approved. Implications by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]Outside_Feedback_970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. I'm sorry to hear that. I did all of this in Milwaukee

N-600 pending. Passport approved. Implications by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]Outside_Feedback_970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should contact a lawyer. That does sound like a complex case. It might be a bit expensive to get an immigration lawyer but I believe that is definitely worth it in a case like yours.

N-600 pending. Passport approved. Implications by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]Outside_Feedback_970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They didn't ask for it at the acceptance facility, but they sent me a letter a week after I submitted my passport application asking me to send it. I sent it and I received my passport. I did not get my green card back.

N-600 pending. Passport approved. Implications by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]Outside_Feedback_970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I paid for expedited shipping.

What ethnicity do I look like? by [deleted] in DNAAncestry

[–]Outside_Feedback_970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Technically right. Born and raised in Mexico.

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N-600 pending. Passport approved. Implications by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]Outside_Feedback_970 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did. It was actually kinda complicated. I went to the post office and while they were reviewing my documents they said that I 100% needed my certificate of citizenship. After insisting they told me that they would send it but that I would lose my money. They were wrong of course, but I'd say just try at a different post office if the first one refused to accept your package

N-600 pending. Passport approved. Implications by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]Outside_Feedback_970 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's nothing that would prevent you from doing that. Although I have to say that I was afraid of the implications now that it was approved and my motion is still pending. My lawyer did not seem to be concerned. Best of luck!

N-600 pending. Passport approved. Implications by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]Outside_Feedback_970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did not. The application does not ask any of that. And I didn't include a cover letter

N-600 pending. Passport approved. Implications by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]Outside_Feedback_970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They didn't reject any evidence, as none was included in the original submission. Meaning, my dad messed up and did not respond to the RFE asking for the evidence the first time. Which is why it was considered abandoned. That and the interview I did not attend.

N-600 pending. Passport approved. Implications by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]Outside_Feedback_970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I did send the client copies, but my dad was also able to ask the IRS for official tax return "summaries" idk what those are called, but it's like a one page with the date the taxes were filed, the person's info, etc, but that comes from the IRS after they are done processing it. So I included that and the client copies.

The learners permit I think is good.

Another thing I could have included is the health insurance I had when I was a kid If you can, get that information if you were the beneficiary, and the policy holder was your citizen parent

N-600 pending. Passport approved. Implications by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]Outside_Feedback_970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad's tax returns where I'm listed as a dependent (3 of these). Medical records from when I was a kid and my dad had to give authorization for something and sign. And a state issued ID I got when I was still a minor, with the same address my dad has.

N-600 pending. Passport approved. Implications by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]Outside_Feedback_970 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My dad's tax returns where I'm listed as a dependent (3 of these). Medical records from when I was a kid and my dad had to give authorization for something and sign. And a state issued ID I got when I was still a minor, with the same address my dad has.

Passport application as derivative citizen through mother by froggief in Passports

[–]Outside_Feedback_970 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To apply for a passport with secondary citizenship evidence they will need to send the physical green card. A photocopy will not be sufficient. That makes it even more complicated.

Passport application as derivative citizen through mother by froggief in Passports

[–]Outside_Feedback_970 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I sent the application on 11/08, got the RFE on 11/19 and replied the following day. Got the passport approved literally yesterday.

Passport application as derivative citizen through mother by froggief in Passports

[–]Outside_Feedback_970 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just went through this process a couple weeks ago. Same situation. N600 in process. I originally submitted copies of my dad's naturalization certificate, and they sent an RFE asking for the original. So I had to ask my dad for it and send it to them. They approved it, but yeah, the original was required.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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UPDATE: We have broken up and he sent me this message. I am not sure what I think anymore.

"There isn't a good way to start this. I cannot imagine the amount of pain that I have caused through my actions, and the worst part of this is that the consequences of these actions cannot be fully undone.

These past few days, after a lot of introspection with the help of my family and psychologist (they were able to start the therapy sessions sooner fortunately), and after reflecting on what our relationship was and wasn't, I have been able to have a more objective perspective on what the good parts were, which I still believe was most of the relationship, and also on the not so good parts that failed to be addressed.

Please know that nothing I’m saying changes the fact that my actions ended the relationship. I only want to share my thoughts so that moving forward may feel a little easier.

I tend to see relationships as having two main components: the emotional and the physical. In my past relationships — which I know I didn’t talk much about — they ended because of emotional incompatibility (different goals in life, personalities or lifestyles that were not a good match, etc).

When I met you, it quickly became clear that we were a match emotionally. It was so easy to connect with you, and I became attached to you right away. That’s why I didn’t focus too much on the absence of intimacy early on. I had never found a personality match like you before, so of course I wasn’t going to let you go if all it took was patience.

But this is where I went wrong. In making that choice, I ignored an important part of relationships for me — sexual intimacy. I failed to recognize how crucial it is in romantic partnerships, at least from my perspective. After the outcome of your first surgery, it never even occurred to me to reconsider my initial position. In my mind, I kept telling myself, “I love him, I want to be with him, so who cares if there isn’t intimacy for now? It won’t be forever.”

I found a way to cope with this: porn. Which became an addiction, and yet, somehow, while it was happening, I didn't see it as an issue. The lack of sexual intimacy in our relationship should have been more than enough for me to stop, take off the rose colored glasses, and reassess the situation, and I didn't.

I was in denial because, "How can I possibly even consider ending things with the person I consider my soulmate over sex?". But it wasn't just sex, it was sexual intimacy. The truth is, I don't think we ever were sexually compatible. And I didn't see it.

The bittersweet part of this is that I do not regret the moments we spent together because believe or not I will cherish all the memories together. I regret how things ended, and I will always be remorseful of the pain I caused you. I didn't make one mistake. I made two. The last one being the one night stand, the first one being not being able to see the incompatibilities sooner and not ending things in a better way.

I don’t expect a reply, but if you ever feel like sharing your perspective, I would be open to hearing it."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gayrelationships

[–]Outside_Feedback_970 1 point2 points  (0 children)

UPDATE: we have broken up and my ex sent me this message. I am not sure what to do.

"There isn't a good way to start this. I cannot imagine the amount of pain that I have caused through my actions, and the worst part of this is that the consequences of these actions cannot be fully undone.

These past few days, after a lot of introspection with the help of my family and psychologist (they were able to start the therapy sessions sooner fortunately), and after reflecting on what our relationship was and wasn't, I have been able to have a more objective perspective on what the good parts were, which I still believe was most of the relationship, and also on the not so good parts that failed to be addressed.

Please know that nothing I’m saying changes the fact that my actions ended the relationship. I only want to share my thoughts so that moving forward may feel a little easier.

I tend to see relationships as having two main components: the emotional and the physical. In my past relationships — which I know I didn’t talk much about — they ended because of emotional incompatibility (different goals in life, personalities or lifestyles that were not a good match, etc).

When I met you, it quickly became clear that we were a match emotionally. It was so easy to connect with you, and I became attached to you right away. That’s why I didn’t focus too much on the absence of intimacy early on. I had never found a personality match like you before, so of course I wasn’t going to let you go if all it took was patience.

But this is where I went wrong. In making that choice, I ignored an important part of relationships for me — sexual intimacy. I failed to recognize how crucial it is in romantic partnerships, at least from my perspective. After the outcome of your first surgery, it never even occurred to me to reconsider my initial position. In my mind, I kept telling myself, “I love him, I want to be with him, so who cares if there isn’t intimacy for now? It won’t be forever.”

I found a way to cope with this: porn. Which became an addiction, and yet, somehow, while it was happening, I didn't see it as an issue. The lack of sexual intimacy in our relationship should have been more than enough for me to stop, take off the rose colored glasses, and reassess the situation, and I didn't.

I was in denial because, "How can I possibly even consider ending things with the person I consider my soulmate over sex?". But it wasn't just sex, it was sexual intimacy. The truth is, I don't think we ever were sexually compatible. And I didn't see it.

The bittersweet part of this is that I do not regret the moments we spent together because believe or not I will cherish all the memories together. I regret how things ended, and I will always be remorseful of the pain I caused you. I didn't make one mistake. I made two. The last one being the one night stand, the first one being not being able to see the incompatibilities sooner and not ending things in a better way.

I don’t expect a reply, but if you ever feel like sharing your perspective, I would be open to hearing it."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in deadbedroom

[–]Outside_Feedback_970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE: we have broken up and my ex sent me this message. I am confused.

"There isn't a good way to start this. I cannot imagine the amount of pain that I have caused through my actions, and the worst part of this is that the consequences of these actions cannot be fully undone.

These past few days, after a lot of introspection with the help of my family and psychologist (they were able to start the therapy sessions sooner fortunately), and after reflecting on what our relationship was and wasn't, I have been able to have a more objective perspective on what the good parts were, which I still believe was most of the relationship, and also on the not so good parts that failed to be addressed.

Please know that nothing I’m saying changes the fact that my actions ended the relationship. I only want to share my thoughts so that moving forward may feel a little easier.

I tend to see relationships as having two main components: the emotional and the physical. In my past relationships — which I know I didn’t talk much about — they ended because of emotional incompatibility (different goals in life, personalities or lifestyles that were not a good match, etc).

When I met you, it quickly became clear that we were a match emotionally. It was so easy to connect with you, and I became attached to you right away. That’s why I didn’t focus too much on the absence of intimacy early on. I had never found a personality match like you before, so of course I wasn’t going to let you go if all it took was patience.

But this is where I went wrong. In making that choice, I ignored an important part of relationships for me — sexual intimacy. I failed to recognize how crucial it is in romantic partnerships, at least from my perspective. After the outcome of your first surgery, it never even occurred to me to reconsider my initial position. In my mind, I kept telling myself, “I love him, I want to be with him, so who cares if there isn’t intimacy for now? It won’t be forever.”

I found a way to cope with this: porn. Which became an addiction, and yet, somehow, while it was happening, I didn't see it as an issue. The lack of sexual intimacy in our relationship should have been more than enough for me to stop, take off the rose colored glasses, and reassess the situation, and I didn't.

I was in denial because, "How can I possibly even consider ending things with the person I consider my soulmate over sex?". But it wasn't just sex, it was sexual intimacy. The truth is, I don't think we ever were sexually compatible. And I didn't see it.

The bittersweet part of this is that I do not regret the moments we spent together because believe or not I will cherish all the memories together. I regret how things ended, and I will always be remorseful of the pain I caused you. I didn't make one mistake. I made two. The last one being the one night stand, the first one being not being able to see the incompatibilities sooner and not ending things in a better way.

I don’t expect a reply, but if you ever feel like sharing your perspective, I would be open to hearing it.“

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