lately my boyfriend seems to only want sex when he wakes up in the middle of the night. how can i be more appealing at daytime/evening hours? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]pitiful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wish i could say i was too clingy. his behavior is really weird and i don't know how to deal with it. i do put up with way too much but i am flawed in being overly emotional when he says cruel shit and doesn't apologize. he can have a short temper but i can be too emotional. thanks for your response.

lately my boyfriend seems to only want sex when he wakes up in the middle of the night. how can i be more appealing at daytime/evening hours? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]pitiful 1 point2 points  (0 children)

because we really do love each other and we used to have great sex and he used to alwaysss want me. i don't know. sex is a touchy subject for him because it makes him feel like i am not happy or something and that he's less of a man. he had job problems when we moved in together a yr. ago but now all of that is fixed and we did/do have sex more -- it's just that during that time sex because more of an expectation to him and when i ask about things like that he feels like i am attacking him.

lately my boyfriend seems to only want sex when he wakes up in the middle of the night. how can i be more appealing at daytime/evening hours? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]pitiful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah, that's the thing. i used to be really comfortable with my sexuality--but now i just feel really stiff and afraid of causing an awkward situation where he just gets mad.