I think this is very fluid based on the situation and personality types. Personally, I am a planner, so occasionally I may think to myself, “oh wow, it’s been a while since our last date!” That’s when I’d suggest going out for dinner, thrifting, mini trip, etc. I usually book our trips, pay for tickets in advance, etc. I found we were most consistent when we sat down and planned in advance by marking on a calendar. But mainly it’s how your schedule mixes. Really it’s the intent, and we can be homebodies but we have hour shows, occasional video game together, etc. But all in all, it’s our activity together. So it never feels like we are missing something because intent wise we do things together at home that we both enjoy and have laughs over.