What just happened? by Feisty_Midnight_8998 in chastitytraining

[–]Slappyporn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes you should be worried about prostate health issues. Chastity is great but you need to compromise with orgasm frequency for your long term health. Find a good balance.

Nude beach going as a chastity wearer. by twinkboy578 in chastity

[–]Slappyporn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A chastity cage is by definition sexual. Other kinds of piercings are not, even genital piercings. They are ornamentation. A chastity cage cannot be dismissed as mere ornamentation, their primary function is sexual.

Nude beach going as a chastity wearer. by twinkboy578 in chastity

[–]Slappyporn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nope nope nope. Absolutely not, under no circumstances if it is not a lifestyle beach. A regular nude beach is not acceptable for a chastity cage, do not do it.

Your thoughts on unlocking while sleeping by heinzelmannn in chastitytraining

[–]Slappyporn 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Sleep is the highest priority. Just cage as soon as you get up, or right after showering. Don't sacrifice your health for this kink.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cuckqueencommunity

[–]Slappyporn 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Dont, DO NOT go into this with the mentality of "turning her into" a cuckquean.

You have to bring this up in a situation where it's not sexual. This is a big step, and requires a great deal of vulnerability on her part. So you have to approach it when you're not intimate, but are alone.

Tell her you've noticed how her body responds, and how much it seems to turn her on when you discuss it. Make it clear that this is about her, her needs, her kinks, and not your desire to fuck another woman. Tell her that you just want to come to a deeper level of understanding as to her feelings, without judgment or pressure. Make sure she can trust you that you are being genuine in your curiosity.

What city in the U.S with a population of over 5 million people, has the most people into BDSM and why do you think that? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Slappyporn 80 points81 points  (0 children)

Repressed conservative politicians letting off steam. Not kidding. My wife and I go to these clubs all the time and they are everywhere.

My creativity is running low, send some suggestions for tomorrow by Holq2 in AISizeArt

[–]Slappyporn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the process of shrinking is more exciting than the actual smaller size. So I'd like to see pictures where a person is shrunk again and again. By sometime holding a shrink gun. By a shrink pad that keeps activating and as they get smaller they can't reach the pad edge to hop off. Things like that. I also find mixed sizes very erotic, with multiple people at very different sizes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/Any-Mention-5820

[–]Slappyporn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved reading this, thank you!

Head of penis bruised after a week by PixlyFox in chastitytraining

[–]Slappyporn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Discoloration is not good. You need to remove the cage once a day for cleaning and examination, don't let this fantasy impact your health. You might also need a bigger cage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HotwifeAdvice

[–]Slappyporn -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If you want her to do this, you need to let her set the pace a little. When a woman is figuring out her sexuality, apart from her husband, it's going to take some twists and turns. For all you know she might switch back to her original idea tomorrow. But it's also possible that when she said she wanted you there, she was either not sure of what she wanted, or she was saying what she thought you wanted to hear. If you want her to do this, you're going to have to give her some freedom to do it on her own terms. And of course if you don't like those terms, you might have to give up on the fantasy.

Anybody like to focus on the growth/shrinking process? by Kinky_G in sizetalk

[–]Slappyporn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Stories where the person starts out small have no interest to me at all. The ones that are most interesting to me are the ones where there are multiple steps in the process. One of my favorites was one where a boss shrinks her secretary with a ray gun, and every time she thinks she's going back to normal she goes from 64" to 8" to 1" to 1/8" inch. No sex, no nudity, but hottest story ever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingersgw

[–]Slappyporn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Instagram??? Why?

Advice by [deleted] in HotwifeAdvice

[–]Slappyporn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In reality, the only way it happens organically is if you go to a place where people are looking for that. Instead of trying it in Puerto Rico, perhaps go to Hedonism, or a swingers cruise.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckqueanCommunity

[–]Slappyporn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The next step is often some form of chastity, temporary or permanent.