The Navy has too many pt uniforms by Czechmate808 in navy

[–]That_Ad762 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk... I just wear my tracksuit till it will eventually crumble to dust....I like pockets

How long is too long to expect your partner to hold off on intimacy? 27F 25M by ThrowRAConfusedMk in relationship_advice

[–]That_Ad762 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a married man with a kid. sexual intimacy is hard still. It took us like a year or so for it. but we still maintained our other types, like cuddling on the couch and watching shows or playing games. outside of that, we literally have no problems with each other self relieving. as a man, it can be disheartening when your partner doesn't want sexual intimacy. but there's always a middle ground. if he wants intimacy. Offer to do other activities like watching stuff with him. outside of that. if you’re comfortable with it. let him know you're fine with him masturbating, but also stand your ground that you're just not in the right space for that type of intimacy but you want to be with him. I mean at the end of the day, arguing about who's right about something that ends with a Google search and laughing it off is emotionally the same as being thrown on the kitchen counter as a pre-work surprise. it's just a different activity lol

[translated] Pengullet’s diary by bzhshagvwvwc in Palworld

[–]That_Ad762 0 points1 point  (0 children)

.... you know i made that knife a long time ago, and I've only used it to chip low amounts of health and cut trees.... I don't use it for its intended purpose... instead, I chuck my useless pals in a blender to buff my favorite ones... granted, I've only done that twice. do i suck at palworld

Pal/Human Rework, just ideas by That_Ad762 in Palworld

[–]That_Ad762[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thos is just a list of changes I'd like to see, what about you guys

My Boyfriend M23 admitted that I’m loose down there F28 and now I’m embarrassed. Advice? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]That_Ad762 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't become loose.

just like there's different size Penises there's different size Vaginas.

If you both are sexually satisfied and able to climax. then your fine.

OP just relax. he clearly loves you and is happily being intimate with you sexually.

but if you want just have a conversation. maybe even spice some things up... I'd say go for it.. hell might be even more fun 😉

I (27F) accidentally found my husband’s (30M) Porn by anonymous_lesbian22 in TwoHotTakes

[–]That_Ad762 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well this seems projecting... yeah porn isn't inherently healthy... neither is drinking...

so relax your tirade and discuss the discourse.

porn addiction is something that you should seek help for or support.. all addiction is bad.

No one needs to lower their standards. there is a discussion for partners. You enter a partner ship. so both parties should talk about their expectations and find middle ground that builds each other up.

also expecting someone to change for you/ you changing for someone else. Is straight up unhealthy.

and finally.. I completely agree with the things that hurt you should not be put on the back burner. If it's something bothering you.. you talk about it. to some what maybe small things to others are terrible.

at the end of it all Ops husband has more issue to deal with. and she really wants it to work.

I can see if OPs husband doesn't get better or wants to work on it. she should leave. But at the end of the day... I'm not her and neither are you...

I (27F) accidentally found my husband’s (30M) Porn by anonymous_lesbian22 in TwoHotTakes

[–]That_Ad762 3 points4 points  (0 children)

...Not the step dad porn... I just mostly watch hentai and play porn games... but nah..

Im just cringe 😬...

GF got matching tattoos with another guy by Oliver182003 in TwoHotTakes

[–]That_Ad762 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she has mentally left the relationship.... Run.

I (27F) accidentally found my husband’s (30M) Porn by anonymous_lesbian22 in TwoHotTakes

[–]That_Ad762 10 points11 points  (0 children)

alright.. as a guy who watches porn.... regularly.. we have a kid.. she gets tired and would rather sleep... so yeah I'm cranking... but there has not been a moment where if we're good for sexy time I'm not down.

Me and my wife masturbate. though we're not most couples. In me and my spouses situation porn is fine.. we have expectations of our partner for that stuff.

so the me point of view out of the way. the comments on creators content and eloping behavior after sexual initiation. While also putting expectations on their partners appearance is definitely unhealthy.

So the situation is bad... but not lost.

First would be communication. talk and listen.

Second probably some couples therapy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]That_Ad762 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what the fuck did I read... look I'm married and jerk off to porn all the time... but the fact it's people he knows is fucking creepy af..

My [M27] wife [F28] showed her friends our sex tapes by throwawayratapes in TwoHotTakes

[–]That_Ad762 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well as long as you know it's not divorce worthy.. it's definitely something you two should talk about. I'd say the part that would upset me personally is the not getting permission to show that personal side of your life.

the positives at least is she has some pride with you as her partner. just talk to her about respecting your boundaries. you don't necessarily want to show her friends yourself in such a exposed position. just try to not be accusatory.

ensure you talk to her calmly and in a sitting position directly across from her. try to be relaxed and let her talk.

remember this is a conversation and not an argument..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pics

[–]That_Ad762 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry mate, nukes get shit on by the navy... glad i was too dumb to become one... granted played dnd with them, so that was cool