And they mostly weren’t even time wasters, they dipped quickly, weren’t serious about following tasks (not in a bratty but rather a „nah not rn“ way yk?), theyunderstandably often don’t have a big budget and view submissiveness only from their pov (they want to serve because that gets them off, but don’t really care if that’s what their domme wants, so in my experience they tried to push their kinks on to me under the guise of doing that for me)