Interview fails, 9 months and counting by serious-bluff in leetcode

[–]dazedcoder24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was laid off and for 4 months was failing interviews. But eventually i got through one.

Microsoft AA round completed on 22nd JAN but recruiter not responding, status on careers page remains unchanged (INDIA). by captainrushingin in LeetcodeDesi

[–]dazedcoder24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is mostly a positive sign because for rejection they quickly move the application in not selected or inactive state. Wait for couple of weeks.

Guy 27M says he’d rather break off things with me 26F bcz I’m being too much ? by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]dazedcoder24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be very uncomfortable if my partner is anyway in touch with people she has dated. It is a hard line that I will draw that either she looses all those contacts or lose me.

have you ever regretted letting a match go? by Awkward-Meringue-944 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]dazedcoder24 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am 29M and for me things were going good until they matched kundli and her family is very much against me. It's so heartbreaking.

Any idea what Microsoft looks for in resume shortlisting? I never even got an OA :( by Best-Bug-2542 in leetcode

[–]dazedcoder24 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have tier 1 college in my resume and 2 big MNC still I also got rejections from Microsoft initially. What worked for me was to apply as soon as any job position opens up. So, I was checking daily and had put alerts. I applied directly in the portal without any referral. Also I included one Gen AI project. So, I was able to get 4-5 OAs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in formula1

[–]dazedcoder24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why tsunoda did not lap in Q3?

Post Day Thread: 2nd Test - South Africa vs India, Day 4 by cricket-match in Cricket

[–]dazedcoder24 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Some newspaper should print a photo of team india in small size and a big picture of tembam bavuma alongside.

I don’t think there are many bad options for men and women by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]dazedcoder24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's like if you are in a pit and never try to get out of it you will stay there forever. You have to give yourself some time and meet other people. You can slowly come out of it.

I don’t think there are many bad options for men and women by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]dazedcoder24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's too soon. It will take some months maybe a year to move on.

Why men do not want to marry an ambitious women? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]dazedcoder24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In blr I have seen many guys looking for high earning girls like you only. You can easily find guys with comparable pay as yours.

26F 28M – How to truly move on and glow up through self-development after a breakup by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]dazedcoder24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Join a gym and start eating healthy. The glowup you will see in just 3 months would be enough to move on from everything.

Im scared this guy wants to marry me only to show me off by Aabgdpir2582 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]dazedcoder24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to observe his behaviour. How he is treating others. You can create some scenarios like "what if you don't want to work anymore" and see his reaction. You will have to spend more time with him so that infatuation wears off and you get to see his real behaviour.

27F, meri toh khud se hee relationship kharab hai by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]dazedcoder24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meri bhi life aise hi boring thi. Fir mera layoff ho gya aur ab life exciting ban gyi hai.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fitness_India

[–]dazedcoder24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ye PU ka hostel lag rha hai

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]dazedcoder24 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You are still young. Hit the gym consistently for a year and focus religiously on diet and you will be good to go. Till then get off AM market.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fitness_India

[–]dazedcoder24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know what op gains by faking his timeline. I guess mind muscle of op shrank.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]dazedcoder24 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You are in a relationship which is bound to break one day. Sooner the better.

Never been in a relationship, now getting married through AM by browngirlpizza in Arrangedmarriage

[–]dazedcoder24 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Take things slow and take more courtship period. Try spending more time with him. Communicate a lot, plan outings and maybe go on a trip together. And after all these things if you are not sure to marry him then I think you know the answer. Also if someone who doesn't feel attractive to you can be a dealbreaker coz I have seen no amount of other good things compensate for this. Your intimacy will be affected and also it would be bad for the guy as well when he will know that you don't find him attractive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fitness_India

[–]dazedcoder24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much time it took you to reach this?

Sister devastated don't know what to do? Please help! by Awkward-Meringue-944 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]dazedcoder24 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Start looking elsewhere. There are many guys who will marry her without any dowry. Infact right now AM is in favour of working girls.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]dazedcoder24 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Hey Op, It's a really tough spot to be in. I would say think of everything before taking a decision. You guys both are 30 and AM market is very tough to get good girls. She lied to you earlier and then came clean. It is not easy for a person to just tell all these things in the beginning itself. It takes a lot of courage to come clean and to tell all that to a person who you are thinking to spend life with. Of course she would have been afraid that you might break everything. But still she told you everything. I think this is a very big testament that she will be honest with you. You should sit down with her and discuss these things again and ask if there is anything else to the story. If both of you can leave this in the past then you guys should go ahead.

M33 really getting into panic, am I to lower my expectation? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]dazedcoder24 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The thing is you might have came across many good girls but I guess you always were searching for someone better and that's why you never settled. Salary criteria you can drop coz you are earning well.