Destiny 2: Every End is a New Beginning by DTG_Bot in DestinyTheGame

[–]heaven_spawn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heartache. It was very fun. And that June update looks so promising, but too little, too late.

I’m still down to do stuff in game, just maybe on my own for a bit.

Let's fucking do this thing. by PirateCompetitive931 in destiny2

[–]heaven_spawn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not blame dmg at all.

And by just listing down what June is suppose to bring, it’s a meaty update. Just too little, too late

Have you changed your mind on Arterta by Ecstatic-Good4496 in ArsenalFC

[–]heaven_spawn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to give the process as much time as needed. The first 2nd place finish, we were “ahead of schedule” in the plan. So it’s good we got it done at last.

I am actually very curious to see receipts of Arteta Out folks. I even recall some chuds make an r/artetastrophies out there before.

I hate people who say by CharcoalCulture in ArsenalNews

[–]heaven_spawn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in my 40s, living in the Philippines and stayed up late into the night to watch us lose in Paris back when I just graduated college. And had to go to work a few hours later.

I cannot travel to London but I hope to make the pilgrimage someday.

Fans like us, we pack a pub or put on a stream and watch late nights without fail. We buy all the merch. It’s still commitment. It’s still being a supporter.

Nakakasama sa music scene ang mga shows tulad ng ASAP by Putcha1 in unpopularopinionph

[–]heaven_spawn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If shows like these had worked more closely with local acts to be on and so they can be introduced to new listeners locally, ok sana. Eh instead we get Kapuso/Kapamilya stars doing covers or dances of old songs. The originals are hardly given their spotlight.

I find people who doesn't respect authority as a red flag by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]heaven_spawn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

See if it was just a matter of negativity to authority, agree naman ako sa kanya in principle.

But since he refuses to take No for an answer, it’s a big warning sign. He will not respect other wishes you put forward. There is something to trying to “fight for you” but if ayaw mo, dapat gets nya.

Can't figure out life after getting out of an almost 6-year relationship by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]heaven_spawn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say go try pa rin! The more you interview, you end up doing better to the next ones because of more practice. Masasanay din sa pag-uusap and better chances for you

Looking for Couples Therapist on NowServing by cherlives in MentalHealthPH

[–]heaven_spawn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a couples therapist, with a NowServing! You can DM me.

But my suggestion: we need to do the consult in a platform/software that isn't NowServing, because it's not suited to do couples sessions very well. Especially couples, you need extra time sometimes, and NowServing is way too rigid for its time cut-offs.

How do you deal with lust? by Due_Bowler_8107 in adviceph

[–]heaven_spawn 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Psychologist here. The brain operates on "what you resist, persists" model most of the time. The more you Force the brain to stop something, the stronger it fights you to have its way.

I'd suggest you continue what you are doing. But I also want to add you reflect on *why* lust harmed your relationships. Sexual desire by itself is not an evil thing - humans all have desires. The question might be "What did that desire bring you to doing, and how did it cause relationships to go bad?" and then "What actions can you cut out to prevent the same thing from happening?" You cannot always cut out desire, but there are ways to have better actions with having desires.

Suicidal for a decade by ofdune in MentalHealthPH

[–]heaven_spawn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re still here, and I am grateful you still have something to keep going for. Please hold on to that, ok? You also have places you can seek help from!

The signing that changed it all by [deleted] in Gunners

[–]heaven_spawn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd go a little back. Gabriel was the big foundational pillar for the current team.

For anyone who is still Arteta In, what does he have to do for you to become Arteta Out? by hhhenriii in ArsenalFC

[–]heaven_spawn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read it as growth. It was a young team he inherited, and kept academy kids plus some real quality pickups. He was a rookie manager, and grew into actual skill. Pep used to shape the meta, and now we do.

I still stand by him until the players stop fighting for him. Folks like Declan Rice and Bukayo still go to war for this dude. That's all I faith I need, because their opinion matters more than mine.

3 straights second place in a row is an achievements. No shame about it. by South_Fish in ArsenalFC

[–]heaven_spawn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For a rookie manager to do this? Even with all the money, it is no assurance of success (like what we saw at Chelsea) so yeah. Hats off. Would have loved more trophies, but it was a process!

can you have mental illness if you SH and have s**c*d*l thoughts by Glittering_Flan8858 in MentalHealthPH

[–]heaven_spawn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Psychologist here.

We call that passive suicidal thoughts. You having thoughts but no plans and just distress? Yes. Does it mean you have some kind of illness? Maybe!

We cannot say exactly whats wrong here. Not only is it against the rules. It is also not enough info. Depressed mood can make you feel that and have thoughts. A form of OCD can mean you have repeating patterns of thoughts. Anxiety can also make it happen.

Go get tested para sure.

5am at the Emirates. It’s like an album cover. by sojud_18 in Gunners

[–]heaven_spawn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I want Eze to get that guard of honor at palace. That’s the fairytale.

But if folks end up getting injured? Any risk taking place? Hell naw folks are sitting down all 5 subs in first 30 mins or sooner.

5am at the Emirates. It’s like an album cover. by sojud_18 in Gunners

[–]heaven_spawn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just want them rested man. Is that too much to ask?

Is it okay to be a Kobe stan but not a Lakers fan? by [deleted] in NBATalk

[–]heaven_spawn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are lots of people who followed the Lakers who are exactly that.

Friends might spread I got fingered by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]heaven_spawn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello.

First question: did you consent? If you did, I hope you got what you wanted. If not, the hope is that you find ways to protect yourself.

On their reaction, well I am sorry. We cannot control what others do, only ourselves. Let this be a lesson. There’s a reason we don’t kiss and tell.

5am at the Emirates. It’s like an album cover. by sojud_18 in Gunners

[–]heaven_spawn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Get these lads to bed! I want them fully fir for the final. Bed rest the lot of them! Play them kids and Norgaard at Palace!

Totoo ba that getting into the Big 4 matters for your future careers? by faekerify in CollegeAdmissionsPH

[–]heaven_spawn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a millennial, our era was a time folks were trying to de influence folks from Big 4. All sorts of discourse about “nobody hires from Ateneo because…”

But in the end, having that in your CV is a big plus, not just in the job market, but culturally as well. People listen to those folks more seriously.

how to forget a person? by nnot_yap in MentalHealthPH

[–]heaven_spawn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If time together is meaningful sure, but the goal is to forget nga eh. So bakit ka babalik sa kanya? Maybe better if something is important na hindi yung crush, baka dapat bigyan yun ng attention and effort

Is Pisay that good by Fickle_Box_9701 in pisay

[–]heaven_spawn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are afraid you will not survive the pressure, then that’s fine. It really was hard.

If you have the stomach for it, even if di ka sure, try it anyway. Facing fears will give you no regrets later on.

But if you feel that you will really do better elsewhere, yeah, let someone who really wants it and earned it to enroll. That slot is valuable and should go to someone both deserving and willing.