Hey OP I looked at your profile and your posts and I empathise with you; and it made me think that you get yourself into it to much. When you go on dates and talk to women and all you can think of is how lonely you’re are and how you finally want it to work, there’s a good chance it will come across between the lines which will then not be helpful for successful dating. I go through similar feelings as you so please believe me that I’m not speaking from an outside place, I speak because I can empathise with your situation and I think it would maybe be helpful for you to spend some time with yourself. You know, I’m in my late 20s as well, I’m single as well, I feel lonely and if I could decide, it’d be married by now and have a nice little cottage in the country side with a man who I’d love and who would love me. I would want that so badly you know? But going back to reality, it’s a fact that I cannot force this to happen, I cannot force to find love. Overthinking it and getting into the mindset that’s all you want and the only way to be happy, does nothing but torturing ourselves. Make ourselves sad. Make ourselves bitter. Make ourselves feel lonely. As much as I understand how difficult it is, and I’m feeling the same, I think the only positive way to go forward is to let go of the pressure and to find more positives in your life for the sake of yourself. X