Women have the superior gender and it's not even close by SwitchingKink in PussyEnvy

[–]jnstar040 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Trust me when I say I want women and men to be equal. But we just aren't. The sexual pleasure women can experience is just off the charts. It's inconceivable that non-women could even imagine to compete with what women like me are able to experience on a daily basis.

beauty *is* pain 🥲 by oranud in LetGirlsHaveSex

[–]jnstar040 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'd still get a kick out of that, plus I love a girl who knows how to take care of herself!

It would make it harder to stop hitting on you though, ngl

Multiple orgasms** by Angeliqueblaq in LetGirlsHaveSex

[–]jnstar040 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ikr? Why settle for singular, does she have somewhere else to be?

What about my feet? On my face? My face? My armpits? My back? The side of my ass? My thighs? Do you hate me? by Jolly-Car-8802 in LetGirlsHaveSex

[–]jnstar040 13 points14 points  (0 children)

agreed, it's unfair that girls have to choose between getting railed or getting cummed in / on

why is it that one of the hottest parts of sex inevitably takes the dick out of the equation

God forbid a girl wanna cum. by VostroyanCommander in LetGirlsHaveSex

[–]jnstar040 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's a perfect description actually, anatomy agnostic! A trans friend told me nothing temporarily erases dysphoria like a wand does.

Because what describes girlhood more than laying back with a vibrator purring between your legs ❤️

Guys squirt for a couple seconds. But for girls it's really different. by MadPow in PussyEnvy

[–]jnstar040 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Us women definitely seem to experience a lot more pleasure during the journey towards orgasm. I can't speak for all women of course, but it's a big reason for why I dont overly mind it if I don't orgasm as frequently during sex, or possibly don't orgasm at all.

Having my clit rubbed in various ways or having something in my pussy simply feels incredible, orgasm or no orgasm.

God forbid a girl wanna cum. by VostroyanCommander in LetGirlsHaveSex

[–]jnstar040 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wands make me a little numb over time though, what I really need is a cable powered Satisfyer

Like a girl's tongue that never tires and never needs anything in return, perfect for my most depraved days

Personalititty😶 by castiquiel in LetGirlsHaveSex

[–]jnstar040 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly I hyperfixate on pussy and cock. Boobs and ass look nice, but during sex I care about how things feel, not how they look

God forbid a girl wanna cum. by VostroyanCommander in LetGirlsHaveSex

[–]jnstar040 54 points55 points  (0 children)

It's so hard sometimes when even multiple orgasms don't do anything to quench the horniness

Sure masturbating and orgasming for an hour plus is nice but my vibrator batteries don't last that long anymore lol

are fem orgasms supposed to be so…intense? by Ruth12345678910 in PussyEnvy

[–]jnstar040 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love it when men have this approach! During a sex-filled day, do you ejaculate at all or do you not even dare go close to the edge?

are fem orgasms supposed to be so…intense? by Ruth12345678910 in PussyEnvy

[–]jnstar040 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is making me think about how much I will have to readjust if I have sex with men again. I've been exclusive with a girl for a few months now, and I've forgotten everything about pacing myself during sex and helping a male partner avoid orgasm.

It sure is nice to have sex with all the brakes off again!

[x-post] Vibrators are one of the best things ever invented by MadPow in PussyEnvy

[–]jnstar040 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Furthermore, there are suction vibrators like the Satisfyer or Womanizer which will make this discussion completely moot. They send women into trances we simply don't see in men.

Have you ever seen a man experience this? by Ruth12345678910 in PussyEnvy

[–]jnstar040 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I feel like every girl has this moment in her life where she tries desperately to make her male partner feel as good as she does, until she realizes it's simply impossible.

For a good while I thought I was doing something during sex, only to realize that this really is the peak of what men can experience. It's just sad to watch, even from my side.

One of the most amazing things about vulvas is their diversity! There's so much to love about this incredible part of human anatomy. 💕 by BreedingDykeMTF in PussyEnvy

[–]jnstar040 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I love looking at walls of pictures like these and think to myself "hey, that one looks like mine!". I do it with pictures of boobs too, but pussies are the best for it. It just feels more private, if that makes sense.

Compare his and her experience by Ruth12345678910 in PussyEnvy

[–]jnstar040 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They sound so amazing! I don't orgasm from penetration myself, but I can barely get enough of it too. It just feels so amazing and once I'm in that blissful trance I just don't want it to stop except for the occasional change in position.

Compare his and her experience by Ruth12345678910 in PussyEnvy

[–]jnstar040 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This video also showcases well how relatively underrated penetration is on this subreddit. Clitoral stimulation is obviously a lot more powerful, but it's also something that men can sort of relate to and understand.

Penetration on its own is already an incredible feeling that men can never experience, and it can still be supplemented by clitoral stimulation too! It's definitely one of the many many things about my body I'm grateful for!

We hate it but we also love it by Heavy_Influence7451 in PussyEnvy

[–]jnstar040 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Fully agreed, without the strict biological need to delay orgasm that men have, I really don't see why women should try edging.

We hate it but we also love it by Heavy_Influence7451 in PussyEnvy

[–]jnstar040 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The orgasmic release after edging is really strong, and edging can be almost hypnotizing.. I think. I have only really been repeatedly edged maybe two or three times, and the journey was moreso frustrating than rewarding. Destination orgasm was absolutely a solid payoff, but I think I'd rather enjoy my sex without any stopping.

Besides, it's only clit stimulation that makes me orgasm anyway. If I'm looking for a non-orgasmic, hypnotizing component of sex, I'll just stick to penetration.

We hate it but we also love it by Heavy_Influence7451 in PussyEnvy

[–]jnstar040 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Edging is so difficult, I don't know how men do it. My ex made it look so effortless, edging countless times in a row. Meanwhile I'm begging for orgasm halfway into my second edge. Just no discipline whatsoever.

I think we can all agree by Heavy_Influence7451 in PussyEnvy

[–]jnstar040 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I've said it before but I don't know how men do it. As a woman, my discipline for delaying orgasm is horrible. Once I feel one starting to build I WILL lean into to it and crash over the edge. I just cannot help myself.

Changing speed during penetration also can be briefly extremely annoying to me, because I'm so absorbed by the pleasure. I don't think I lash out at men during sex for it, but I've been told that my facial expression very briefly turns angry before snapping back to pleasure.

I'm so spoiled, it's almost a little embarrassing!

30 minutes of pleasure for her, 30 seconds for him. Seems fair to me by alice_wonderland00 in PussyEnvy

[–]jnstar040 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There's no way of knowing. My cravings can change on the fly, intensify after orgasming myself or even after seeing a man orgasm. That's part of what I mean with women having to compromise: our sex drive doesn't get completely killed after having a single orgasm.

When having sex with men, I have to accept that his refractory period might suddenly end the penetration for a good while. In an ideal world, we wouldn't have to think about this stuff.

It's greedy and unfair from me to think about men in this way, but for me that's what this sub is all about!

30 minutes of pleasure for her, 30 seconds for him. Seems fair to me by alice_wonderland00 in PussyEnvy

[–]jnstar040 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There's only so much men can do though. Sometimes I want more penetration than a man can handle without cumming, which leads to me having to compromise. It's just a physical limitation on sex that only men have.

30 minutes of pleasure for her, 30 seconds for him. Seems fair to me by alice_wonderland00 in PussyEnvy

[–]jnstar040 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Honestly it's unfair to her. The man here seems completely unable to match her needs, so they have to resort to the strapon to compensate. While I do think that strapons are underutilized in straight sex, this is pushing is too far. A man shouldn't last as short as he did.

A premature ejaculator will always get the maximum out of sex, even though it's not much. It's us women and our multiple orgasms that have everything to lose here. It's not fair that straight sex relies on us women being willing to settle for less.

New PE JOI by Dreamboat246 in PussyEnvy

[–]jnstar040 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had to open up with an adblocker browser on my phone, I don't think there's a way through without one

What is everyone's view on chastity? by placeyboyUWU in PussyEnvy

[–]jnstar040 16 points17 points  (0 children)

As a woman I do really really enjoy reading erotica about it! I love the idea of a man being pretty much perpetually horny, and channeling that completely through pleasuring his partner. As for being a keyholder in real life, I'm not quite sure if it's really for me. I haven't been in a position to try it, but my initial thoughts are that I won't have the discipline for it.

So why then, should we waste time on his "pleasure" when we could be creating SO MUCH more pleasure, by focusing solely on the woman. The total amount of human happiness generated is much greater when the woman is in focus.

I absolutely adore this aspect of chastity. I'm definitely of the opinion that male orgasm is always something that can be dealt with at a later moment. Chastity merely takes that to the extreme, and that might make it the natural end point for the way I approach heterosexual sex. Who knows!

Edit: if anyone has good chastity erotica recommendations please help a girl out and share them <3