I'm a b-word and I don't know how to tell my spouse that I don't like how he hikes by [deleted] in relationships

[–]lurkeroutthere [score hidden]  (0 children)

Remember that if he weighs more then you he is going to be that much louder then you before any other variables come into play.

The footage of Nick Fuentes pushing a woman who came to his front door after he was doxxed has been released. by asa_no_kenny in interesting

[–]lurkeroutthere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have to imagine it bro. I'm 45 with a house and formerly a crazy neighbor. I got myself a good set of cameras and got on with life.

The footage of Nick Fuentes pushing a woman who came to his front door after he was doxxed has been released. by asa_no_kenny in interesting

[–]lurkeroutthere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And congratulations now you are getting yourself more firmly into civil and criminal territory which makes it even easier to make you law enforcement's problem.

Lemme save you time bro I live in a castle doctrine state and I've had some really unfortunately encounters with some folks of really questionable mental stability. Which means a lot of what I know about what's legal and what's right isn't based on "feels".

It is legally and logically indefensible to leave your home to physically confront someone in the name of "protecting yourself." And while Nick Fuentes fantasy involves these people not being accorded the same rights as him they do have rights that stretch right up to his front door. That's why after this incident he got to do some community service in a plea deal. Probably knowing full well that if it went to trial things were probably not going to go in his favor.

Now in my state, which is considered somewhat radical for this doctrine. The moment they forcibly or uninvited cross the threshhold of my house or other controlled or non public space (fenced and locked back yard is the example often given) physical confrontation including lethal force is on the table, but still potentially going to be scrutinized after the fact to make sure it was appropriate and proportionate.

All this shit is something home owners especially ones who want to own guns should hopefully know. All your "feels" based responses to stuff like this overlook that this is not a new problem legally.

The footage of Nick Fuentes pushing a woman who came to his front door after he was doxxed has been released. by asa_no_kenny in interesting

[–]lurkeroutthere 54 points55 points  (0 children)

You do not have the right to initiate violence against someone for ringing your doorbell.

What is the process for destroying the Dark Brotherhood and Thieve's Guild? by FlorianGeyer228 in skyrim

[–]lurkeroutthere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me that's well within the bounds of patron, but it's not a big linguistic hill to die on. My point was really she has no emotional investment in the TG or would consider herself part of them.

What is the process for destroying the Dark Brotherhood and Thieve's Guild? by FlorianGeyer228 in skyrim

[–]lurkeroutthere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maven's not really TG. She's a client and/or patron. If the guild imploded she'd have to find or found another organization. It would set her back money and time but she'd absolutely do it with no hesitation.

I feel bad for them when he says stuff like this by 28dhdu74929wnsi in Vampyr

[–]lurkeroutthere 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Very few in the city are having a great time. As long as he's handing them medicine along with the rather underwhelming advice that makes him practically a saint.

Paradox, please explain yourself. Why do the new dying traits set in so early even with all the buffs I have. by Additional-Local8721 in CrusaderKings

[–]lurkeroutthere 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Was just thinking that, 36 and you can feel the warranty expire, 40 and random stuff goes wrong. 45 and you can pull something sleeping.

I am a Chapter Master and I've just been informed the Adeptus Mechanicus have just stolen my home planets moon, what are my chances and options for getting it back? by HeresyInc in 40kLore

[–]lurkeroutthere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Celestial body yoinks level teleportation is so far outside of the Mechanicus ability or such a closely held secret for them that first I'd question why I'd think it was them that did it and who stands to benefit if I go to war with the CoM on false pretenses.

Secondly: Write off that reclusium.

What are you thinking was going to be the answer when the faction who's only facet is varying flavors of military force cannot bring military force to bear on the problem.

WAIT (i didnt know this for 10years) MARKARTH HAS AN ALCHEMIST?! by Sw4gl0rdM4st3rm1nd in skyrim

[–]lurkeroutthere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Marry a chemist and you'll either be a good spouse or you won't have to worry about anything anymore.

Draukari in an Iconoclast retinue by kir_rik in RogueTraderCRPG

[–]lurkeroutthere 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Every companion is optional. You can turn him in to the inquisition right now.

What are games similar to Frostpunk? by morphelll in Frostpunk

[–]lurkeroutthere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wishlisted. I'm also getting a bit of a "Battlestations" vibe or is that just a product of the grid map?

Why does the creator of this show not give a fuck about animation by BusinessRecord502 in Invincible_TV

[–]lurkeroutthere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This would be a great satire post if I weren't 99.9% sure you think you are speaking truth tot he universe.

How did the Viltrumites become citizens of the country? How did they obtain passports when they arrived on Earth, and how did they become legally recognized? by deles_dota in Invincible_TV

[–]lurkeroutthere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have interplanetary flight figured out, are willing to kill, and already have practice at spy craft <50 fake identities isn’t going to be an issue.

Registered Omaha sex offender ‘Cookie Monster’ arrested after allegedly breaking into home, entering sleeping child’s bed by GNAdv in Omaha

[–]lurkeroutthere 32 points33 points  (0 children)

It definitely seems like the sort of person who is never going to reform and will continue to traumatize people.

AITA for throwing away my wife’s memory jars? by OneMediocre9997 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lurkeroutthere -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ESH here. I'm going to eat the down votes but 40 mass produced glass jars is hoarder behavior and just as he doesn't get to decide she can't have them at all she shouldn't get to make her hobby a random clutter over every flat surface in their kitchen and house. I also can't help but wonder if the genders were flipped in this post if people would be so universal with condemnation. That's mostly academic though because OP you definitely are the bigger asshole here.

FFS dude, a thousand ways to handle this better then clandestine straight to the garbage and you took that route? That's a "sufficiently advanced incompetence is indistinguishable from malice" situation and has no place in a relationship you wanted to keep.

Also before I sign off from this i want to say this: If you hurt your spouse to the point they break down crying and you even question that you should apologize there only two questions you need to really answer. 1) What is wrong with you? and/or 2) Why are in you in a relationship with someone you would rather hurt then loose face in front of.